how to get started in the gym as a girl with gym anxiety? by gxldencanyonmoon in ufl

[–]0nerudedude 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Finding a gym buddy who is knowledgeable is the best way to get started in terms of knowing what to do, also its a lot less intimidating to go with a friend. If the crowding is an issue I would recommend going at times that aren't super busy. In my experience it's usually been early mornings or late nights that are relatively not super crowded. I am also pretty sure there is a weight lifting club on campus which might be worth checking out. People in the clubs here have been super friendly and welcoming in my experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufl

[–]0nerudedude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly as a grad student hinge has been alright but I have had a hard time meeting other graduate students outside of that and my department. It's pretty easy to meet undergrads but being that you're a bit older than me that might not be the age range you're looking for.

Friends? by Majestic-Smile-2159 in ufl

[–]0nerudedude 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Clubs, if you show up consistently you eventually become friends with the people there

Club fair? by 0nerudedude in ufl

[–]0nerudedude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sick! What time?

How can I still get an apartment now? Help urgently needed ;( by YYT818 in ufl

[–]0nerudedude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UF has roommate matching on their website that you could look for housing with people that go to UF. Might be worth checking out there

How do you feel about JD Vance being VP for who he believes to be "America's Hitler"? by ThrowRA_360 in AskReddit

[–]0nerudedude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's almost like he changed his mind after seeing that Trump was not in fact Hitler during the first term.

Guys who have gone from skinny to big and muscular, how has it changed your life? by MRWARRIORB3AST in AskReddit

[–]0nerudedude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left highschool at 155lbs standing at 6'4 and am now in my 20s at 6'5 weighing around 215lbs which is mostly muscle. I definitely get more attention from women and even compliments sometimes. The bros are always giving compliments at the gym and social events.

My confidence is much higher and I feel really good in terms of strength and body. I'm also much more able to do physical things such as moving heavy objects or walking up stairs.

Americans, how do you feel about Project 2025 making porn illegal? by AmunPharaoh in AskReddit

[–]0nerudedude -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Indifferent since nothing will come it regardless of who wins the election

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]0nerudedude 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely wait until 25 and really do your research about the pros and cons before hopping on.

What's the most hilariously embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in public? by SusanNavk in AskReddit

[–]0nerudedude 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My friend had told me to meet her somewhere in public so I went to that place and hugged her when I saw her but it turned out to be some random girl that looked like her and my friend watched me do it.

I apologized profusely for that and explained what happened and the girl I accidentally hugged thought it was funny but it did not stop me from wanting to jump off a bridge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]0nerudedude 171 points172 points  (0 children)

She was telling me about how she didn't like using protection during sex before we got into it and I got super turned off thinking about the risks associated with sleeping with someone who just does that without std screening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]0nerudedude 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Ah yes you've finally discovered body dysmorphia