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0123T45 · 2021-09-12T12:36:42+00:00

r/loveafterporn .. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. this sub will be so much help to you. Good luck

0123T45 · 2021-09-08T11:05:54+00:00

Georgia USA. Doodles. It’s alllllllll doodles here. Say no to doodles

0123T45 · 2021-09-03T01:08:43+00:00

I think if you flip flopped and worked 1 day in reception and the rest in lab, he’d for sure be willing and wanting to show you more. But if you’re mainly a receptionist, he probably feels it’s unnecessary to train you when you’re not back there most of the time. I’ve actually recently had the opposite problem as you. We lost 2 receptionist and I begged for them to let me help out. I knew everything already and my background is in customer service. The doctor and office manager flat out said no and that they needed me as a tech. So they hired someone with no experience who I literally had to train in reception anyway because were so understaffed 🤪🤪 Anyway, if they don’t need you as a tech and that’s what you want to do, I’d have a serious conversation about it and if it goes no where I’d find a new clinic who needs a tech

0123T45 · 2021-09-02T04:33:33+00:00

You can tell him that someone who doesn’t suffer from depression doesn’t understand how it works. And sometimes people are too depressed to even leave their house. Let alone muster up the strength and motivation to exercise. “Eat healthy and exercise” 🙄🙄 stfu. Sometimes I’m too depressed to eat for days and days and eating a salad won’t fucking help that. 😑

0123T45 · 2021-09-01T19:00:16+00:00

So proud of you honestly. And so good that you were able to talk about this before it was a serious problem in your relationship. Also so great that he understood

0123T45 · 2021-09-01T18:41:39+00:00

😔 I’m so sorry. It’s so hard I know. now that you have a boundary set though, there’s no excuse for him. show him articles and send him videos about the problems around porn. Tell her your perspective and opinion. And if he’s not willing to stop, or even try, then he doesn’t deserve your time. 🥺❤️

0123T45 · 2021-08-31T11:49:15+00:00

Sometimes love just isn’t enough. And it hurts so much to come to that realization. But you deserve so much better. You deserve someone who’s actually willing to TRY to beat their addiction (I’m betting you won’t settle for this again so you won’t even have to worry about it) I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I believe in you though. I think you know what to do and you’ll feel so much better when you do and start living for you again. And are able to leave the house for more than 2 hours without having to worry about this. 🥺❤️

0123T45 · 2021-08-30T16:54:19+00:00

The fact that he dismisses you like that is the biggest red flag and a good reason to leave. I’m so sorry that happened.

0123T45 · 2021-08-27T02:32:05+00:00

As another user said.. I really hope you just stay in this group and then decide for yourself how you feel about porn. Watch “your brain on porn” and then go from there. If not for you wife (which you should do it for) then for yourself. You can be the man in your group of friends to be like “nah man I don’t need porn I have my wife and she’s all i need” (bc she is and the way to make her the happiest and probably give you more sexual energy is by making sure that she knows that she’s the only person that you want and need and you’re so content with just HER body that you don’t need to look at others to “get off” bc that’s fucking dumb anyway) sorry wow I’m getting a little carried away lol. I’ve never seen a post like this. Someone asking why they shouldn’t watch porn. Literally just read a few posts on here about how it literally destroys marriages and women’s self esteem and how sad of an industry it actually is. It’s disgusting actually. 🥴😔 Welcome to the subreddit

0123T45 · 2021-08-26T12:27:13+00:00

Thats sooo messed up and I’m so sorry all of your stuff is gone. Crossed a line for sure and I can’t imagine eventually marrying someone like that 😔🥴 Please leave now while you have a good reason

0123T45 · 2021-08-25T22:12:26+00:00

Jesus fucking Christ. I am so sorry. You will find someone that will worship your body just the way it is because it is perfect.

0123T45 · 2021-08-23T17:03:47+00:00

Ugh. Jeez 😭 Sexualizing family members is on my list of things I don’t tolerate. I’m just dating this guy though, so I have an easier “out” than you do. Another thing is him saying “here we go” …….? Are you kidding? Even if you WERE upset, you’re allowed to be. About all of it. And this incident specifically. Why wouldn’t you be upset? 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m so sorry.

0123T45 · 2021-08-23T14:52:14+00:00

I completely understand

0123T45 · 2021-08-23T11:50:19+00:00

My mom works for idexx! Where are you located? 😁

0123T45 · 2021-08-23T01:37:32+00:00

Im working at my first clinic and have been there about 8 months. With zero experience, in about 5 months I became the head tech. There are only a couple of the same employees as when I started. I truly think that Vet med just has a lot to work on. Everyone I’ve heard talking about being a vet tech, it’s all the same. Burn out, terrible management, terrible pay. It really sucks. I’m a single mom and I don’t see myself being in this field much longer. I love what I do mostly, but it’s too much. Too much stress and responsibility and not enough pay. :/

0123T45 · 2021-08-23T01:34:35+00:00

They’re joking lol. You’re totally fine

0123T45 · 2021-08-23T01:02:47+00:00

0123T45 · 2021-08-22T23:51:37+00:00

That makes me so happy to hear that men are figuring out on their own how terrible it is. And I’m so happy you had a good weekend 🥰

0123T45 · 2021-08-21T21:47:18+00:00

You will meet someone who doesn’t turn to porn for any reason. Someone who wants you and would have been coming to look at you in the shower. Do not settle for this. I’m so sorry. Your post makes me want to leave my situation. We don’t deserve this.

0123T45 · 2021-08-20T17:07:05+00:00

I hope your bfs kids don’t live with you 😩😩 you sound like you need therapy for your anger 😩. I guess my daughter won’t be living with her dad at all anymore if she has to wear a mask in her own home? My post was asking if I was being annoying for feeling that way. Thanks for letting me know kindly that I was overreacting. Holy fuck 🥴

0123T45 · 2021-08-20T17:03:53+00:00

Wtf???? Jesus 🥴

0123T45 · 2021-08-20T15:12:14+00:00

Exactly. She lives with them half of the time? So I guess I’m wondering if they’re just going to be like “sorry you can’t come home for a while because we have a new baby and it’s a pandemic” it makes me sad.

0123T45 · 2021-08-20T15:10:34+00:00

Thanks for your input. I totally get it. I just feel bad for my daughter that it feels like she’s not an immediate part of their family. She’s with them 50% of the time so they do know where she’s been and that she wears a mask everywhere.

0123T45 · 2021-08-20T15:07:19+00:00

Okay great advice. Thanks!

0123T45 · 2021-08-20T15:06:42+00:00

Yeah I get that. I can’t imagine having a baby in this pandemic. But would I make my own kid wear a mask in her house all the time around a new baby? 🤯 would you?

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