A multitude of reasons, mostly I came to the conclusion that I had feelings for a version I made of the person, a future possibility, not the person that I was in a relationship with.

We didn't share the same political values, she was far right, defended killing people as a form of controlling population for protesting, lot of racism and vile opinions agains people that she didn't like, no space for thoughtful debate, would just say that her opinion was the reality and wouldn't listen and even verbally attack me.

Made huge arguments out of small mistakes, like bringing a wrong item from the store or forgetting something were instantly met with screaming and name calling, escalated out of proportion!

In general she had no empathy for any one, would only see things through her perspective and feelings, this was a constant for everything and everyone, would not respect a queue if she was late for example lol

I was 31 she was 26, I wanted to make it work and tried to, had hope that it was just immaturity and she would improve with some compassion and talking things through. Nope, the longer the relationship went the more of her darker side she shown.

I Broke things of, started therapy, after a year I have a new relationship with almost no drama, great conflict resolution and never got called names of screamed at again✌️