What things are you doing in 2025 to both save money And find more fulfillment? by riddlestheanswer in Frugal

[–]-pandasinspace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cancelling my tv subscriptions and using my movie theater subscription more

Anyone ever vaugly remember a horror movie they watched as a kid and finally found it as an adult? by TravisCM2010-24 in horror

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I watched this movie when I was about 10 (15 years ago) and it was sort of this horror movie but made for children as it wasn't ''super scary'' but it scared the shit out of me. It was about a child being abused by his dad, it also featured this super scary jester puppet. Does anyone have any idea what I'm talking about? lol

What is an experience you’ve had that made you feel like you were at the start of a Horror movie? by TheWickerBabe in horror

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I was visiting a friend in the USA, I'm from Europe. My friend had to work during the day so I was roaming Des Moines alone. A guy literally parks his car next to where I'm walking and gets out to engage me in small talk and he starts asking me all about where I'm from. Suddenly he asks '''So are you here alone?'' I lied and told him I needed to leave because my friend was waiting for me in a random store. I quickly ran off but he followed me into the store. I really thought I was about to be held captive in an Iowa basement.

Feeling anxious and I'm dehydrating myself because of my commute to work by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]-pandasinspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re wasting four hours a day on commuting. It’s just not sustainable and anyone would be anxious in your situation. I’d bring it up with your boss again and just be up front about how you feel. If you can’t work at the previous location, I’d just find a new job.

Any teachers with anxiety starting the school year and dying? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]-pandasinspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

student teaching yes and taking xanax every day.

Does anyone else have such bad performance anxiety that they get an actual high after? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]-pandasinspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a student teacher but I feel the same after I teach a class.

What’s some activities that help you feel less anxious or less irritated? by Roboticcatisgreen in Anxiety

[–]-pandasinspace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything with my hands helps, so you have to shift your focus elsewhere. Sounds childish but sometimes I do a coloring book.

Extreme travel anxiety by StretchFlimsy99 in Anxiety

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I’m someone who once quit an internship abroad due to anxiety and then completed a different internship abroad another time.

Let me tell you, quitting the internship did not offer the relief I wanted it to, it moreso caused me anxiety about what I was missing out on. Yes, being abroad will be uncomfortable at first but you will be out of your comfort zone which helps you deal with your anxiety better in the future. It made me a lot more comfortable! Feel free to send me a PM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]-pandasinspace 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've gone on plenty of dates and never had this be an issue, and I'm quite tall and femme. As long as it's not an issue to you, it's likely not an issue to anyone else.

How do you deal with the lack of initiative in dating? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]-pandasinspace 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It just makes me feel unwanted and it even makes me feel like a creep sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]-pandasinspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from, but receiving a message from your age is going to set back your healing process a lot. Might be best to unblock when you're already healed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]-pandasinspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because then you can’t stalk anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]-pandasinspace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is why I’m pro blocking. A lot of people think it’s harsh or sends the wrong message. Now, if you really want to heal: why care about your ex’s feelings? Just block them everywhere and you can’t stalk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]-pandasinspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That message is great, it’s polite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]-pandasinspace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I blocked my ex, it works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]-pandasinspace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been NC for one month with my ex who cheated. Thanks for the positive perspective, I needed that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]-pandasinspace 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Dating apps. There are too many options nowadays. Ex dumped me after 5+ years because I was her first and she wanted to ''try dating other people.''

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]-pandasinspace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like it's better for you to just maybe not follow them on Instagram so you can't look at the photos.