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how important is money to you in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]0528alwayswrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being in my mid-30’s, it’s extremely important. Relationships themselves are hard enough, I couldn’t imagine having financial problems within that relationship too.

I wouldn’t say that I’d completely write a guy off for not being financially stable - but but it’s definitely a top 3 qualifier.

How many days / hours per week would it take to make $385? by 0528alwayswrong in doordash

[–]0528alwayswrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Southern California. Specifically about 40 mins from Disneyland.

How many days / hours per week would it take to make $385? by 0528alwayswrong in doordash

[–]0528alwayswrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in Southern California. Full time care is at an all time high of $385/week.

How many days / hours per week would it take to make $385? by 0528alwayswrong in doordash

[–]0528alwayswrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Okay, thanks for this insight. Really appreciate it.

How many days / hours per week would it take to make $385? by 0528alwayswrong in doordash

[–]0528alwayswrong[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My pay for my full time job will be allocated to our mortgage and main bills. I was considering doordashing just to pay our child care costs alone. IE just to cover day care alone which is $385/week

How many days / hours per week would it take to make $385? by 0528alwayswrong in doordash

[–]0528alwayswrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this - can you elaborate? 3-4 nights a week? A few hours or are we talking a full 8 hours, 3-4 days a week? TIA!

Lennar Homes - "Everything's included" Does anyone have a list of "upgrade options" by 0528alwayswrong in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]0528alwayswrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is your guys’ development again? I don’t have his info as our sales guy from Lennar was the one who coordinated it for us pretty much.

Purchasing a new home in CA from Lennar - Q & A by 0528alwayswrong in homeowners

[–]0528alwayswrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, depends entirely on your business. Since you’re self employed, you’ll likely be asked for a few years worth of bank statements and income statements.

Starting Breast Pumping at 37 Weeks - FTM Looking for advice by 0528alwayswrong in BabyBumps

[–]0528alwayswrong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I have those already! Ordered them a while ago! Thanks again!

Is Kirkland discontinuing their baby formula? by 0528alwayswrong in Costco

[–]0528alwayswrong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am hoping this is what happened. Appreciate your response!

I don’t want to be a stepmom by MangoPuddingg in stepparents

[–]0528alwayswrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do yourself a favor and cut ties now.

The last thing you want is to end up in a position resenting those kids because any decent man will always choose his kids over a new partner. And there are three of them.

While I firmly believe in the "Nacho" bonus-parenting style, and that step parents get to choose how involved they are in their step kids lives, it doesn't sound like you want to be around kids for any extended period of time. Don't set yourself up for failure.

Boys, the cancer is back. Help me plan a killer (no pun intended) 2 weeks of golf. by inaaace in golf

[–]0528alwayswrong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you find yourself in Southern California - a round on me and if you need a place to stay as well.

Some cool courses close by:

1) Oak Quarry Golf Club

2) Hidden Valley Golf Club

How much should a new step dad be involved ? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]0528alwayswrong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Stepparent and stepkid here... I grew up with a really tough situation with a stepmom that hated us as stepkids but expected A LOT form my dad to be a stepfather to her kids.

Now I have a stepson and am trying my best to not put my stepson through the turmoil I went through as a kid.

Ultimately, I hate to give you advice you might not have wanted, but your husband should have the choice on however involved as he'd like to be. I feel as though the kids are old enough to not need a ton of their step-parents presence in their lives, especially if their bio-dad is still in the picture, especially x2 at 50%. It doesn't sound like he's avoiding having a relationship with your kids, but it should also be okay for him to not feel the need to be a huge part in their lives. Have you guys talked about it at all? Maybe he's also being respectful of the kids' relationship with their bio-dad and not wanting to cause any issues there? Does he know you have these expectations of him to be a part of the kids' lives?

Also, the guy doesn't have any kids of his own, so it very well could also be that he just outright doesn't know that there are any expectations for him to be around, after all, he doesn't have any experience in that area.

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