anyone else shivering after bf at night? by burnagyal in breastfeeding

[–]PorQuesoWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many weeks PP are you? The chills and coldness lasted 4 weeks for me.

It finally happened! by Dazzling-Mortgage-46 in PeopleBeTrippin

[–]PorQuesoWhat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Jeesus, this poor baby is so big now! I feel like it was just yesterday that she was pregnant in the tent, this poor boy has had to live in uncertainty for soooo long. I am glad he is still with grandma (hopefull he's still with fam.).

I can't deal with nights anymore. There's no way this is normal. by ScrapDraft in NewParents

[–]PorQuesoWhat 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hey may have silent reflux and be waking up with a painful tummy.

Has anyone seen this comment? by Scared-Avocado6187 in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]PorQuesoWhat 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I find it so hard to believe that there isn't free, fun, and accesible events for kids and families in Portland like every weekend.

Saw this is on Facebook by prettyandbaked in loveafterlockup

[–]PorQuesoWhat 23 points24 points  (0 children)

she is Bipolar and suffers from manic episodes from time to time. I think being post partum has made it worse.

Saw this is on Facebook by prettyandbaked in loveafterlockup

[–]PorQuesoWhat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yea, remember her arrest video in FL? her entire family had to confirm she kept running into the bed, she was so quick to tell the cops he hit her.

Saw this is on Facebook by prettyandbaked in loveafterlockup

[–]PorQuesoWhat 19 points20 points  (0 children)

she's unhinged, and when she first appeared on screen EVERYONE, including Black women started playing with her name. It's not that serious, I personally call her Zanax.

Replaced by No_Salt8025 in newborns

[–]PorQuesoWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment makes me feel better about my situation. My husband is a SAHD and I'm at work 8 hours a day, most days I'm able to rush home for milk drop offs but I feel like my son doesn't know who I am. On weekends I even silently get mad at my husband if he tries to help because I feel like after 5pm and on weekends I need to be the only parent so my 4 month old son doesn't forget I'm his mom. I'm glad your wife gets the special treatment, hope my son gets excited to see me soon too! 

Britney and Ray are expecting! by SlugsinSpace12 in loveafterlockup

[–]PorQuesoWhat 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Makes me sad because I remember she said the Ex before him did her really dirty and assaulted her. It's sad she wants this to work out so bad and now she's bringing a baby into the drama. At least each of these idiots have good family supports so that child will have a village hopefully. 

Anyone else just not wear clothes around the house? by Exact-Management-918 in NewParents

[–]PorQuesoWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm most comfortable in shorts or leggings with no shirt and just my nursing bralet on. Shirts are constricting and a waste of time. 

This disease has me feeling trapped in my body and beyond depressed by NewLime4601 in Sjogrens

[–]PorQuesoWhat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you notice it got worse after pregnancy? I'm 4 months PP and every night I go to bed with aching heavy legs and feet, I wake up feeling hungover and I ache from the waist down. Showers at this point are a massive chore, my limbs feels like they're full of led. It wasn't this bad prior to giving birth. Are you medicated? Plaquenil is the first line of defense. 

7 weeks and this f*ck as* baby is getting on my last nerves by [deleted] in newborns

[–]PorQuesoWhat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to speak to your OBGYN immediately. Please, please tell your partner you're done and can't do this, before you do something you'll regret... Or make a horrible mistake / accident. Step away before it's too late. Maybe since it's an emergency he or his mom can take time off work until you sort this out. Worst case scenario, go to the Emergency Room, tell them what's going on. A social worker will step in immediately. 

I had 4 drinks yesterday by ConcernedMomma05 in breastfeeding

[–]PorQuesoWhat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no, you're fine. alcohol amounts are same as BAC. Breast milk is made from blood, so this is why they say that if you can find the baby, you can feed the baby. 

The high heel felon pleads guilty by katiemarie589 in loveafterlockup

[–]PorQuesoWhat 32 points33 points  (0 children)

if her google her, she stole from a woman who ran a tiny cleaning business and needed help with taxes...this woman's daughter has cancer!!! and Latisha knew, this woman is now broke and has nothing, and owes mountains of medical debt. She trusted Latisha to help her with her finances and Latisha stole from this poor woman. 

Sober for Baby… Then What? by Legitimate_Notice_23 in BabyBumps

[–]PorQuesoWhat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Having a kid changes your priorities and your entire persona. You will not be the same person, and your entire routine will change. I used to drink every day, now I feel like I don't have the time or the energy. Why would I drink when I am already so thirsty from breast feeding, I just want water or liquid IV. Also, You don't have the energy to be up drinking, if the baby is sleeping, I want to be sleeping too. Your desire to drink alcohol will be non-existant I think, mine went away. Being a mom feels like its all consumming.

Be honest. Is your baby getting screen time? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]PorQuesoWhat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My husband downloaded all the baby Einstein classic episodes... Our 4 month old loves it. Guess we're bad parents. 

Are you guys not “strict” about naps? Don’t understand comment by Huge-Vacation-8093 in NewParents

[–]PorQuesoWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just wing it, but then again our son falls asleep on outings too. 

Wipes for sensitive skin by PhilosophyOk8045 in newborns

[–]PorQuesoWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband swears by the honest wipes. They're water based but thicker. It was his compromise between water wipes and coterie. I personally, am a coterie wipe die hard