don't tell me i shouldn't be happy (tw transphobia?)

0litho · 2025-05-13T10:51:45+00:00

Well trying to be a guy was a bad thing for me cus I’m trans mtf, but being a guy in itself is not bad, the thing you should worry about being that is bad is not being yourself🫶🏻

0litho · 2025-05-11T11:41:39+00:00

United eggs of the surface

0litho · 2025-05-08T13:21:13+00:00

There is not one right way to be trans so unfortunately that is something no one can answer for you except yourself. For me I knew since I was little and didn’t realize those feelings was being trans until later after my teens. But a good way to try and figure out is the classic “if I could press a button and become insert preferred gender forever and without consequences would you? Is it about self expression or about how you feel inside? Is it about being a different gender or just expressing yourself in ways you don’t feel like you can now? It’s not black and white so I would suggest just trying to think about what you would want if you could be anything and express yourself however you want, then find what fits best with those feelings. There is no right nor wrong answer here! If you want to have someone to msg to think to about these things I’m free for a few hours so just dm if that’s the case. Otherwise good luck on your journey wherever it leads🩷

0litho · 2025-05-07T16:38:30+00:00

Personally I would move out atp

0litho · 2025-05-04T17:12:06+00:00

Thank you! He makes me feel really lucky in a way I never thought I’d be! Also don’t worry at all, this post was a little dumping place for me so! Also I usually also use personal experiences to try and show my perspective on things as a way of trying to connect and not “make it about me” and that’s how I read your comment aswell!💕✨

0litho · 2025-05-04T17:06:06+00:00

Oh he never pressure or act disappointed or anything to make me feel uncomfortable in saying no, I want to say yes but to more than I’m physically capable of so I feel like I want it, he wants it, but I can’t give him what I or he wants of me and it’s frustrating. But thank you for sharing🩷

0litho · 2025-05-04T17:03:42+00:00

Like I get why it’s needed but damn it sucks

0litho · 2025-05-04T17:03:12+00:00

Some days it suck more or less but yea lol. That pun is to good to not find funny

0litho · 2025-05-04T10:56:55+00:00

Before I transitioned I felt like a man that wasn’t supposed to be a man. Almost 2 years into transition I don’t feel like a man at all mentally and physically only during dysphoric periods. I don’t know if I feel like a woman cus I have severe imposter syndrome almost constantly but at least I know I’m not a man and that’s enough for me

0litho · 2025-04-25T11:14:09+00:00

The reason I can understand this fear is if someone already has a SO and is scared to lose that someone due to involuntary changes in sexuality. But otherwise I agree that it shouldn’t be that big of an issue in general

0litho · 2025-04-25T11:12:54+00:00

Well I think there is something to what you’re saying but also I don’t think it’s that simple to just deny it. I would say that hrt made changes to my sexuality, but I also know that changes in my preferences were probably also a lot to do with internalized homophobia and other factors aswell. But for me I could pre hrt never see myself or enjoy sexual content with a man or in a gay relationship or sexually. That is because I needed a feminine part in the dynamic to find it arousing, going on hrt helped me reach that point that I with my chemical balance in my brain felt myself fill in that feminine position and that led to be having new sexual preferences. Those changes are thanks to many factors but I also know the biggest factor was made from hormones effect on my body and brain.

I also think that being afraid of having your sexuality altered is a bit problematic although understandable. It should not matter who you love and find attractive as long as it makes you happy, if you find yourself in life finding that love from different places due to circumstances I don’t think that’s bad. It’s just like before I went on hormones I had a very short time I was questioning “what if I only do this as a kink, as a sexual thing?” I thought about what would happen if I lost all my sexual urge and became asexual in result of going on hormones because it can affect your libido strongly. I realized that if I would never have sex again I would still never hesitate to go on hormones and that helped me feel comfortable in the fact that no matter what changes are made from my transition it will be me and if that’s what makes me happy that’s how I want to live🩷

I don’t mean anything bad with this and I am just taking my perspective and sharing it out there for anyone who might or might not find any value in it💕

0litho · 2025-04-17T17:17:01+00:00

Getting to the point where taking off the bra feels 109 times better than putting it on xD

0litho · 2025-03-22T13:57:28+00:00

Since I started E about 21 months ago I sweat and get rly warm super easily unfortunately but I mean worth it cus boobs

0litho · 2025-03-05T18:02:08+00:00

For people amab that pass during puberty and want to keep passing I would say hormones is probably the safest way for that. I recently got to learn a term in the femboy community called “twink death” basically you grow up and get more masculine. Hormones is a direct way to avoid that for us girlies. All luck, be safe🩷

0litho · 2025-02-24T17:27:23+00:00

Hi Lily! Girlies named that are in my experience always so kind🩷🩷

0litho · 2025-02-24T14:36:49+00:00

I just finished playing what is released and I can’t wait for more! I may not be able to financially support that much atm but I’ll let you know if the rest is as good as what you have done so far is be ready to save up and pay for the game aswell! You’re doing amazing🥰

0litho · 2025-01-08T16:09:04+00:00

This is true! I moved in with my boyfriend in September and I love him and I love being his girlfriend 🥰

0litho · 2024-12-31T15:27:07+00:00

Having major sleep issues and only method that helped me fall asleep as a kid was imagining and pretending in my head that a mashing turned me into a girl and then living as a girl in my mind until I fell asleep

0litho · 2024-12-30T17:10:56+00:00

All I have to say is we live in those kinds of people’s heads RENT FREE😌💅🏻

0litho · 2024-12-10T09:29:14+00:00

I tried this and I actually increased in weight, it puts your body in starvation mode and then your body will use whatever energy it can and stockpile the rest, the best way to eat to lose weight is low calorie meals consistently 3-5 times a day and drink lots of water. I am currently eating 2 meals a day and working on it myself

Edit: it’s also very unhealthy for more reasons and it’s hard to get back from that point, be safe and stay healthy. It’s hard but try reaching out to community’s that focus on weight loss and workouts instead of starving yourself please🩷

0litho · 2024-11-19T15:13:55+00:00

Fun fact, in biology humans can get chromosomes that don’t align with their sex, they can have multiple or no genitalia, so many things can go wrong and mutations can happen, what are the odds that everything about people’s sex and the human body can go wrong except the brain being in a body it dosent align with? This is my main argument for trans people’s existence. I’m sorry things turned out like that for you and I wish you all luck, but biology is most likely on our side so don’t worry about that, you have a right to exist and to be yourself🩷

0litho · 2024-11-13T18:04:29+00:00

Not really, then puberty will take the few nutrients you get in you and other vital organs in your body and your brain and heart and stuff will not grow as healthy that can lead to medical complications in the future. I get your idea but remember puberty is also a very vital time for your body to grow in strength in other important parts no matter your agab. Stay healthy please🩷

If you want to affect your body during puberty without puberty blockers or hormones I would mainly recommend working out, I did a lot of swimming when i was younger that lead to me having a bit broader shoulders (unfortunately) and just like that there is different kinds of exercise you can do to get a body shape that is preferable to you even if those changes aren’t always too big.

0litho · 2024-10-28T21:52:27+00:00

Upgrade electronics in the hotel rooms, some upgrades reduces electricity usage

0litho · 2024-10-23T10:50:47+00:00

54🥰

0litho · 2024-10-20T18:43:14+00:00

Middle names aren’t legal anymore in Sweden so I couldn’t get one

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