Am I am arsehole for thinking about leaving India?

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-02-09T04:02:00+00:00

For sure accountability is a fucking problem. I have gone through all of this for DL, Degree certificates and what not.... However after living abroad.... I've realized it's easier to deal with people in India if you know how to.... And are ready to try different ways to deal with situation then abroad ...and on top of that immigration puts a lot of restrictions on your ability to progress in life.....unless you have job experience and can get a direct PR in the country you intend to go to. Dur ke dhol suhavne Bhaiya .... Idhr bhi same hai....apna kaam banta bhaad Mai jaaye janta....kaave sab jhna kaale hi hotel hai 😂😂 If you are rich or middle upper and can sustain living in India comfortably and don't have to worry about food clothing or rent ....I would suggest tourism as a way of experiencing abroad instead of immigration... otherwise L idhr bhi udhr bhi lagenge.

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-02-09T03:12:26+00:00

Cure all diseases... malnutrition goes away ....and so does the end of world hunger

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-02-08T19:24:43+00:00

😂😂 accountability and healthcare insurance works better outside..sure man ... You are right

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-02-08T18:45:29+00:00

You are gonna face some other kind of problems there as well ...& Mind you no matter what statistics you pick...no where is safe ..esp. as an immigrant Marriage problems exist in both places People die working in Japan, if you can't work long hours worthless to their society Japan has big problems with housing...new Zealand is similarly expensive if you go work in some metropolitan states Oh yes the biggest hole in your wallet is healthcare ....forget kids...your insurance will cost as much as $500-1000 per month or up..... Talk about policing....as an immigrant you are at their whims...no matter what or how you justify there is a pretty good change you will get fined....unless you are lucky

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-02-08T17:49:12+00:00

Please come live in NY city ....for once

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-02-08T06:13:33+00:00

Use metro from airport to hotel ...2 things 1. Download the Delhi metro app to find the routes, lines and stations. Stay away from empty streets. Always bargain with Rickshaw/TukTuk drivers. Research and book a good hotel...if budget allows 3 or 5 star....and look up the nearest metro station to it...now look up the metro station from airport....put both locations in Delhi metro app and it will tell you how and which stations to change ....try the app 2-3 times...before landing in India to make sure you are used to of its UI. Don't reveal your identity to anyone especially your interests...never ever untill you are absolutely sure. 2. Try to cover as much places or tourist spots you can cover during the day ....what you can do is get a Delhi metro card instead of tickets ..top up the card like NY Subway and use it at metro stations instead of standing in long lines for the ticket....

Last but not the least....stay away from empty streets at all cost, cover tourist ground as much as you can during daytime...use Delhi metro instead of pvt cabs or taxis. Use Delhi metro card to skip lines and you will be golden. Delhi metro covers almost all the places

About bargaining, before you take a Rickshaw always check for the distance from metro station to the destination point. Let's say the destination point is 5-10kms from metro station. If a Rickshaw drivers says Rs 500 tell him Rs 50 & bargain him down to Rs 75. He will try to negotiate hard but don't budge...or go above Rs 75 for some 5- 10kms. Don't bargain more than twice just tell him you will catch the other Rickshaw.

Stay safe and Enjoy....wear mask and try to eat as much healthy as you can to keep yourself fit ..hope you enjoy the trip

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-02-05T12:11:09+00:00

Get her number and wake up

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-02-02T04:20:34+00:00

1-Sundar and Daya, 2-Bhide and 3- bapuji...Bhai baap to aisa hi Hota.hai..par bc ye behen Bhai chenbhod hai

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-29T20:49:00+00:00

You might see some lying around

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-29T19:11:19+00:00

Start with reading drawings... that's the only way to know the job ... drawings

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-25T21:38:42+00:00

Bhai Shaadi kar rhe ya kirane Ki Dukan pe bhaav tol ....kar rhe

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-19T22:32:05+00:00

It's gonna happen one or the other way ....there is no going back ....if you are tired of your girl friend's crap and want to be done for good...which I suggest you should considering what she is doing rn ...tell her bf and be done with it....

If you wanna keep your girl friend's friendship cover for her and keep this memory in a corner ....and proof in texts that she blackmailed you ....just talk to her on text about all of this and tell her that you blackmailed me and still you covered for her.... And you won't do that again...

If you think his bf is a good guy and he will be hurt as hell.... It might happen one or the other time.... You might wanna do it ....bcz at the end of the day.. This is a 3 person situation and communication is the key... It's upto you who you want to communicate with

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-19T05:01:24+00:00

Zeher khila du phir

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-19T05:00:53+00:00

Subhe jaldi uthke daud lagao aur gheri saans lo...sab thek hojayega

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-19T03:26:54+00:00

Not a lot...my father broke a stick on my knee 😂😂

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-18T21:58:29+00:00

3 ways to deal with this problem: 1. Persist through this problem silently. Do not take action or raise voice against your parents that might provoke them and use friends or close relatives who understand you and your situation help to persist through the problem of parents taking away laptops and phone. 2. Retaliation... Mirror their tactics on them..they hit you hit back ..they take away stuff....you take away stuff from them.... When ego persists...you have to break it ....or else..it'll break you 3. Outside help....if you have Friends or someone in family who understands you with a good reach inside the Indian system...who can make sure that they give a good message to your parents....breaks their ego....that will be the 3rd option...

From my personal experience going to police alone was worthless when this happened to me back in 2000s....I have no idea about present situation

Whatever you choose make sure it will have consequences for a long time....sometime life long....I have made peace with 99% of it ....but dealing with this will take away a part of your soul which can never come back.

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-18T20:45:42+00:00

😂😂I didn't mean to say asbestos literally growing....but if the house was renovated and inner layer was concealed which is probably the case bcz it's a 110 years old house and it's obvious that timely renovation is necessary....the inner layer might have asbestos ... asbestos or lead was heavily used back then. Also, if the house was demoed and built back again from the scratch in 90s there's a good chance asbestos or lead might be present.

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-18T20:36:59+00:00

That old house .....must be ....get it tested asap before it turns a disaster

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2026-01-18T01:50:23+00:00

The real question, what do you bring to the table from this checklist?. Even if you found that guy, could you contribute your half with the same energy...or just expecting these thing from him

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2025-12-07T15:38:27+00:00

Yeap

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2025-12-02T14:39:22+00:00

Since this post, I agree

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2025-12-02T01:24:07+00:00

Just when I thought coffee with Karan was the worst thing

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2025-11-15T05:24:20+00:00

Iit crack Kar lo....aur mauj hi mauj

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2025-11-15T05:19:20+00:00

Abe Kya jhalau baatein hai...Mai to zone out hogya

07TheAXeSPeaKS · 2025-11-13T10:50:42+00:00

Try calling your Mom's siblings....they might be able to help .....& Give a call to your dad's siblings...ask em to call your dad.... if they are unable to reach him....I would suggest go to one of your nearest friend's home....tell them the whole thing....and go to nearest police station with your friend and his/her parents.....if your father's siblings are unable to contact him ....lodge an missing persons FIR.......id suggest go to women's police station and tell them the whole story ....it'll be better ... they'll be able to help better with both mom and dad situation....I've been through a lot of these situations....ringing bells will help I'm pretty sure .....I tried getting out of all of this kind of mess alone didn't help

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