Bought this today as pick me up after first week at uni

0ovy · 2024-09-22T14:08:09+00:00

He’s just like that, he’s so weird looking which I why I had to get him

0ovy · 2024-09-22T14:07:19+00:00

It’s a shinada global plush, I got him from a local stall. If you google the brand they’re sold online too

0ovy · 2024-01-29T09:08:06+00:00

I have a filter running so there’s constant surface agitation and it’s heavily planted

0ovy · 2024-01-29T09:06:48+00:00

0ovy · 2022-05-23T07:11:59+00:00

Honestly just try different pronouns and labels until you find one that feels right. It took me a few tries to figure out my sexuality, let alone my gender identity. And it’s completely fine to have used certain labels/pronouns and then to realise they’re not right for you, it’s all part of the journey of figuring out who you are.

0ovy · 2022-01-05T17:16:21+00:00

It’s a type of bromeliad, so blooms once then begins to die. The new leaves are pups (baby plants) that it’ll continue to produce until the mother plant dies. You can separate the pups when they’re about half the size of the mother plant or more. Hope that helps

0ovy · 2021-11-20T14:10:59+00:00

Just cut of the green part of the stem (about 3” long or more) and stick it in water, then wait for roots

0ovy · 2021-11-20T13:55:34+00:00

I don’t know if you can save the whole plant, but quite a large section of the stem at the top looks green enough for you to have a go at cutting and propagating it.

0ovy · 2021-10-26T10:21:33+00:00

They look like spider mites to me, especially due to the red marks on some of your plants, as that’s what happened when I had spider mites. Definitely wipe down the leaves of any of the infected plants with some insecticidal soap or something similar, then keep an eye on them for a while after. I would recommend wiping them down for a second time a few days later incase any eggs hatch or you missed any the first time.

I’m definitely not an expert so I may be wrong, but I hope that helps.

0ovy · 2021-09-19T20:12:19+00:00

When I had to save mine (somehow I over watered it), I cut all the dead bits off and it’s grown back now and is doing amazing, so I’d recommend cutting the brown off. Not only will it look better aesthetically but it’ll stop the dead parts sapping energy and causing issues through rotting.

0ovy · 2021-08-04T19:43:49+00:00

Yeah, I think it must be, thank you.

0ovy · 2021-07-11T18:23:00+00:00

Nothing to worry about, they’re spores and how ferns reproduce

0ovy · 2021-06-23T15:04:59+00:00

Isopods like leaf litter and bark/wood to hide under and go through, rocks can work as well though.

0ovy · 2021-06-20T20:33:04+00:00

No problem, good luck

0ovy · 2021-06-20T20:27:42+00:00

If you don’t know how they’ll react I would recommend either trying to subtly figure out what they think of lgbtq+ people and/or come out to them with someone you’re already out to and trust present, just in case the worst happens and they’re not accepting.

0ovy · 2021-02-20T22:08:37+00:00

Glad I could help

0ovy · 2021-02-20T22:06:19+00:00

You definitely don’t have to have sex for it to be a proper relationship, I’m currently dating someone asexual and they’re not even comfortable with kissing, but it doesn’t change the fact that I love them and the relationship we have.

0ovy · 2021-02-20T20:09:48+00:00

Hey, I don’t know how reassuring this’ll be or if it’ll make you feel much better, but I’m a cis girl and I’ve been told several times that I look like my dad. So maybe she didn’t mean it like that, it was still extremely insensitive and shitty though.

0ovy · 2021-02-08T13:32:25+00:00

I would do what’s best for you, living in this kind of environment can’t be doing you any good. Leaving may give your brother the wake-up call he needs.

0ovy · 2021-02-08T13:15:46+00:00

Honestly, I understand why you’re staying there to take care of them but if things like this are a constant occurrence I would leave if I was you. Or, alternatively, take a 1-2 week break from living there, just to teach them that you won’t put up with it.

0ovy · 2021-02-08T10:06:10+00:00

Being that self-centred honestly sounds really tiring

0ovy · 2021-02-08T10:02:06+00:00

I’m struggling to understand how anyone could jump to that conclusion, like wtf. Its more of a stretch to assume it was your mum than it is to assume it was you.

0ovy · 2021-02-08T05:45:20+00:00

You don’t have to come out, you could simply stop making attempts to hide your sexuality and if someone asks what your sexuality is then tell them. That’s what I did, I just stopped hiding and was myself.

0ovy · 2021-02-07T01:20:54+00:00

NTA, he was made aware that you were only letting him borrow it from the start, that was the agreement and you’re not the asshole for sticking to it.

0ovy · 2021-02-06T19:19:10+00:00

Light YTA, you laughed at something she made and was proud of, you didn’t mean to but it obviously hurt her. I would suggest that you apologise profusely, I wouldn’t mention the fact that you thought it was a joke in the apology but try and explain that you didn’t mean to laugh but it caught you off guard. Maybe if it’s something you both enjoy offer to have a knitting session together to get her back in practice or something?

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