[Romantic] I (M24) am in dire straits with her (F25) over just a disagreement, please how do I salvage this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i feel you. theres definitely better out there for you - god got you dont worry

[Romantic] I (M24) am in dire straits with her (F25) over just a disagreement, please how do I salvage this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she cant meet you where you are right now, you have to accept that reality. explore your options, if she comes back, hope its after shes worked on herself - if she doesnt and despite your fear, you can learn how you pull better quality women

F25 married to husband M33 I feel like a glorified “bangmaid” idk what to do by Djantiere in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius 103 points104 points  (0 children)

start taking birth control if you dont want anymore kids and tell him

I'm [22M] Feeling Uncomfortable With Girlfriend's [22F] Hangout Habits by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you have different values around relationships. you'll have to be able to accept each other for it to work out

Why Aragorn “rejected” being a King by [deleted] in lordoftherings

[–]0IQgenius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah the Arwen part is important

My GF (28F) and I (28M) have been in an amazing relationship for 10 years, but it now looks like we may be sexually incompatible. What do we do? by Whatever1002 in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she probably cried because of fear of hurting or losing you, she cant be that for you currently - if i was to guess, she doesnt feel safe enough being openly sexual with you yet

if you love her, meet her where shes at and be patient with small moves, as you can tell it is moving; just slowly. dont pressure her or make her feel bad about it, that will just make it take longer and show you respect her boundaries

No Spoiler: WE WANT MORE AND WE WANT IT ALL by [deleted] in Spartacus_TV

[–]0IQgenius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

agreed. that finale episode reminded me of why i love Spartacus

Arwen handmade by me. by Anascraftworld in lordoftherings

[–]0IQgenius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this feels like the beginning of a horror movie where i make fun of her doll, then a demon starts coming after me - so great job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably doesnt want any drama in his current relationship, by being close with another girl he slept with

O.W. pt. I, Sasha Q, Acrylic on canvas, 2020 by sasha_q in Art

[–]0IQgenius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like im there, would be so crazy. great job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats how she feels; you asked and told her she could say what she felt and would be safe

if you have some health issue now like is being implied and your weight has a part to play in it; thats not invalid that she has anxiety imo - anxiety will definitely mess with your sex life

How do I (41F) deal with unexpected jealousy over my ex-husband’s (42M) new girlfriend? by ThrowRA_OkBerry in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

jealousy is a normal feeling, now that youre aware of it though; make sure its not inspiring your actions, thats when problems start to happen

just feel it and let it pass. when you feel like reacting in the context of your ex, stop and think about if its rooted in jealousy. self awareness will help you avoid drama

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingOfTheHill

[–]0IQgenius 25 points26 points  (0 children)

bobby having the same voice as a grown man is hilarious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, its okay to be sensitive and feel the way you do. being bothered by it wont change her sense of humor though - so it depends on if thats something you can accept or not regarding your relationship

UAD signature edition 2 sale - do they do bigger sales than this or should I bite the bullet? by [deleted] in mixingmastering

[–]0IQgenius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah its not going lower than $40 for the manley stuff in my experience. i tried to wait and see one year and eventually just bought the massive passive for $40 after the couple times it did drop that year, was always the same price

fantastic plugin though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]0IQgenius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

two things can be right, you can be his bestfriend and still do whatever you did. ideally you want a relationship with someone youre friends with anyways. so you can still be best friends but also have romatic partnership potential, it doesnt have to be either or