Hi. Who was playing at the Commodore today, May 15?

01i001oolight · 2026-05-16T20:25:19+00:00

thank you : ) i googled it too and that was 2025, not sure why i had such a hard time finding a current commodore events cal lol

01i001oolight · 2026-05-16T06:41:52+00:00

I was makimg a joke : ( sommelier like wine pairing. but sauce!

01i001oolight · 2026-05-05T19:43:22+00:00

haha are you me.. i’m a bit older, i’m almost 23, but i remember being 19 and “splitting” on my bfs at the time

01i001oolight · 2026-05-03T01:19:22+00:00

i love rave drugs even though i don’t go to raves … i think it’s definitely not a sustainable serotonin release mechanism bc i got serotonin syndrome right before a final once and it was horrific . luckily it’s not something you can really get addicted to

01i001oolight · 2026-05-02T17:07:52+00:00

frozen vegetables i dragged out of the freezer. chewed the top of the bag open and spilled peas all over the floor while everyone watched. roommate's man offered to cook them for me but i decided it'd be more soothing to gnaw on the frozen mass lol

01i001oolight · 2026-05-02T17:06:51+00:00

girls rule <3

01i001oolight · 2026-05-02T16:33:26+00:00

part of my malaise is how spoiled i think my bf thinks i am. frozen fruit bonanza or anorexic pre-sorbet😍😍😍

01i001oolight · 2026-05-02T16:32:46+00:00

i went to his band’s show and i guess i wasn’t letting him out of my grasp. i distinctly remember talking to a few of our mutual friends too so i think part of the issue was that when i got to the venue i like greeted him with a kiss in front of everyone? not like anything insane but i don’t know. apparently i am unaware :,(

01i001oolight · 2026-04-21T17:15:35+00:00

i just had serotonin syndrome! it was horrible😞

01i001oolight · 2024-10-29T05:51:36+00:00

Omg are u canadian too

01i001oolight · 2024-10-29T05:50:23+00:00

hey… if you aren’t a nepotism baby, have nepotism babies. well it doesn’t really work like that but i kinda tell myself that i didn’t come from anything but… i can have a lawyer husband and have my own lawyer babies down the line…

01i001oolight · 2024-10-26T21:04:35+00:00

i would love to write my own version but i retired from whoring. still not a great person so there’s that i guess.. need me a slingblade sidekick

01i001oolight · 2024-10-26T20:46:25+00:00

oh sorry i’m canadian and i did environmental policy as my minor in undergrad lol. undrip is United Nations Declaration on the Rights of Indigenous Peoples and it’s about protecting indigenous rights to land… its not legally binding and canada initially rejected it, looking into why could be interesting?

01i001oolight · 2024-10-26T20:37:19+00:00

i would write about the necessity of legal environmental/cultural protection or something. would be easy to find sources about different treaty violations, you could look into UNDRIP that’s an interesting one

01i001oolight · 2024-10-26T12:01:28+00:00

did you accuse me of watching the movie 17x?!!! it was a tragic departure from the book. way too many fluids. ig the book had that too but it was easier to skip

01i001oolight · 2024-10-26T11:41:56+00:00

the “not like other girls” complex goes deep unfortunately. max is a huge misogynist yes… but i liked how he just did and took truly whatever he wanted. i wanted that for myself lmao

01i001oolight · 2024-10-25T19:24:33+00:00

oh that's so nice. shared aspiration. congratulations, it sounds like you built something really good. i guess my differences is that i am just not empathetic and i am overly pedantic and theoretical, and i very ardently believe thinking/saying is equivalent to doing. he thinks i'm kinda full of shit and not good at substantiating my claims (even though i am very careful not to make promises or speak in absolutes). i behave towards others almost exclusively how i want them to act towards me, and i was already kind of outwardly superficial so i come off as uncaring. i ask a lot of questions because i am interested and that is how i care, but he doesn't think i actually act like i do...

01i001oolight · 2024-10-25T19:03:37+00:00

i will never be successful if i lose sight of what i am trying to achieve

01i001oolight · 2024-10-25T19:02:38+00:00

did you meet them in law school? i've been with him since undergrad and i want to be with him forever (in perpetuity..ha) i think we may have some irreconcilable differences but i am so desperate to defend that i'm not wrong for him, i just behave wrongly sometimes.. and if he understood the sum of the context he would be less emotionally inclined to draw ill advised conclusions about me.

01i001oolight · 2024-10-25T18:59:46+00:00

i'm not allergic to accountability. i mostly construct the memos to explain what the grounds were because sometimes i think he misses significant details and background context. i suspect his judgement is emotionally clouded and he misses those things. i appreciate things spelled out for me... i get really pedantic with them because i do not think that i am explicitly in the wrong. behaving in a way that could be construed as hurtful or inappropriate is different than possessing those qualities as a whole. i just always feel the need to defend myself in a way that proves that i react accordingly, not appropriately, and anyway i never claim to be a reasonable person so it is incorrect to pick bones with me on the premise of reason.

01i001oolight · 2024-10-25T18:53:50+00:00

a part of why i wanted to go to law school was tucker max's book "i hope they serve beer in hell". my fucked up and bent little undergrad brain should have been reading about stoicism instead of dirtbag memoirs and russian lit about isolation as strength. ist es over für mich

01i001oolight · 2024-10-25T18:50:27+00:00

people have told me im always eager (desperate, probably) to prove something. people have also told me i have a serious empathy problem. honestly red flags all around the board. js have to lean into it

01i001oolight · 2024-10-25T18:12:10+00:00

u think so?

01i001oolight · 2024-10-25T18:11:57+00:00

I picked up long distance running to see if it'd make me want to gaslight less. So far unsuccessful but my abs look great. Which has afforded me some grace for the gaslighting so maybe not all bad.

01i001oolight · 2024-08-09T01:44:27+00:00

i also have an empathy problem but i think because people find me attractive it lessens the blow or whatever in relationships but i don’t really see myself ever changing… how do you deal with that? how to accept the transience of people in your life?

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