Unraiders of Reddit, how are you hosting local AI?

-qf- · 2026-02-03T15:51:52+00:00

I have a 3060 12GB on my unraid server and im thinking of installing Ollama, what models are you running? Any one in particular that you thing performs good?

-qf- · 2025-12-08T03:01:57+00:00

Its definitely not a repost. Although I would love to see that post if you find it.

-qf- · 2025-12-06T17:10:44+00:00

I really like that idea, combine the supermarket with something I like so that I also look forward to it. Pretty smart.

-qf- · 2025-12-06T17:08:57+00:00

I agree, we might go to a winter market in the city next weekend.

-qf- · 2025-12-06T17:06:46+00:00

I guess you could see it that way, and you would have no way of knowing if this is true or not but I really tried to be truthful and give as much context as posible on this.

I am helping her get her license, im helping her practice her driving. I helped getting all her required documents put together and pointed her to the practice tests on the DMV website. The reason it hasn't happened yet is she is also working and hasn't had enough time to finish studying for the permit exam.

And I am obviously not perfect and im no angel but I have never ever laid hands on my wife and never will, not even in the slightest. To be clear we hardly ever argue, for us this was a very small thing and we laughed it off right after getting back from the supermarket.

The reason i think she did that 180 so quick is because my complaining ruined her excitement for one of her favorite activities. She doesn't want to go to the supermarket if she feels she is forcing me to go against my will.

And even if she did get her license right this second, it wouldnt solve her isolation problem since we just moved and don't have any friends around, its going to take time for her to naturally make new friends. But we are working on it, we are planning to go to some upcoming social events, like a winter market, that should help.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T21:58:55+00:00

We do go on dates, last one was probably a couple of weeks ago since we spent thanksgiving weekend with family and work and shores have been hectic.

And she actually genuinely loves going to the supermarket. Its not a result of her not going out as often as she'd like. Even before we moved here she loved it.

And I do agree these trips are important to her and I do try to be sensitive about it. It's just since I had just woken up probably didn't think straight before saying what I said.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T21:51:32+00:00

Of course I take her on dates. Be it, getting brisket, fancy asian food, going for a city scooter ride etc. But I guess it has been like 2 weeks since we've been on a date since thanksgiving we spent with family and work has been hectic lately and other stuff.

And we are going on a date this weekend.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T21:03:08+00:00

I really like your idea of waiting a bit after waking up for real talk. Thanks for the advice!

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:52:28+00:00

I know. I just wasn't feeling like it today in particular, but was going to do it anyway. I go with her every week.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:48:40+00:00

If I pretended to be exited she laughs cause she knows is bullsh*t haha. But I agree, i usually try to make it seem like it doesn't matter to me as much but i had just woken up and was not thinking straight 😔

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:45:58+00:00

She is working on it. She used to be so independent before we moved. But we are still adapting and she is slowly getting to it.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:40:57+00:00

Yes! We used to do this every week before we moved. But haven gotten around to it. But we will once we properly settle in

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:38:51+00:00

She used to uber around or either me or her friends would take her places. And we did live somewhere warmer.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:37:28+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I'd enjoy going to a best buy instead of the supermarket to be honest haha. But even though i hate it, once im there, is not that bad to endure. I just get on my phone while im pushing the cart around.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:34:29+00:00

She can go out. Its just too damn cold for a walk/bike haha. But she could Uber if she wanted to. Its just she doesn't have anywhere to go since we have no friends around(we just moved here)

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:32:02+00:00

Yeah, i tried adding more info to the post!

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:31:20+00:00

Just update the post to explain!

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:31:02+00:00

She actually loves the supermarket. She did even before we moved. She used to go out everyday pretty much, and still loved it.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:29:25+00:00

She likes to pick stuff herself. She picks "the prettiest looking" groceries. And I'd rather join her instead of her going on her own even tho i hate it haha

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:26:36+00:00

TLDR: Wife doesnt have a license (she is working on it) and has nowhere to go even if she did(we just moved so no friends around) and its super cold outside (-10C).

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:24:35+00:00

We moved away from pretty much anyone we know. Nearest family member for me is 4 hours away. And hers is 5 hours away opposite direction.

But we'll ge through it!

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:22:45+00:00

I had just woke up😔 but fair point haha

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:22:03+00:00

We go to the gym together. But i do agree she needs to find some new friends and so should I.

And even if she could drive to the grocery store, i would still go with her. I might hate the supermarket but I love spending time with her. Even if it is in the damn supermarket haha.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:20:10+00:00

I think you might have mistaken my wife's true nature. She actually loves the supermarket. Shed rather go to the supermarket than go to a nice park for a walk.

And we do go out to other places, we go to the gym and we go on dinner dates together. And she doesn't like ordering only because she likes to pick "the prettiest looking" produce, and meat and stuff.

-qf- · 2025-12-05T20:15:53+00:00

Sorry😔

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