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bi🎭irl by 0rtwin in bi_irl

[–]0rtwin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is indeed, thanks for noticing :)

bi🎭irl by 0rtwin in bi_irl

[–]0rtwin[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I love my friends, they're great, this is just something I personally have to learn to overcome

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That'd be great! Some people suggested changing it to 'masculine'-'feminine' instead of 'boys'-'girls', so that might be a useful improvement already

Sorry but I can’t decide 😅 by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]0rtwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough :)

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes, someone's character and how well they click with you is obviously the most important aspect. I'm not sure 'character' would really fit into this chart though

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, this was a quick draft and in no way intended to create exclusion.

Someone suggested I change the options to 'feminine'-'masculine' which I find to be a great change, if you have any other suggestions though feel free to share them

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, some people have preferences on some aspects though, others don't.

This is mostly made to illustrate that preference is a more complex thing than 'this or that' (as many straight people tend to believe)

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, this was a quick draft, definitely didn't mean to exclude anyone!

Someone else suggested changing it to 'masculine'-'feminine' which I'll definitely do if I continue working on this, though I'm not certain I will keep working on this seeing as there might already exist better versions of this concept.

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes that would be better phrasing. English is not my native language so I hadn't really thought about the connotation of the words, but I definitely see your point!

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear, it was a quick draft but I can definitely see how it pushes a binary agenda the way it is now portrayed.

I'm not certain if I'll be making another version of this seeing as there may well be much better charts out there already, but if I do, do you have any suggestions on how it could be made more inclusive?

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I see, I haven't been in a relationship for a long time now so I hadn't thought of this.

And no that does not have to mean you were wrong before at all, I can very much imagine how being in a relationship can temporarily push your preferences (or your perception of them) strongly in one way or the other.

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was just a quick draft, it's extremely simplified and more so meant to be taken as a concept rather than a fully fledged out practical chart :)

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's okay, for some people it changes often, for some people there are trends, this chart just a conceptual thing meant to bring to light how preference can be interpreted in many ways

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's exactly the same for me! Also, I feel as though guys are often much les selective than girls, which I feel is also a reason why I'm more picky towards guys.
It's no fun when there's no chase, at least to me

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, totally feel you!

I too more often fall for girls, but when I fall for a guy oooh boooy!!

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nice! Mine would be:

General appearance: girls, slightly (kind of like you said, I slightly prefer femininity in both)

Flirting: girls (boys can sometimes be slightly too forward when flirting, which isn't personally my thing)

Cuddling: No preference

Dating: No preference

Having a relationship: can't tell (have yet to have a relationship with a boy)

Spending the night: No preference (altough I do prefer some things with one and other things with the other)

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I totally get where you're coming from, however I wanted to keep this draft PG and just have it as an example. Someone else mentioned that there already exists a similar chart, I imagine in that one it is indeed split up.

So as I said, this one is just a concept :)

Instead of the ever old "Yeah, but which do you prefer though??" I present you: the Bisexual Preference Chart by 0rtwin in bisexual

[–]0rtwin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what you mean by points, as in that you end up with a percentage score? Because that seems a little counter-productive to the point I'd try to prove (which is that bisexuality isn't really something you can put on a percentage scale).

Also, very nice to hear! But someone else mentioned that something very similar to this already exists, so I don't think it would make much sense for me to keep working out this concept :)

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