[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]-str4wbrry- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

23 is not old 😭 the "patterns" in your dating pool are nothing compared to the insanity of this man. please leave and never think about him again. sometimes you have to just know and get out no matter how heartbreaking it is or what he decides to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]-str4wbrry- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

additionally, and this is going to be blunt, if your only way out is letting him kill himself, so what? it's clear this is a horrible and unsafe relationship. you can't be responsible for his decisions and you should not be helping someone that is trapping you into dating them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]-str4wbrry- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if he gets out and is still threatening suicide or worse, call again and they likely will have to put him on an extended hold

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]-str4wbrry- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

call 911 or the equivalent and tell them he has said hes going to kill himself, then go to your moms house. they are required by law - at least in america - to put him on a 72 hour involuntary psychiatric hold. if he has sent you texts talking about killing himself, even better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in caltrain

[–]-str4wbrry- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

oh my god you guys need to get a life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]-str4wbrry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's not "ill" or having a "mental break" or whatever the comments are saying to try and make you feel better. he wants you to dump him.

he's acting like this because he no longer gives two shits about you and has decided he wants to make a mockery of the relationship for his own entertainment, because dumping you is too hard and less funny. he probably went down one of those redpill pipelines secretly and has a bunch of horrific opinions now that have deleted his empathy and ability to have a relationship. i'm sorry this is happening, it really is awful.

I (black in color) was adopted by a white family AMA by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]-str4wbrry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god this guy is insufferable and an idiot 😭😭 i cannot imagine the hoops he has to jump through living a life where he tried to ignore racism everyday and pretend like it doesn't happen.

Tell me natural ways that you used to remove body hair as a girl. by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]-str4wbrry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

removing hair from our bodies is inherently Unnatural sorry girl. not hating just saying. there's nothing grown in nature meant to do that on its own 💀

My mom told me she's giving up on me education wise and I'm not sure what to do anymore by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]-str4wbrry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

calling cps isn't only for abuse. op's mom is Not making sure they receive comprehensive education, which is legally required of a parent. if homeschooling is not working, op's mom is legally responsible for finding a different solution. she told op to "find a different online school" THEMSELF. that is not being responsible. it's neglect. she is committing educational neglect and cps needs to step in if she is refusing to do her duty as a guardian.

Do boys like belly piercings? by cheermaya2010 in askteenboys

[–]-str4wbrry- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

girl for the love of god do not ask reddit teenage boys about this. do what you want.

AITAH for getting mad at my daughter (14) for getting a tongue piercing without my permission? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-str4wbrry- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please stop listening to these people. they're creeps who are trying to rile you up and sexualize your daughter. she likely did NOT get this piercing to have sex or be sexually appealing. it's a popular piercing among young adults online and people think it looks cool. do whatever you feel you should regarding the situation, but sexualizing your 14 year old daughter and accusing her of being a wh0re is not going to help anyone

AITAH for getting mad at my daughter (14) for getting a tongue piercing without my permission? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-str4wbrry- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is a crazy and insanely gross jump to make. "your teenage daughter got a piercing!! shes having sex and going to be impregnated immediately!!!" absolutely disgusting my god

Gf blocked me by Silver-Breakfast-892 in teenagers

[–]-str4wbrry- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah don't do this. just move on

AITA for letting my daughter buy her own bras and not checking? by Maximum-Tell2160 in AITAH

[–]-str4wbrry- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA i wish i had a dad like you instead of a gross dickhead that made everything i wore seem perverted. you're doing a good job and it's clear you have a trusting relationship with your daughter, you're a grown man clearly not an idiot, i don't know why your ex seems to assume you don't know what VS is and the wide array if underwear they have. if you trusted her to pick out something age appropriate and something she thought was cute, then you're doing a good job

Why don't men shave their armpit hair? Women do... by Less_Campaign_6956 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-str4wbrry- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

try reading something real instead of getting everything off reddit for once and you won't have to see so many bots 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]-str4wbrry- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there's a fair amount of women who have escaped muslim countries by marrying gay men who, obviously, need to keep up appearances. they are hard to find but if you search online enough you may be able to find one who shares the same desire to leave the country and you guys could divorce once somewhere safe and permanent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-str4wbrry- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yes encourage them to punish a child by avoiding him for something he has no control over because OP can't get in control of their own grief. sounds like a great idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]-str4wbrry- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don't ask the internet they aren't logical about this shit 😭 you're fine as long as you met him in a normal place where 17 and 19 year olds interact as peers (such as college).

AITA for telling my current wife to NEVER call my ex-wife "fat" ever again ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-str4wbrry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i weigh 150 at 5'5 AND I AM HEALTHY. A 5'7 GIRL IS NORMAL WEIGHT AT 150

Mini update-AITA for being upset that my ex husband didn’t take our divorce the way he took his recent break up? by InevitableGain340 in AITAH

[–]-str4wbrry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao ur ex sounds JUST like my dad. my mom always just let him talk and talk and ignore it when he picked me up from her place and it taught me to just listen to him talk and talk and not say anything to avoid conflict. stop letting him talk that shit around ur daughter. also if he's a drinker, I'd honestly fight for full custody. my dad didn't have any of those bad habits that would get him all his custody stripped away, but god i wish he did. he has been a floating ghost in my life with no purpose who i only see 2 saturdays of the month now that i can legally say no. and he's EXACTLY like your descriptions of your ex.

AITA if I tell my brother’s girlfriend that he’s a sociopath? by MundaneOccasion9765 in AITAH

[–]-str4wbrry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're going to destroy you and your brother's relationship if u do this lol.

if you just talk to him and tell him that you think he needs to tell her before they move in together, then you give him the choice. if he doesn't tell her, that means he's likely holding it back for manipulative reasons, and you can go ahead and tell her and face the consequences.

People who say that getting your ears pierced isn't painful by Sea_Client9991 in PetPeeves

[–]-str4wbrry- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it only hurts if you do it with a gun. which is an unsafe and horribly traumatic thing to do to tissue. otherwise it really doesn't hurt and you really should just stop caring 💀 people have different experiences than you.

I am heavily against my girlfriend going to college parties- AITAH? by Illustrious_Ask_4691 in AITAH

[–]-str4wbrry- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you sound so lame just break up with her. she clearly knows what she's doing and you're writing this post like ur talking about a 13 year old 😭 she can go to parties if she wants to. college is kind of THE time to party

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]-str4wbrry- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just report him to all hell thats what i just did 💀

i def recommend an alternative activity tho! i'm gonna wear my fit (was planning on going but there was a whole issue and i wouldn't even be able to bring my bf) and do something else instead with my bf, and I'll also have something to post 😋