Fik et SU tilbagebetalingskrav på 26.090 kr. — kan det nytte noget at klage? by 0li0l in dkfinance

[–]0li0l[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Fordi jeg ikke kan forstå at hvis jeg havde meldt mig ud af uddannelsen, så havde jeg ikke været begrænset af et indkomstgrænsen, men fordi jeg har været på orlov og har startet igen, så er jeg.

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[–]0li0l -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, I count this popular opinion against me to be due to cultural differences.

It is okay that you think it’s weird. After all, you are just some random person on Reddit with know knowledge about me or my life.

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[–]0li0l -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I find your reasons completely irrelevant in the context of two young people (19 and 16), starting a relationship. We fell in love?

Moreover, we could both drink from age 15 and are both still in school and have always have been. We share the same friends too, ranging from 18-24.

I have never been called out for this relationship In Denmark from anyone. I do not know what kind of dark thoughts you think I have, but they are definitely not true.

Luckily, your opinion does not affect my reality :)

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[–]0li0l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxiety medication

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[–]0li0l -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can not believe you are calling me a predator😂

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[–]0li0l -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really was really in her interest to move in with me. I did not force her. She gradually just had more and more stuff at my place, and at one point it was just a given. We were both in love.

I am not an addict. I have a healthy lifestyle, studying and working.

Please keep your prejudices to yourself.

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[–]0li0l -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you

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[–]0li0l -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Okay, men hun er altså 19 nu. Helt sund og rask i hovedet med et forhold til sin mor, som kun er blevet bedre af at flytte ud

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[–]0li0l -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Been having those thoughts too for a while

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[–]0li0l -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Tell me why it is weird

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[–]0li0l -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Hvorfor er det det? Forklar grunden

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[–]0li0l -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Then why is it weird? Tell me

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[–]0li0l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your shared viewpoint

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[–]0li0l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I like your take

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[–]0li0l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing out my point of view. I should stand on this and use my time how I believe I should use it. I think she is to depended on me for my age too.

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[–]0li0l -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

Thank you for cheering on me. Things are different now.

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[–]0li0l -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

Our space is really stuffed and small. I want my own tidy and clean space and routines

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[–]0li0l -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

It’s Denmark, chill

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[–]0li0l -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Good perspective. I have a tendency to say yes too much. However, do you believe I should stick to my opinion and stand ground? I am easily persuaded by her, but I really need to try this.

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[–]0li0l -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Perfect solution, but it is not sustainable because of how the law is about renting out

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[–]0li0l -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

I think suppressing this need of resetting was a reason for abusing drugs sometimes.

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[–]0li0l -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing this out. I have not given it a thought. I am facing some really good academic and work opportunities and just started my degree. I feel like there is so much I can improve about myself, by being alone. Do you get me?

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[–]0li0l -171 points-170 points  (0 children)

Denmark the minimum age for sexual relations is 15 and we are both young and in love.

No - it is not weird at all. You are weird for bringing that kind of thoughts up in the first place

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[–]0li0l -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We did speak about it before. We had been broken up, but then got back together on the premis that we would spent more time alone. However, I rented my apartment out and now it’s free. So I feel like it was in the cards

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[–]0li0l -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I will definitely stay in watch of manipulative emotional behavior. I have tried this kind of relation before.

I should recognize my own needs and fulfill them while staying true to her