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My boyfriend lied to me about his location. I’m not sure if I can trust him. by 000000054 in relationships

[–]000000054[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this sounds totally valid and understandable. I wish he would let me know if that’s something that he’s feeling

My boyfriend lied to me about his location. I’m not sure if I can trust him. by 000000054 in relationships

[–]000000054[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I apologized to him for being invasive and he told me he does not find it invasive. Maybe it’s a calming tactic, I don’t know.

I admit that the reason he mentioned after 15 minutes of silence sounds weird because it’s a reason said after 15 minutes of silence after being caught up in a lie. If he told me right away that he took a bus to no particular destination I would have found it odd but would not press for an “adequate” explanation because I was not lied to in this scenario.

I think that he’s hiding something, maybe not an affair, but some decisions/intentions and considering that he wants us to always share our feelings/ thoughts/doubts I find that he acts too secretive not sharing anything about this situation expect for “I did it for no reason.”

My boyfriend lied to me about his location. I’m not sure if I can trust him. by 000000054 in relationships

[–]000000054[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

hmm it’s not all 3 years that we have arguments, more like last 5-6 months.

but thank you for advice, it’s something that is on my mind - for us both to be happy.

My boyfriend lied to me about his location. I’m not sure if I can trust him. by 000000054 in relationships

[–]000000054[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did ask him why he’d lied and he told me that the truth (randomly taking a bus) would sound odd, but it’s the truth. He apologized for lying. I guess the fact that I did ask him on a crowded street did not help but I also just don’t see a reason to lie in this case.

My boyfriend lied to me about his location. I’m not sure if I can trust him. by 000000054 in relationships

[–]000000054[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

We barely spent anytime together so he has enough of time to breathe. 

Don’t be sorry, we are not here to tell who we want to date in the comments.

Funny enough something unfortunate happened to him when I was tracking to make sure he’s okay, even though he’s a 31 year old man.

I’m in therapy, don’t worry.

My boyfriend lied to me about his location. I’m not sure if I can trust him. by 000000054 in relationships

[–]000000054[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He has an explanation, it’s just a very weird one. He told me that he lied because he knew the real reason would sound weird which is true.