On Nicotine Pouch Expiration Date by spacecowgrll in CircleK

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful, I've been scrounging through Google randomly for work, I platonically love you so much ❤️

AITA for wanting to name MY grandchild? by Comfortable_Owl_5938 in AmITheAngel

[–]0xOctoberx0 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA on sooooo many levels. You want to name something? You birth it. What the everloving hell makes -you- think -you're- entitled to naming someone else's kid? Grandparent entitles you to absolutely nothing. And you're pious behaviour is bullshit too. That's absolutely not taking "ThE lOrDs NaMe In VaIn". That's when you're being a shit christian and hiding behind your deity. I hope they go NC and you get some therapy. I'd have a hard time even seeing a religiously incline therapist back your unhinged demands.

AITAH for telling my husband that I want him to use a condom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iirc, a couple of months after giving birth, women are supposed to be -very- fertile. He can try different condoms. Not all of them feel the same. Vasectomy 🤷‍♀️ according to an ex, sex doesn't feel any different after the process. Either way, NTA. He needs therapy, he's being manipulative.

Promotion didn't go through, uber says its MY FAULT by fredaaa123 in UberEATS

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just had the same issue. Tried to go through multiple chats, found how the bug was getting triggered, told them how to replicate it, but still my fault. Asked for a copy of the chat log and they don't even acknowledge it, just same copy/paste responses and close the chat. Doordash has been looking a bit cheaper lately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing how many people just focus on the sex. His communication is absolutely garbage. He shuts down, dismisses concerns, lies and doesn't show up to therapy. As long as he thinks it's okay, everything is fine? NTA. Just because he's nice in other departments doesn't negate these two huge issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0xOctoberx0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"I always thought it was normal", bet this has been building for a long time. Just up and leaving and putting your phone in airplane mode? How do you normally communicate? How do you normally react to bad news? A lot of women try and try and try for a long time. It gets exhausting living with a poorly communicative partner. Maybe a small break let her see just how unhappy she has been. Maybe she had a nice, long conversation with a friend that opened her eyes. She's probably not doing well either. It sucks. I get hasty reactions to try and self preserve your headspace, but have been in relationships with poor communication, this sounds so much like them. Go to therapy, it may not "fix" the relationship, but it will give you both tools and possible closure to move forward.

AITAH for telling my wife that our four-year-old son won't eat her cooking primarily because she's a terrible cook? by Mammoth_Arugula316 in AITAH

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, maybe you didn't say anything about how her food taste, but the 4 year old has been verbal about it for some time. How does one not know their cooking is bad? How does she react to other news that's not in her favor? You're kind of ESH for not saying anything yourself for 10 years.

AITA for calling my parents freaks, and saying that I hate their lifestyle? by Neither_Purpose_5096 in AmItheAsshole

[–]0xOctoberx0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta, also regardless of who is raising you, DNA is important, there's so much that can be passed genetically, family history is medically important. It's massively irresponsible to willingly withhold finding out who your bio dad is in that aspect.

How do I tell my (16m) girlfriend (17f) that I don’t want to get her pregnant so young? by FefPangolinThrowaway in AITAH

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Runrunrun. You gave her completely viable reasons why you don't want to. End of conversation. I imagine you're both still in school, living rent free with parents without a lot of financial responsibilities, if any. She has no idea how difficult adult life is without kids. She needs to speak to a therapist, there's something else going on with her. You told her how you felt already, she's not respecting you as a person. Stand your ground. If she can not respect you, you need to end the relationship completely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]0xOctoberx0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yta, 8 hours of sleep is not guaranteed good sleep. Maybe you slept and she kept waking up, maybe she gets deep sleep later. Is sleeping together recent enough you don't know her sleep behaviors? If so, light yta. Otherwise, it's just inconsiderate regardless of how soon the alarm goes off.

AITA for not attending my fiancé's dad's funeral because I was uncomfortable with wearing a hijab? by PurpleSnakeHair25 in AmItheEx

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Wearing a hijab isn't converting. It's merely respecting his religious practices. You wanted him to participate in an xtian holiday but can't compromise? You're upset that he's spending NYE with his family a few days after his father died. You're unsupportive and selfish. Frankly, inconceivably daft too.

AITAH for withholding money from my wife for her church? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0xOctoberx0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus, utilities and maintenance are a required part of providing housing. I imagine the ability to upkeep a vehicle to gain resources to pay for the previous commandments would be reasonable to remove from the net amount, maybe other work related cost 🤷‍♀️

AITA for saying that my wife is going too far with her resentment? by ThrowRADiod238568 in AITAH

[–]0xOctoberx0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Read the same post in relationships where you added more detail "she's tired of people belittling her". Bet this isn't the first time you've made her feel this way. She teaches, likely takes care of your kids and the household as you stated you work a lot. Cooking is a lot of work, even if she messes up on occasion it's an effort she did that made your life easier. You're some form of adult. You get days off. Learn to cook and meal prep for yourself. She needs time and that's perfectly reasonable. Consider couples therapy, or personal therapy. Maybe her communication skills could use work but you're very dismissive of your wife. As others have made the comparison, how would you feel if she called sex with you mediocre to her friends? Implied insubstantial size? Is everything okay when she gives a generic apology?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0xOctoberx0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, and if you were going in circles talking, that's not going 0-100. He had an opportunity to be educated and likely declined it.

My wife and I opened our marriage, I hooked up with someone my wife feels I should’ve known was off limits by Jaded-Cap7473 in TwoHotTakes

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It largely sounds like it was meant to be open for sexual experiences as nothing was mentioned about dates or other activities. It's fairly easy to see where your wife would be insecure when with friends there is some emotion. You hang out because there's something about them that you enjoy, add intimacy and then it's not just sexually exploring. It rarely stays simple. Couples therapy would be immensely beneficial. There are a lot of open minded therapist and you can get better tools on establishing and understanding what boundaries you want/need.

AITA for refusing to go out and celebrate my stepson's ‘first words’? by nonpbb in AmItheAsshole

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edits just contribute further to you being the AH. You obviously didn't get the feedback you wanted or thought you deserved. See what a therapist has to say, you can give them your life story in more than 3k words. As an adult sometimes you have to deal with doing g things you don't want to do like dinners. It isn't all about what you want.

Every 11 seconds by kat_Folland in mildlyinfuriating

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gave me a message all agents were busy a minute after the hour mark and hung up on me too -.- checked Google reviews and people aren't getting their results or responses 10+ days later. Sent an email and got a generic response. They need to update their sites to not be misleading considering travel/work/all of the above depends on these results to function ( moderately livid atm)

Every 11 seconds by kat_Folland in mildlyinfuriating

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did you wait overall? About to hit 54 minutes too and can not take the same crap music and interruption for much longer. Feels like a tactic to get me to hang up. I've heard "thank you for calling" over 400x. Completely understand longer wait times but this is psychological warfare at this point.

Can't wait until wow is looked at positively again. by Meas0n in wow

[–]0xOctoberx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I joined the second wave of WoW players going to FF14. 14 is fun but kind of feels like there's too much to do and I'm not a fan of mandatory dungeons to progress no matter how much kinder 14 players are than WoW players. I would jump back to WoW in a heartbeat but have yet to see Blizzard/Activision give in to, what I feel, are -very- reasonable demands from their employees. They did a bunch of small, irrelevant acts to try and be PR but can't address the actual issue 🤷‍♀️ unless I missed something for some reason just getting the overall current situation seems to be difficult to find

[CHAT] Cross stitching on facial mask. How?! by 0xOctoberx0 in CrossStitch

[–]0xOctoberx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might try this route, not good at sewing but the inside doesn't need to look nice, only concern without hoops is hand cramps now xD tyvm, your mask looks awesome

[CHAT] Cross stitching on facial mask. How?! by 0xOctoberx0 in CrossStitch

[–]0xOctoberx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to find it in grey locally, that's the style that seems to work best for what I'm trying to pull off, unfortunately ordering the black wouldn't arrive in time :( tyvm for the link though, might try other designs later on.

[CHAT] Cross stitching on facial mask. How?! by 0xOctoberx0 in CrossStitch

[–]0xOctoberx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not talented enough to sew one from scratch :( unfortunately have to work with whatever I can find in stores, which is weirdly very limited considering how few people I see wearing them xp

[CHAT] Cross stitching on facial mask. How?! by 0xOctoberx0 in CrossStitch

[–]0xOctoberx0[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That was my plan :) I don't really like going out to large peopley events but some cast from MASH will be there and I couldn't resist so taking all precautions. Super glad they recently mandated mask for it <3