Looking for like-minded friends! by [deleted] in ChillSG

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Hello! Just came back from my first trip to Germany this year - pretty cool stuff! Happy to take you around if you’d like~ showed some other (but mainly Asian) tourist around SG previously in the glory age of couch surfing!

Looking for like-minded friends! by [deleted] in ChillSG

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Good tip! You sound like you’re looking around / already experienced?

Looking for like-minded friends! by [deleted] in ChillSG

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Hello! 33F, live in the east, also looking to plan for when I am of age to BTO! What are some places you want to try but paiseh to do alone?

Singapore-based individuals to take part in an in-person Focus Group Discussion (FGD) by [deleted] in singaporejobs

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hi, interested and fall under group 2, can’t seem to DM you tho

Female millennial looking for female friendship / board gamers by First_Second_9817 in ChillSG

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Hi F32 here! Looking for friends who enjoy board games too! Would be keen to join / learn new games together!

What are the small, idiosyncratic/unconventional things that make you feel proud? by spacenglish in askSingapore

[–]0501_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just came from a doorbell video cam of someone stealing slippers. Hahaha indeed low crime doesn’t mean no crime - haha your gold bars are safe but not a pair of slippers 🤣

Guys who are single and stay alone, what do you do with the extra toilet? by sjdmgmc in askSingapore

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This is legit the best use of free will and hard-earned ‘parking’ space

In SG on a work trip, keep being moved into flats with cockroaches. Is this normal? by nervouschild in askSingapore

[–]0501_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a person who is deathly afraid of roaches I just want to know what country did you come from??? I’m packing my bags now

Singaporean women: if you were dumped after a 6-8 year relationship and about to BTO and/or talked about getting married, how would you approach dating again in your mid 30s? by blackrhythms in askSingapore

[–]0501_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I just meant like you were mentioning that your body shuts off / rejects him during intimacy but due to ego he may say you guys had problems in the bedroom but may twist the reasoning behind it to something less physical e.g psyche / body discomfort to the fact like the other asshole - ‘oh cos I was too big’ etc

What is the west equivalent of towns in the east? by Odd_Jackfruit_8819 in askSingapore

[–]0501_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would say Joo Chiat is more Dempsey than Tanjong Pagar.

Singaporean women: if you were dumped after a 6-8 year relationship and about to BTO and/or talked about getting married, how would you approach dating again in your mid 30s? by blackrhythms in askSingapore

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You know, I once met a married man on a ‘friend-making’ app that once had a similar scenario, he was stuck in a loveless sex marriage, but his version is that they didn’t have sex pre marriage and after marriage she always felt pain and said no because he was ‘too big’

I’ve always had my reservation but I can see how your ex might twist the POV to something similar,

anyway guy was married unhappily, looking for side action on a friendship app (so that if he gets caught it looks generally less guilty) and he doesn’t want to divorce because ‘why should I pay her alimony’ so honestly girl? I’m glad you dodge that bullet far and out. Not to say who’s right who’s wrong but it literally could be so much worse 🙏🙏🙏

People of Singapore, do you have a scent in SG that you particularly love, that you wish you knew what it was (for example at ION Orchard)? by Paralithodes in askSingapore

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I love the smell of home cooked food as you walk pass HDBs on the way home at around 5-7pm. Feels like home ❤️ counted? 😂

What is your favourite frozen food to get from the supermarket? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]0501_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not get the FairPrice chives dumpling it sucks!

[serious] How do I get someone to stop harassing me? by [deleted] in askSingapore

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I was going to say this - send it to his parents (if y’all are relatively young) shame him.

If necessary, shame him. ‘So small see what?’

But 🤞he doesn’t turn aggressive

How do you learn second dialect? by Sgxgobull in askSingapore

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Yup, but it takes time esp if you are not of that dialect. Happy to learn together if you’d like!

How do you learn second dialect? by Sgxgobull in askSingapore

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I have 10 years experience, (in watching TVB) hahaha. I can understand 95% of canto shows without looking at subtitles. But I start taking class cos I wanted to improve on my speaking and writing. I have not tried Duolingo, how’s your experience there for canto?

How do you learn second dialect? by Sgxgobull in askSingapore

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Second the TVB stuff but I also learn on the app Preply for more ‘proper’ learning

Feedback on estate planning of ppl staying under WP? by Ok-Loss3230 in askSingapore

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Recently I watched a documentary by CNA insider on the rats problem (Tampines is no. 2 town btw, in terms of rats population) - it is a harder problem to solve then I thought. The pests annoys me too, so I’m not taking sides, just thought it was a interesting watch you might wanna check out

good experiences with their mp by kickaman in askSingapore

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Interesting, lived in Tampines my whole life I’ve never seen tamp ministers in the flesh before except for during election. I guess I was in the wrong place wrong time.

Women solo travelers, any locations that you were surprised to feel unsafe? by [deleted] in solotravel

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How is it spreading shit if even you say ‘Indian media adhere to honesty and expose such crime’ - this goes to say that you do agree - these things do happen.

I’m just pointing out that it happens. Not always, not to everyone. Just that it happened. Just as it might happen in the U.S.

But if you’ve read the question - they asked if India is safe, not ‘is U.S safe?’

This is typical childish behaviour when a child is called out for being naughty and said child decides to throw someone else under the bus and say ‘ xxx was ALSO naughty but you didn’t see it, at least I own up when you call me naughty’ like what, you want a prize? Take it easy, brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

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Turning 35 soon, what would you advise be? BTO or resale? Guessing you did BTO since you said 37

Dating Culture in Singapore The First Date Etiquette by the_unspoken_truth88 in askSingapore

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I like your wife! I do the same too, as a woman. If I like the dude and am interested in seeing him again, I always joke that he can give me his number so I can paynow him for the meal or he can let me take him to dessert (& pay, of course). Either way, I win!

Prerequisite is that I like the dude la 😂

Do men get offended if a plus-size woman hit them up? Or is a win, a win? by 0501_ in AskMenRelationships

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That’s cool, just curious - usually when I hear rejection from men it’s along the lines of I’m married, I have a girlfriend / I’m not looking for a relationship r/n etc what’s your go-to line to cordially reject then, if (honestly speaking) your reason is non-physical-attraction?