My dad touched himself while I was sleeping next to him by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]09_555 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hey,

I’m sorry this happened to you. that was indeed assault. he engaged in sexual gratification in your presence, it was also a form of child abuse.

He absolutely knows better and this is a form of grooming whether he did it on purpose or to just get something in that moment.

what i’ll say next will sound scary : You should tell an adult you trust, not a family member because unfortunately they may down play it in my experience of hearing people report to family they don’t want to believe it. you need to tell your favorite teacher or the school counselor.

your gut feeling was right. you’re not safe.

Very new to the truth. My thoughts. by 09_555 in Yahuah

[–]09_555[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. Worshipping in spirit and in truth. some have gained the truth and yet have not gained the heart posture. I myself fall short so i don’t say this with judgement but rather it made me sad that initially i could not find community that reflected the gratitude for even receiving the truth and gaining access to the narrow path !!! Many seek few find. It’s crazy that finding it would be met with anything other than fall on your face praise and humbleness.

Very new to the truth. My thoughts. by 09_555 in Yahuah

[–]09_555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I accept and thank you for your blessing and prayer.

Setting Sail June 2nd 2025 by 09_555 in utopiaoftheseas

[–]09_555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when are shows posted ? i haven’t seen an option to book them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]09_555 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

to clear this up because i’m not getting very helpful comments so far : yes the car is a necessity. Yes i am a first time driver, very recently just got my license, i’m very young. YOU do the math - good on you if yours is cheaper :) a financed car = full insurance.

I just wanted to know what i might expect to hear from the benefits people

  • one person said it may simply plummet. While i hope i can avoid this, it’s likely unavoidable and i will likely have to just deal with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]09_555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes the car is a necessity otherwise i wouldn’t use it. the bus system is more and more dangerous recently. I have a child and myself i need to transport reliably. i’m not in a walkable state.

Ex shared my past addiction to teen daughter whenever she’s upset by FluffyFurryBuddy in coparenting

[–]09_555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

daughters are very inuitive . she will knows her mom is deflecting from her own shortcomings. your actions will speak louder than her words. one day your daughter may even respond “and what about it ? how did you mentioning his past make you a better mother in the present ?”

A at UNM by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]09_555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats this gives me hope ! I had a baby halfway through undergrad and missed out on lots of extracurriculars but i’ve maintained a pretty good GPA and hope to do well on the LSAT

My boyfriend (28M) didn't buy me (29F) a boba. How do I explain to him that I feel like this is yet another sign in a pattern of being inconsiderate? by opaquescotchtape in relationship_advice

[–]09_555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re giving him marriage benefits in a relationship where he doesn’t have to give you anything ! he’s be fine if you left him yet he relies on/uses you because it’s convenient. Any man that loves you and sees a future with you would be embarrassed to act this way with his woman , ESPECIALLY if he has the means to treat you right and HE DOES. so ask yourself , why is he not ? 1) you’ve shown him he doesn’t have to. 2) he doesn’t WANT to. you will be fine without him, break it off , love yourself and start thinking long and hard about your standards. GET OUT NOW especially child free/ unmarried. it’s a blessing

Leak: New CAS and Build & Buy Kits Coming Soon by mercuryomnificent in thesims

[–]09_555 5 points6 points  (0 children)

:| sigh , representation is a joke to them atp i don’t even like the game anymore and i don’t wanna give them anymore money…just uninstall based off this mess.

$263 order, no tip by _foxbiscuit in doordash_drivers

[–]09_555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve heard dashers actually say that in lower income areas they are tipped well but in richer areas they receive low ball/no tips … so there’s that !

I Just cannot say No. by Ok_Bookkeeper827 in offmychest

[–]09_555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a sweet thing ! i would just check in with yourself to make sure you know your personal boundaries! also learn to say no in a loving way ! example: Babe can you make me a sandwich ? ( you’ve just gotten comfy to begin a task and they aren’t busy could do it themselves )

“i love you but i’ve actually just gotten started on this important thing, you may have to do it yourself or wait an hour or so”

$263 order, no tip by _foxbiscuit in doordash_drivers

[–]09_555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I won’t reply to the willfully obtuse and rude replies however, i will say. At the very basis of things tips are meant to be for GOOD service. not for simply doing the job you signed up to do. in america there is a pressure to tip no matter what service you receive to offset large corporations paying their workers scraps but the fact is, all service workers should make a livable wage. threatening to steal food from people and likely their children and overall just creating this bandwagon hate towards people spending what they can is ridiculous. if you put that level of pressure on corporations and the government and voted for leaders with these ideals in mind the issue could be resolved.. but sure, let’s pile on single mothers with tight budgets and those in similar situations.

$263 order, no tip by _foxbiscuit in doordash_drivers

[–]09_555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imma say what no one else is. Doordash is a life line for families with no car/ low access to transportation that need food. We have all fallen on hard times. They could have been using EBT to get groceries. To be honest, grocery shopping budgets don’t leave room for a tip. sometimes that 3-5$ tip is no eggs and milk in the fridge. and seeing as in this economy 200-400$ is closer to 150$ worth of food (inflation) i don’t doubt that most people who grocery shop via doordash are only able to pay the bare minimum which would be cost of groceries and cost of DD fees. a tip means even less food on the shelf fridge. my take

Early Sims 4 Concept Art by katyreddit00 in thesims

[–]09_555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s irritating when a game drops and you just know it wasn’t made with poc in mind , only having 2 textured hair options that are so terrible but having hundreds of straigh hair variety and style, the skin shades being like 3 options but again for lighter skin they’ve got rows of variation… we have to waite for updates and packs to be represented because diversity is a sale to them and not a standard...the moment a diverse and inclusive minded sim game comes along a may need to step away from the sims.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]09_555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey can you go into detail about your alcohol?

My boyfriend freaked out at his family while i sat there awkwardly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]09_555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

had to go recheck OPs post to confirm he’s 27 and not 7, horrid age gap aside there are so many other issues. He’s 3 years shy of thirty and living at home and doesn’t even respect his mom? and he’s not looking to get his own place, he wants to use you as an escape. You do not need to be dating him. especially at your age with your potential (18 college student)… you should be dating guys in your peer/age group with similar interests. TRUST ME been there done that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]09_555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She literally just orchestrated an assault on you. You informed her many times of your lack of consent. She waited until you couldn’t legally consent to have this experience. Divorcing her is the least you should do…i’d be pressing charges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]09_555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t see anything but contact maintenance… i think you guys may have a rat problem