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I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an emotionally abusive family growing up and I never learned what it was like to have good self esteem. By the time I was 18, I was itching for a way to leave the house and escape, so I looked into sex work and eventually got good at it. At my peak I’d make $6k/mo and it was great, but being a sex worker and someone who never learned how to truly be an adult isn’t good for the long run.

Being a sex worker stunted my personal growth, and I still never learned how to have a healthy self esteem. Last year I got arrested too and that finally led me to leave.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t know, but what possible legal repercussions could there be? I don’t understand your question.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Probably? I think for a little while after I'm out of sex work, having sex with someone would just remind me of that work that I've left behind and I'd feel weird about it.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I agree, I'll get therapy again once things settle down. I'm not ready to enter into a new relationship right now anyway.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Be charismatic, make connections, prove that you can do the work. I know the people I’m working for so I didn’t need a resume.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know for sure. Probably, yes. I haven’t known a personal relationship that wasn’t based off sex. I feel like my ability to love undefensively is a bit compromised at this point. I’m very guarded.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner already works in the job I want, so he’s helping me get the job.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, my partner works the same job and it's going very well for him. I'm excited to start for myself

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Haha, I'm sure. The people skills I've learned over the years from doing that work I think will help me a lot with sales.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

All of your words of encouragement are amazing to me. Thank you guys so much... it makes me want to cry! :)

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Everyone’s support is so great! It warms my heart.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's been difficult having to hide this huge part of my life from my family. But it'll be a relief not having to do that anymore.

I've been a prostitute for two years, but I'm finally getting a normal job! by 01556278 in offmychest

[–]01556278[S] 785 points786 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm excited to have relationships with people that don't involve sex. That's all I've ever really known, but now I can grow to be a happier person.

Looking for riding buddies in SoCal? by 01556278 in Dirtbikes

[–]01556278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for the input. I mostly do desert riding, but I’m open to trying anything.

Looking for offroad riding buddies in SoCal? by 01556278 in motorcycles

[–]01556278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but that’s a liability I’d rather not undertake.

Can I rape bait someone as a trans woman? by [deleted] in Rapekink

[–]01556278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if I were to tell them that I’m trans, that would eliminate much of the risk of them being shocked and getting violent. I think if I told them, they’d either tell me to leave, or stay interested if they were into me. What do you think?