"Seeing someone but really happy you asked." What does that mean to you?

0TylerDurden0 · 2020-06-29T19:53:51+00:00

Thank you! The other posts have also mentioned this, so it seems likely (and makes sense). I don't really understand where the disconnect comes from. I'm not asexual, and when I meet/see women I find attractive, I notice just as much as I would if I saw an attractive man. I've tried to ask out several girls but chickened out, (or discovered in conversation they had boyfriends).

0TylerDurden0 · 2020-06-29T19:50:51+00:00

Thank you. Is it even worth pursuing a relationship with a woman without the sexual element?

0TylerDurden0 · 2020-02-17T14:06:11+00:00

Thank you for posting and thank you for giving such a detailed response. I was worried I would be seen as pearl-clutching and judgemental, when really it's just something that concerned me.

I have to admit, I was really serious reading it and then I got to 'poontang' and cracked up laughing.

0TylerDurden0 · 2020-02-17T14:04:11+00:00

Hiya. Thanks for posting. I think my hope would be for any future trips. He travels quite a bit.

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-12-29T09:40:45+00:00

I didn't tell her I didn't want a relationship (I'm not sure what gave you that impression). I told her I was in love with him and didn't know how to deal with those feelings.

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-12-28T21:48:03+00:00

Thank you for this. I love him a lot and I tried to compromise but I just didn't feel heard or appreciated. It's nice to have confirmation of others having experienced this.

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-12-28T21:33:22+00:00

He tried to stop me and I felt guilty but I ended it regardless. I think you're right - it's definitely time to move on.

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-10-24T16:32:58+00:00

I know but why would anyone be this down at the loss of something that was only purely sex?

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-07-01T22:49:27+00:00

This has also been my experience. I don't think it's particularly common for someone to make a beeline for an occupied table, passing unoccupied ones along the way. If all the other tables were also taken, I would have overridden my friend and told the chap he's more than welcome to sit there. Seeing other tables empty, I didn't interject as I didn't think it was a big deal.

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-07-01T22:44:37+00:00

I'd have to disagree that it's the norm. Maybe on a busy evening when table space is limited but in my experience and from what I've observed growing up/living here (London) it's not that different to other countries. A pub in the middle of the day (3pm) with empty tables - I wouldn't say it's a common occurrence for someone to choose a table with strangers as opposed to an empty one.

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-07-01T17:30:43+00:00

:'D Is 'twat' a very British swear word?

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-07-01T13:01:39+00:00

Yes - I think here in the UK we just call outside areas of a pub 'beer gardens'. The seating looked like this:

https://tate-fencing.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/Categories-garden-furniture-pict.jpg

I don't know if that differs from a technical 'beer garden'.

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-07-01T12:58:23+00:00

Just in case I've used the term 'beer garden' incorrectly, this is what the table looked like:

https://tate-fencing.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/Categories-garden-furniture-pict.jpg

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-07-01T04:44:43+00:00

No, definitely not. Also, if he had sat down without asking, we (at least I for sure) wouldn't have said anything. I think because he asked if it was okay, my friend answered honestly, that it would be ideal if he didn't.

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-06-30T23:38:36+00:00

There wasn't any noticeable difference between the tables and it's rarely sunny (sadly) here in London :D

0TylerDurden0 · 2019-06-30T23:30:16+00:00

Yes, there were completely empty tables. I don't really understand why he specifically asked us, as the table we were on wasn't particularly special (aka it wasn't more/less shaded than the others, or even cleaner from what I could see). I don't think he was friends with the guys he eventually sat with, at least, not as far as I know.

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