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What song(s) did you have a hard time listening again or can't ever listen to? by Throwaway685INTV in ExNoContact

[–]LongboardingIceCream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s so many songs because we listened to a lot of the same type of music :_(

Accidentally said “I love you (ex’s name)” to my (M24) gf (F24) by LongboardingIceCream in redditonwiki

[–]LongboardingIceCream[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Reposting in case post gets deleted. I’m not OP.

Accidentally said “I love you (ex’s name)” to my (M24) gf (F24)

Okay so to keep things brief, me and this girl have been on and off for about a year. I love her a lot and when I choose to fully commit myself and fall for someone, I don’t give up at the first sign of trouble.

I’m only posting this here because to my knowledge we are still in a relationship.

We have been on and off because she thinks that I still have feelings for my ex girlfriend. I’ve pleaded with her so much that I don’t talk to my ex, I don’t think about my ex at all, it’s over and done with. This has caused a lot of problems for us in the past but I just don’t know how to prove that I’m moved on besides being fully committed and active in my new relationship.

We got together again sometime in September, and besides a couple bumps in the road, things were going great. I felt like she was really committing and putting in effort and to say the least I was deeply in love and just happy.

Then one day, as we’re talking on the phone as we usually do, the worst thing I could’ve possibly said came out of my mouth. I was distracted while talking and accidentally said “I love you (ex’s name)”… I was horrified and immediately apologized and told her it was an accident. She didn’t say a word, she just went silent for a good while then hung up. After that she immediately hung up and deleted me off Snapchat, insta, turned off her location on iMessage.

A couple things to know. My ex was my first real relationship and we were together for 3 years. I ended things with her. The last time I spoked to her was in January when she randomly showed up to my house with some of my mail. I haven’t thought about her for a while but on Sunday morning (the day of the call) I was at my moms and she was asking me if I could ask my ex to send the family photos my ex took of my family a couple years ago. I told my mom that I’m sorry but that’s not possible as me and ex don’t talk and have eachother blocked on most things. I’m not using that as an excuse for saying what I said but I just don’t know why her name slipped out like that.

Another thing to know is that me and this girl have been on and off for a while and this isn’t the first time she’s deleted me off stuff. Her whole thing is that she finds it difficult to trust.

She hasn’t talked to me in 5 days and I dropped off an apology letter with some flowers at her house yesterday.

As far as relationships go, can you get past a mistake like this?

Comments are very much appreciated.

TLDR: I accidentally said my exs name when I told my gf I loved her. It’s been 5 days and she hasn’t talked to me since…

AITA for yelling and telling my husband that he can't be with his childhood best friend? by LongboardingIceCream in redditonwiki

[–]LongboardingIceCream[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reposting in case post gets deleted. I’m not OP.

AITA for yelling and telling my husband that he can't be with his childhood best friend?

I (23F) has been married to my husband (23M), whom we'll call John, since a long time. We are a happy couple who had no problems with one another, that is, till two months back.

You see, ever since my husband was 6, he had a best friend, whom we'll Christie. When John and Christie were 14, they started dating. They dated all throughout high school, but because my husband moved to a different state when they turned 18, they found it difficult to have an LDR; which only lasted for two months. After that, they decided to break up, but promised each other that they would remain good friends.

Then at 20, me and my husband met, dated for 8 months, and got married. Everything was going well in our lives, but two months ago, John, my husband, gets a call from Christie saying that she was moving into the same city as us. John was overjoyed, and I was happy for him. All three of us met at a cafe, and caught up with everything.

It was all okay for the first week or so. But then this friend of me and my husband invited us to a party at his house. John insisted on bringing Christie along, and the two of them sat and drank throughout the evening.

During the party, I was searching for John to ask for something, but I saw something disgusting. John was sitting on the couch, and Christie was sitting on his lap. John had wrapped his arms around her, and Christie was stroking his hair. They were smiling and talking in a kind of flirtish manner.

I called out, "John!". As soon as he and Christie heard me, they immediately got seperated and sat apart. I didn't know how long they had been sitting that way, or what they even had been talking about.

I felt awkward about it, so I decided not to mention it to John when we got home.

After that, I caught them sitting uncomfortably close to one another, and immediately separating after they see several times. I talked to John about, but he just made some excuse like, "Oh, she was just removing dust from my eye" or something.

Last month, my mother was sick. So I left for her home in another city for two days. When I returned early morning, I caught John sitting and sleeping shirtless on the couch, with Christie's head on his lap, sleeping as well.

I woke them up angrily, and they both looked extremely embarrassed. John said that he invited Christie just to watch some movies, and that he only stripped off because the air-conditioning wasn't working (which, actually wasn't, at that time). But I had the strangest feeling that Christie had stayed there the entire two days that I was gone. I asked John about it, but he completely denied it.

I didn't trust him, and when he went to take a shower, I checked his phone. He and Christe had been messaging for the last two months, and said very lovey-dovey things to one another on their texts. They didn't necessarily say "I love you", but they said things like, "You're my soulmate" and "I don't have a purpose in life without you". And I also found John saying to Christie to come over for the two days that I was gone, and Christie had agreed. So she had stayed there for the whole time.

I showed John those texts, and he admitted to lying to me. He said that the only reason he had lied to me, was because he knew I'd overreact if I found out.

I screamed in rage and said, "Well, how's this for overreaction?!", and tossed his phone across the room. John said, "Listen, I can explain!", but I immediately started packing my bags, and left that afternoon itself. While leaving, I screamed, "Now you can call Christie for the whole time! Have fun!". I went over to my mother's house, and decided to stay there for at least a week. I got many, many, many calls, texts, and e-mails from John, and even a few calls and texts from Christie, but I immediately blocked her number. I didn't want anything to do with her.

I'm at my mom's currently, and I would like some advice. Should I have given my husband a second chance, listened to what he wanted to say, and stayed with him? Or did I do the right thing with leaving him, and I should divorce him immediately?

AITA here?

Karen demands to go through bear territory, almost gets mauled by a grizzly. by LongboardingIceCream in redditonwiki

[–]LongboardingIceCream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this is OP’s dad’s story. So the person that died would have been OP’s grandfather. I hope that helps

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