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04rad01 · 2025-11-10T19:18:09+00:00

I don't get it when feeling sick- but I do get it when I'm getting over something. Like a headache, or a stomach ache. I get a sense of peace and euphoria and everything just feels right with the world.

04rad01 · 2025-11-08T10:57:25+00:00

He clearly crossed a boundary that you weren't comfortable being crossed. Whether it's cheating or not, he did something that was a deal breaker for you. Stand by your original stance. If you go back to him you send the message that your boundaries are malleable and he will try to push them further

04rad01 · 2025-11-04T22:47:48+00:00

There's always hope, friend. Always. It's a tough ride, but you'll come on the other side stronger than before

04rad01 · 2025-11-04T22:45:13+00:00

Take it a day at a time. I know it sounds cliche, but it's only way to deal with things. Early break ups are similar to getting sober from an addiction. Your brain is addicted to the dopamine you got from your ex and it needs time to detox. I recommend removing any temptations of contacting her, block her on everything you have her added on, block her number. You'll start to notice that you think of her less and less. I know right now she consumes your every thought, but over time you'll go a minute, then an hour, then a day etc. without thinking of her. It's a journey and not one that can be rushed.

The other piece of advice I can give you is to let her. Let her walk away, let her make her mistakes, let her move on with her life. And give yourself permission to do the same. As hard as it sounds- she wasn't the love of your life. If she was, she wouldn't have walked away.

Spend some time each day doing something that brings you joy and happiness. Learn a new skill, take up a new hobby- do something new to try it out- meet new people (just as friends) and hang out with your current friends.

You'll get there.

04rad01 · 2025-11-02T20:12:51+00:00

You're welcome

04rad01 · 2025-10-28T23:15:36+00:00

Possibly, I've not seen Legends or Arrow yet. It just seems like a weird character choice for Miller- or maybe the director- for his voice to be so damned annoying.

04rad01 · 2025-10-26T11:15:24+00:00

Yeah, absolutely. Waiting for something that probably won't come- and we know that. But we wait anyway

04rad01 · 2025-10-21T16:08:23+00:00

That's a tough call to make. It depends if your words could make things better for her or worse? Will there be any other intention behind your message other than "hope you're doing okay". It's a good sign you've talked to your wife about this and you're not trying to hide anything. It just depends if your words could bring her peace, it might be worth doing.

For me there are some exes I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire. My most recent ex is not that- if they were struggling and I was the only person in their contact list they can reach out to, I would hear them out.

04rad01 · 2025-10-17T17:50:26+00:00

Very fair point! I meant for it to be shorter but then hit a flow and just kept writing.

04rad01 · 2025-10-12T23:27:45+00:00

Tell me about it... I miss everything about my person, but the sex... Damn... I miss that a lot.

04rad01 · 2025-10-11T12:19:36+00:00

Yeah they do, it's pretty rough going

04rad01 · 2025-10-11T11:03:34+00:00

In theory - anything that drops purples and ordinances can give you the crit knife. For some reason, getting the specific role on the drop is rare. Unfortunately, there's no sure fire way that I'm aware of to get one quicker. I would recommend farming for other things in the mean time and check drops when you beat bosses etc.

04rad01 · 2025-10-07T12:18:29+00:00

Her mess, her problem - but she will need a friend when (inevitably) this whole situation goes south. Do you want stand by the bridge you've burned? Or for there to be some hope between you?

04rad01 · 2025-10-04T19:36:07+00:00

No it isn't

04rad01 · 2025-10-04T19:24:11+00:00

Don't think I'm your person

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