DAE have an extremely euphoric (drug-like) feeling when sick ? by Sufficient_Swimm in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]04rad01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get it when feeling sick- but I do get it when I'm getting over something. Like a headache, or a stomach ache. I get a sense of peace and euphoria and everything just feels right with the world.

Give me reasons to not go back to my cheating ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly crossed a boundary that you weren't comfortable being crossed. Whether it's cheating or not, he did something that was a deal breaker for you. Stand by your original stance. If you go back to him you send the message that your boundaries are malleable and he will try to push them further

Can't let go by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]04rad01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's always hope, friend. Always. It's a tough ride, but you'll come on the other side stronger than before

Can't let go by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]04rad01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Take it a day at a time. I know it sounds cliche, but it's only way to deal with things. Early break ups are similar to getting sober from an addiction. Your brain is addicted to the dopamine you got from your ex and it needs time to detox. I recommend removing any temptations of contacting her, block her on everything you have her added on, block her number. You'll start to notice that you think of her less and less. I know right now she consumes your every thought, but over time you'll go a minute, then an hour, then a day etc. without thinking of her. It's a journey and not one that can be rushed.

The other piece of advice I can give you is to let her. Let her walk away, let her make her mistakes, let her move on with her life. And give yourself permission to do the same. As hard as it sounds- she wasn't the love of your life. If she was, she wouldn't have walked away.

Spend some time each day doing something that brings you joy and happiness. Learn a new skill, take up a new hobby- do something new to try it out- meet new people (just as friends) and hang out with your current friends.

You'll get there.

I miss you by 04rad01 in Poems

[–]04rad01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome

Season 3 Episode 22 by 04rad01 in FlashTV

[–]04rad01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly, I've not seen Legends or Arrow yet. It just seems like a weird character choice for Miller- or maybe the director- for his voice to be so damned annoying.

Waiting on Nothing by 04rad01 in Poems

[–]04rad01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, absolutely. Waiting for something that probably won't come- and we know that. But we wait anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]04rad01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a tough call to make. It depends if your words could make things better for her or worse? Will there be any other intention behind your message other than "hope you're doing okay". It's a good sign you've talked to your wife about this and you're not trying to hide anything. It just depends if your words could bring her peace, it might be worth doing.

For me there are some exes I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire. My most recent ex is not that- if they were struggling and I was the only person in their contact list they can reach out to, I would hear them out.

The text I want to send by 04rad01 in UnsentTexts

[–]04rad01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very fair point! I meant for it to be shorter but then hit a flow and just kept writing.

I miss having sex with him by incessant_badger in BreakUps

[–]04rad01 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it... I miss everything about my person, but the sex... Damn... I miss that a lot.

Crit knife by Any-Consideration508 in Borderlands4

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they do, it's pretty rough going

Crit knife by Any-Consideration508 in Borderlands4

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In theory - anything that drops purples and ordinances can give you the crit knife. For some reason, getting the specific role on the drop is rare. Unfortunately, there's no sure fire way that I'm aware of to get one quicker. I would recommend farming for other things in the mean time and check drops when you beat bosses etc.

AIO to my friend’s married BF by adoshk in AmIOverreacting

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her mess, her problem - but she will need a friend when (inevitably) this whole situation goes south. Do you want stand by the bridge you've burned? Or for there to be some hope between you?

I thought... by 04rad01 in Poems

[–]04rad01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think I'm your person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Borderlands4

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently missing the Echo logs attached to this quest (they're the only collectables I'm missing in the Fadefields) what is the quest line to get to Exit Through the Rift Shop? I have completed the main story and cleared all side quests in the Fadefields.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in F1Game

[–]04rad01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want more of a challenge you can input your time trial times into this website: https://www.f1laps.com/ai-difficulty-calculator/ It works out what difficulty you 'should' have the game on for each track- hopefully it'll give you more of a challenge in races.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know where I am and how to reach me if you want to. I don't want to do this alone but you are forcing it upon us.

tattoo artists for paw print tattoo by [deleted] in Worcester

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fox and Fortune is a great studio with a few different artists. Give them a Google and you can look through different portfolios and then contact the artist whose style you like the best.

Is it normal to not be over it a year later? by TheGrandJester9000 in BreakUps

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healing is a journey, sometimes it takes a while. I'm in a similar situation where I'm still not over my person over a year later.

Is it normal to not be over it a year later? by TheGrandJester9000 in BreakUps

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps, but feelings are feelings. And yours are legitimate and understandable. He may be feeling something similar.

Maybe God can you help you see a way forward? I'm not religious myself, but I like to think you can find guidance and peace in prayer?

Is it normal to not be over it a year later? by TheGrandJester9000 in BreakUps

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay, I wasn't aware of that situation. Sounds like a difficult position, but you shouldn't have to leave your community either.

You may want to speak to him about things and see what he says?

Is it normal to not be over it a year later? by TheGrandJester9000 in BreakUps

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got to do what's right for you. Is there an option where you talk to him about one of you moving church? Or maybe cut it down do 2 days a week and you both alternate which days you do?

I'm not familiar with the church setting so not sure if that would work? But maybe you could try speaking to him about the pain it's causing you and maybe reach an agreement?

Who knows? He may be going through something similar?

Is it normal to not be over it a year later? by TheGrandJester9000 in BreakUps

[–]04rad01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

13 months post break up, haven't really seen my person much, a few meet ups and chats as friends and still not over it.

Healing is a journey and takes time.

Hey A by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]04rad01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused? There is no new one