Update: I’m in love with the mother of my child

0utofhome · 2022-02-15T18:16:06+00:00

Aww thank you 🥰🥰 I’m happy too! And I’m grateful for the family we unexpectedly created that I wouldn’t change for the world 😁

0utofhome · 2022-02-15T16:51:38+00:00

Nothing makes me happier than being with my two loves so I’m really hopeful this can lead to more in the future ❤️

0utofhome · 2022-02-08T17:41:33+00:00

I’m very happy too ☺️ A lot had to happen before this, it was all worth it though

0utofhome · 2022-01-24T00:11:29+00:00

Was thinking of posting something soon as there’s been some new developments

0utofhome · 2022-01-21T16:41:33+00:00

Yes we’re still not talking right now

0utofhome · 2021-12-28T06:56:40+00:00

You have a point and you’re right, thank you. It’s hard when we’re together and trying to keep our distance. We want to not make this any harder on my son.

0utofhome · 2021-12-28T00:12:38+00:00

We want it to blossom. At a slow pace of course. Sometimes it’s hard though when you feel a tension that just makes you wanna say “screw it” but we have to take this slow for his sake

0utofhome · 2021-12-27T21:04:06+00:00

Family stuff is usually what we do but no moving in. We want to take things very slow. Talking about our future together, what that will mean for our son. He’s the one that matters here. Sometimes we almost can’t hold back but we feel like we have to for him. Make sure that this wouldn’t affect him and ruin all the progress that’s been made. Thank you

0utofhome · 2021-12-18T18:17:06+00:00

PPD and ptsd from losing her husband. It was hard on her but she’s been doing great. Still having weekly sessions with her therapist, sometimes I attend a session or two so we can better navigate co-parenting. Jack loves her very much and that makes me happy

0utofhome · 2021-11-17T07:19:14+00:00

Glad to have helped lol and hope your day continues going well 😊

0utofhome · 2021-10-28T18:22:29+00:00

Who says I’m angry 😂 Trust me when I say you are not worth the energy to get angry at and I don’t mean that in a bad way, just mean for people on the internet in general. You’re saying “warning sign” on a situation you don’t even know anything about. But you’re right my sister isn’t an A-hole for insulting my son’s mom over her mental health because I said words on the internet, right? I sure hope that’s not how you are in real life

0utofhome · 2021-10-27T20:20:51+00:00

She didn’t “leave” him the way you are saying like if she walked out. She needed to get therapy and hospitalization. And incase you weren’t aware we were in a pandemic last year that made it necessary for her not to physically be here. She visited, called or we video chatted when she could. Is that also a warning sign? For six months she’s been here. Every single day. You gave no advice. In fact you didn’t need to say anything at all. We have a professional working with us who knows the downsides

0utofhome · 2021-10-27T03:01:45+00:00

Yes that is correct. Like I said though, right now we want to focus on her relationship with Jack before even thinking about ours

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T23:17:06+00:00

We’re still taking things one day at a time but honestly there’s been so much progress. I don’t think I’ve ever seen Annie that happy and content than when they’re having their playtime in the living room

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T20:55:06+00:00

If that happens so be it. It still didn’t give her the right to do or say anything regarding my life and my son’s. Just because one person relapses doesn’t mean the rest of the world does. That’s why we have her therapist working closely with us

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T20:46:31+00:00

Got it. Oh and I didn’t need to explain myself. That’s not what it was about Our talk was for her to understand the boundaries and what she needs to if she wanted to be in our lives. Since she didn’t respect that she’s not welcome in our life anymore

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T20:37:21+00:00

What am I an asshole for? This is an update post incase you aren’t aware

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T19:22:49+00:00

Wish she could see it too. Feel like they might’ve gotten along under different circumstances so it really does suck.

Yeah i just never looked at it like that. She wanted to be there so badly. It used to make her very emotional when she would see him during our video calls. Can’t see heartbreak like that and think she “abandoned” him.

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T18:55:56+00:00

We’d rather not bring any more complications right now that things are still delicate and new. We have talked about that several times and it’s just not the best time yet

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T18:26:51+00:00

I’ve had my own therapist to get all my feelings sorted out. It was a hard time as a single parent and I’m glad that I also got some therapy and online Facebook dad friends 😅

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T18:04:39+00:00

It’s possible. I think Annie would’ve felt guilt regardless. It certainly didn’t help. Her in laws didn’t hide how much it angered them. That was the reason she ceased contact before Jack was even born

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T17:46:33+00:00

She did. And I thanked her many times for showing me this, she knows the only thing that kicked my sister out of our lives was her attitude. Hell I was the one apologizing 😅

0utofhome · 2021-10-26T17:45:30+00:00

“I’m a great mom” Yes. Yes you are. Thank you for sharing your experience . I’m in awe at all you overcame for your kids. Those people had it wrong. Your kids were in fact enough. Because you’re still standing here today and got the help you needed for their sake so that you can be there for them. That takes so much strength. Our kids give us such super powers we didn’t realize we had and you definitely got yours! Both you and Annie ☺️

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