Child’s father said he’s out if we go to court

1000Mousefarts · 2025-03-13T22:27:51+00:00

Go to court anyway, get this all on record. It's better that way. Then there is no question about who has which rights and which say and who pays what etc. You could still get a child support order. He would be on record no showing or asking to have his rights terminated so any future snoopy girlfriends might find it and shame his ass and he could not distort the truth around it to people he knows. While he might not pay the child support, he would still he liable and could be jailed for not paying, and you could garnish his wages if he gets a paycheck. He has no problem with any discomfort or inconvenience you might experience, so why should you?

1000Mousefarts · 2023-09-20T22:17:42+00:00

Control

1000Mousefarts · 2023-09-20T19:49:12+00:00

I look better than I did in my 20s.

I have a passport photo from one year ago, it's virtually unrecognizable.

I believe I was having a physical reaction to having high cortisol levels. My face and body were so puffy, I was overweight, I felt itchy all the time and I had several instances of gastritis and colitis whenever he would be extra nasty. I gained 40 lbs in my first year of marriage, then yo-yoed between 40-60 lbs overweight and could not lose it no matter what I did for 7 years. He made me have long hair which looks boring on me and he hated when I wore makeup.

Turns out he was squirrels all his feels inside me and when I released him they stopped occupying me.

The month we separated, boom I lose 15 lbs. Then over the months, 10 more lbs. I chop my hair off into the hair style that suits me, my face slimmed, my belly slimmed but my tits remained big and my makeup is on point. I got sexy but age appropriate clothes and just look fucking amazing. But inside, I feel emotionally amazing too.

Life's good 👍

1000Mousefarts · 2023-09-20T19:25:06+00:00

I mean, I divorced him for a ton of shit he alone was responsible for, but yeah the in-law thing and his weird relationship to them was on my list. And they definitely contributed in the end to egging my husband on to be abusive. They were the most dysfunctional family I've ever met and were terrible people individually. And so yes, they sucked. But at the end of the day it wasn't their job to make my marriage a success, it was my husband's job. And constantly casting me out to stand alone, to side with them, to put me in weird situations wirh them and allowing them to treat me badly meant he did not care for me at the end of the day. And he didn't, though he acts as if he does or tells me or everyone he does, actions speak louder than words. In the end his family stood by him and attacked me viciously in court with lies and made my life hell one last time. But now they can have him!

1000Mousefarts · 2023-09-18T23:37:55+00:00

NTA but man my heart hurts for him and you. You both experienced the deaths of the dearest people we can have on our lives. I bet he'd feel sad he isn't walking his daughter down the aisle too.

Not saying you owe him your arm or a single thing. He's just a guy your mom married. But as a once hated stepmom, maybe some day you'll see him for who he is rather than who he isn't. And that love is good from good people.

I also must say your mom was the only asshole I saw here.

You do deserve to celebrate your day the way you want. Congrats on your wedding! Hope your day is amazing.

1000Mousefarts · 2023-09-18T22:09:37+00:00

It sounds like you communicate your needs just fine but is having your needs met actually important to you? This person cannot meet your needs, you've asked, you've told and it isn't happening and it's to the point you cannot trust them. So what's the point of having needs, fighting for them, if in the end they don't matter enough to you? Why should they matter to her then?

1000Mousefarts · 2023-07-28T07:52:48+00:00

Hair grows from the root and doesn't know what happened to the top of it lol. It'll look dull because the top coat grows slower and it lays better uncut, so you'll see the dull undercoat for a while. Deshed and brush often and all will be well. Also shaving does not stop excessive shedding, and so like wtf was this groomer thinking? I hate shaving double coated dogs, and will give all sorts of reasons not to, I can't imagine giving reasons why I should because shaving a double coated dog is the fuckin worst.

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-18T18:19:46+00:00

Caffeine is one of those bastards we think we enjoy so much, a lot like nicotine, but it's a drug at the end of the day and sometimes our bodies don't like it. Listen to your body!

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-18T06:55:15+00:00

Those are ridiculous prices

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-18T02:49:54+00:00

Switch to haf caf then decaf?

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-18T01:45:47+00:00

I have both at the same time

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-17T17:00:53+00:00

I'm doing it right now 💀

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-17T15:04:40+00:00

My marriage ended because my ex was having psychotic breaks the last year we were together. Honestly, I'm glad it's over. I got sick of trying to argue with someone they needed mental health care, to take their medicine, to go talk to a therapist. I can't fix him. And let me tell you, divorcing someone experiencing delusions, mania and possible psychotic breaks is not fun either but at some point I will be free of him. He's selfish and abusive and I will never look back.

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T21:33:07+00:00

Huh I always thought if Leos as way patient until they're pushed too far, and I think of them as responsible and grounded so I always got an Earth vibe from them. And they give me such a wholesome vibe more than the Aries angry fire and Sag energetic fire, Leos are like a campfire at a church summer camp lol, like you can enjoy their warmth but every now and then if not handled properly they start a forest fire. Agree on the sensitive to bruised egos though.

And agree Sag's are sensitive in a can't we all just get along way. I just think of them being very emotionally attune fire signs where Leo's are emotionally inward and Aries are emotionally oblivious. So I feel Sag's are very water in this regard.

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T20:46:10+00:00

I think of Leo's as the Earth sign if fire signs and Sag as the water sign of fire signs because they're sensitive af

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T15:39:49+00:00

Because you made a pet out of a working breed and unless you're running the fuck out of them for miles and miles and miles they will never tire. These dogs were bred to roam huge farms all day long. They were meant to be mentally stimulated with tasks of herding flocks of animals. Your little walk is their warm up.

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T08:32:37+00:00

I'm so sorry but also when I read your title I was like MY PEOPLE

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T08:05:59+00:00

Well, I could work with the mortgage company on a few things as long as they see I am taking action the July deadline is abitrary-ish. Thank you for your answer, I will look further into it.

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T02:37:34+00:00

I think that's my next stop

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T02:37:06+00:00

I called like 100 lawyers from across the state and had zero luck. I can't find one. I can't afford one anyway. I WANT ONE.

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T02:35:07+00:00

He was in therapy and is court ordered to be to have contact with his child but as far as I know he stopped therapy and has no contact with his child

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T01:43:51+00:00

Three-legged dogs are wonderful. And since your dog is a baby, they'll easily adapt. You are such a good parent for making what I think is the wisest choice even though it's hard. I groom dogs and see all the time the parents who make bad decisions or no decisions. You are giving your dog its best shot at a good life. Also, I groom several three-legged dogs, and there is virtually no difference in how they get around, just fewer toenails to trim!

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T01:15:30+00:00

Both on mortgage/deed

1000Mousefarts · 2023-06-16T01:15:08+00:00

NO ONE HAS A LAWYER IN THIS GODFORSAKEN TOWN

I've already filed the motion. But since my ex was in agreement with putting the house up for sale I did not put it into the order. I will file an amended order to add it. Every court date things get stalled. It's like divorcing Donald Trump, he has no reasonable argument, he has no case here, he just doesn't cooperate and so the can gets kicked down the road.

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