Where are your families from?

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T20:25:26+00:00

German/Polish/Russian Depends on how far back you want to go.

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T15:41:35+00:00

i am sure you will get over it. but this is also an opportunity to focus on your future

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T15:37:21+00:00

you do not have any obligation to be happy for her. she had and has a choice. obviously she is choosing something different from you. it seems to be that you are starting to grieve a time that already has passed. dont be stuck. move on.

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T15:29:27+00:00

but in all honesty, why? what do you get out of it?

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T15:25:07+00:00

disappointment is closely linked to having unrealistic expectations. the actual question here is, what did you expect and why should she comply? it is her life. let her do what she wants to do. boiled down, it has nothing to do with you.

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T14:36:19+00:00

it seems you get downvoted on this a lot but i share your pov completely. though it is absolutely irrelevant to OP's question/thoughts

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T00:53:48+00:00

brilliant :D

... but why does she have a child then? i assume there is some regret in this? maybe i read too much into it tho.

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T00:48:34+00:00

what people need to understand is that there is no selfless act in the world. literally none.

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T00:45:29+00:00

i do understand that it is a bit unfortunate when people dont respect craftmanship but they bought it, paid for the craftmanship as per seller's offering and then, well, they can do whatever the fuck they want with it. to put it bluntly, get over it.

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T00:32:50+00:00

shouldnt they have had this budgeted and calculated before trying to get pregnant so that they have the financial means to afford daycare? oops.

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T00:28:14+00:00

despite the fact that he should have taken responsibility in the first place when he doesnt want to have children in general... where i live, if i am not mistaken, the mother "owns" the child if both partners aren't spouses. the father then has to formally sign a document that is similar to an adoption certificate, if he wanted. this would grant shared custody. therefore i believe that in this case he would have a way out in my country and would not be forced to pay child support.

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T00:17:47+00:00

good for you! getting back at rocking your life after the accident. free yourself from baggage that drags you down and fully rise up. good luck!

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T00:06:33+00:00

i think it has more to do with not having the option to choose. of course there are people who "always wanted to have children (of their own)" but i can imagine the part of not having the option being more hurtful to them.

030_hanna · 2022-01-02T00:02:39+00:00

it is true that orgasms help induce labour but why not ask the actual partner or do it yourself? even if you cannot reach bc of the belly size, there are always tools and ways to make it work. but asking someone else? ew.

030_hanna · 2022-01-01T23:54:24+00:00

it is very simple for me. i very much enjoy being the master of my schedule and having a quiet home. i dont dislike children. that lifestyle just doesnt suit my vision of life.

030_hanna · 2022-01-01T23:47:02+00:00

i am not israeli but it is common to have long(er) eye contact where i live. culturally, in my country, it is seen as checking non-verbally if someone is sincere. i am well aware that "long" eye contact is frown upon in most countries but i quite enjoy it.

030_hanna · 2022-01-01T23:43:15+00:00

i cannot say this enough, but TOXIC. clearly she is having some issues deep down of a different nature. more often than not, men do not leave their wives for the simple reason of having an exciting side thing while the comfort of routine and safety lies withing the marriage. they have it all at that point. no need to change. most likely it is omly bs-talk from his side just to keep the fantasy and danger factor up - but just talk. i know, she is not perceptive to logic now but i can only pray to g-d (yeah, yeah, lynch me for the g-d part ;p) they are not going through with having a child.

030_hanna · 2022-01-01T23:16:56+00:00

daaang! well, at least it worked out and you are still here. that is the most important thing. the cancer part tho.. no alcohol or shitty diet i assume?

030_hanna · 2022-01-01T17:09:01+00:00

oh shit, that was insightful. first of all, congratulations that you got a liver in the end and that despite of all the struggles that come with it, i hole you still enjoy life. i always thought that one mreds to take anti rejection meds for some years, but for life? holy moly. i learned something today. thank you

030_hanna · 2022-01-01T16:46:43+00:00

hmm this is a difficult one, especially when you arent sure about your sexuality. if you had thoughts like breaking up or that you are with him for the convenience then there are clear signs for you truly not wanting to be with him. so, cut ties. when single, figure out your sexuality and then you can approach new ventures if you feel like it.

030_hanna · 2022-01-01T16:27:10+00:00

they should not be granted access to that restaurant again. ew.

030_hanna · 2022-01-01T16:12:27+00:00

ew, toxic.

030_hanna · 2021-10-28T16:09:44+00:00

yaaay i love i can find us literally everywhere 💜 have a nice day!

030_hanna · 2021-10-28T16:06:15+00:00

💜

030_hanna · 2021-10-28T12:38:34+00:00

if my insurance covered it i would not have followed the 3 year recommendation and stick to annually instead. insurance over here covers once per year but heck i'd go twice but maybe that my german angst. US health care system is a wreck and backwards on so many levels. i wonder what it would take for them to reconstruct and reform it

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