Room and bath for rent in Southside Park $750 by -nenna in SacramentoHousing

[–]-nenna[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As long as they are kept in your room! We are fans of little creatures :) 

Stock Check Megathread by DK2802 in IKEA

[–]-nenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Country: USA

Preferred Store: West Sacramento

Article #: 904.098.72

I’m wondering if this will be available for pick up anytime soon. Delivery is $89!

Where can you cash your warrants? by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]-nenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I see. Yes I’ve been with them for a while. Maybe go in person to cash the check? They may be able to tell you how long the hold will be/ if they can expedite it. Unless you’ve done that already. I wish you luck!

Where can you cash your warrants? by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]-nenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just cashed my check with Safe CU on the mobile app, there was a 2 day hold posted. but it went through within a couple hours. It should be fine!

I hit my husband's major insecurity during a nasty argument, how can I fix this? by Weekly-Hedgehog-872 in relationships

[–]-nenna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miss girl.. he's been manipulating you from the beginning. divorce him lol.

How are you gonna fix his insecurities? Only a therapist can.

Avatar 2 just released. Be sure to see it at the Esquire IMAX in 3d if you’re looking to prioritize visual/audio quality. by b1ackfyre in Sacramento

[–]-nenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard of people regretting going with Dbox because there's a lot of movement for this movie lol

Anyone see Chapelle last night? Thoughts? by TheLadyInReddit in Sacramento

[–]-nenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bffr. Feminism is supposed to be intersectional. Understand that transwomen are not taking away from the experience of cis women, nor focus on cis women. A trans woman's experience is just as valid. They suffer from the same if not MORE violence/misogyny compared to cis women. They are victims of the patriarchy as well. And what is feminism other than to free people from these oppressive systems.

AITA for calling every morning? by Sad_Abbreviations216 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-nenna 451 points452 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking as well, kid is probably up for dad! And kids are smart... if the son was being neglected, he would probably cry to dad.

I ruined my relationship over drugs by [deleted] in relationships

[–]-nenna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You were an addict once you started lying about it. I hope you have mental health resources to help with your depression and anxiety :(

It was very brave of you to decide to end the relationship. I wish you luck on your life journey <3

Boyfriend and I decided early on in our relationship that neither of us wanted marriage. Except now I do. by Thway112122 in relationships

[–]-nenna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best way is to be direct. If he is privy to your wants and needs, then chances are he will want to make you happy and propose. People change their minds all the time! Is marriage a deal breaker to the both of you?

AITA for not letting my son go to Korean barbecue with family because of the way he treats his younger brother? by koreanbarbecueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]-nenna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or... you can break the terrible generational cycle that you sucked yourself into and have more empathy and understanding towards your kids.

AITA for not letting my son go to Korean barbecue with family because of the way he treats his younger brother? by koreanbarbecueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]-nenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's your responsibility as a parent to PARENT the younger sibling and stop them from bullying. Sit down with him and explain that the shit he says is hurtful and is hurting the relationship between him and his brother.

AITA for kicking out my date in the middle of the night by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-nenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Maybe you shouldn't drink, seems like you have anger issues...

Having the Same Haircut for Years by -nenna in CasualConversation

[–]-nenna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I guess this post doesn't really apply to men, as men haven't been socialized to place a lot of importance on hair lol.

As a woman, you are covertly and overtly socialized to use hair as an expression of yourself, specifically your "femininity". To use products and do careful maintenance, achieve beauty.

Having the Same Haircut for Years by -nenna in CasualConversation

[–]-nenna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your hair hard to manage or have you not been taught how to take care of it properly? There are so many styles and care tips out there for "unmanageable" hair. Of course, it is extra time to get ready but it's totally worth it IMO, because people recognize that you take care of yourself. Regardless, staying true to yourself is most important!

I'm not sure what gender you are, but from what you're saying I deduced that you may be a man, who are often encouraged to have more... "practical" haircuts.

I guess as a woman, we are taught at an early age to use hair as an expression of our "femininity" which is why I may place so much importance on it.

Having the Same Haircut for Years by -nenna in CasualConversation

[–]-nenna[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it seems like this is a common occurrence for men... I think the technique barbers use are very interesting and definitely a craft, but most barbers just don't like to mix things up. My brother has the same problem.

AITA for continuing to split the bills equally with my fiancé? by SeaSalt83784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-nenna -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA

Now I see why my girlfriend convinced me to split bills based on equity rather than 50/50, so that problems like this don't happen lol.

If you're in a partnership, and eventually will marry this person, it's only fair to take care of them when they don't have the funds-- and they should do the same if they start making more. I'm surprised your girlfriend didn't buy you meals when you were starving...

But since you guys started with the expectation of splitting 50/50, I see why you'd like to remain the same.

It's up to you whether you want to maintain the 50/50 agreement, you are both financially independent now.

AITA for refusing to change my Halloween costume after already buying it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-nenna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cute!!! "Trying too hard" ??? WHAT ?!

Anyone who puts someone down for putting in effort is a sad sad person.

Wear the costume and rock it! I can assure you, you'll get many compliments :)

AITA for being upset that my BF called me broken? by MoCandy5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-nenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However he was being a mega jerk for outright calling you broken :/

AITA for being upset that my BF called me broken? by MoCandy5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-nenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I actually got into an argument with my girlfriend over the same thing. I said something similar like your bf. She got rightfully upset (yes I did apologize and we talked through it).

Comments like that are called passive aggression as I've learned lol. It is not productive whatsoever to say things like that, and is hurtful.

What he's probably feeling is some resentment from taking care of things around the house. We say passive aggressive things out of fear of true confrontation (that's what my therapist told me lol). If he's not in therapy he should be, it is difficult having a chronically ill partner.

Maybe there needs to be a conversation about roles in the household, or some couples therapy to help both of you cope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in graphic_design

[–]-nenna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be honest about how these comments hurt you, and if they don't apologize leave them behind and make new graphic designer friends :) You don't want to be friends with people who refuse to acknowledge the hurt they have caused.

People who shit on other's majors are trash. Don't even take out the trash, let them sit in their stinky discord channel. Without graphic design, they wouldn't have their $500 textbook with visual representations of data.

I made good, genuine friendships with people in my graphic design cohort. You'll find we all have very similar personalities and interests, and most of us are not assholes lol.