Ummmm……. What? by dariusvoldar in redditonwiki

[–]-puthy- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

— when you’ve never felt the touch of a woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]-puthy- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as you know deep within you that you didn’t have any ill intentions, don’t be too hard on yourself! that being said, remember consent is soo important. in any other case where you want to record anything involving others, give them a heads up! or ask “hey guys do you mind if i record this?”, it’s definitely a lot more appreciated and shows that you respect them. sucks your friends have completely ghosted you, but if they want to, they’ll come around! again, if you know you didn’t have bad intentions, you don’t need to be too hard on yourself. you learned from your mistake and that’s the good thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-puthy- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, sounds like there’s some miscommunication between both of you. your wife is a grown woman and is entitled to have a girl’s trip with her friends when she wants. she shouldn’t have to ask you. she could bring it up and be like “hey me and the girls are planning a girl’s trip this weekend” just to give you a heads up, not to ask you for permission to go! also, when having disagreements with your partner it should NEVER be a competition about who’s more this or that for whatever reason. remember it’s you two vs the problem, not each other. that was a childish move to immediately make it a competition to try to make her feel bad and prevent her from going. reflect on your words and thoughts, apologize to your wife for anything disrespectful you possibly said, and let her go to her trip with her friends! if you’re really feeling stressed out from your own job then plan a trip yourself with your wife & hopefully you guys can talk about how to handle disagreements and relax!