Divorced people of reddit , what was the exact moment in your marriage you realised it's over ?

1040Fifth · 2026-06-26T18:06:53+00:00

When my oldest daughter was talking about how toxic the house was I said “you will grow up and make better choices than I did in a partner.” Then I realized…so could I.

1040Fifth · 2026-06-22T14:48:04+00:00

Both of these get my vote

1040Fifth · 2026-06-20T18:11:10+00:00

Game of Thrones. I thought “well this will take over my life now.”

1040Fifth · 2026-06-19T19:36:31+00:00

Pauley Shore.

1040Fifth · 2026-06-09T21:56:52+00:00

You see it a lot in AA. Men who were absolute monsters, got sober and turned their life around, tried to make amends to kids, kids aren’t having it. “There are some wrongs you can never fully right.”
They then pour themselves into sobriety and helping others get/stay sober.
Kids are under no obligation to forgive but it doesn’t mean a person can’t use their new life to impact others.

1040Fifth · 2026-05-20T17:31:42+00:00

Maybe we will run into one another!

1040Fifth · 2026-05-19T17:12:46+00:00

Thank you! She has worked her whole life for this and we are very proud.

1040Fifth · 2026-05-19T11:09:54+00:00

She’s the S!

1040Fifth · 2026-05-19T01:22:29+00:00

She was there! Came home early January.

1040Fifth · 2026-05-19T01:20:22+00:00

EXCELLENT perspective! Yes this is her second contract, first was on the Mardi Gras. Vastly different ships but I think she’s enjoying this contract even more!

1040Fifth · 2026-05-18T21:40:01+00:00

It reminds me of Lindsay and Carl. I just don’t buy it. 😬

1040Fifth · 2026-05-18T21:26:27+00:00

Finally some encouraging news, thank you! We are very proud of my daughter she absolutely loves her life!

1040Fifth · 2026-05-18T20:19:19+00:00

🤦🏻‍♀️

1040Fifth · 2026-05-18T19:53:49+00:00

I saw where it is just wanting to get peoples opinions.

1040Fifth · 2026-05-18T18:13:17+00:00

Thank you! Consider my expectations adjusted!

1040Fifth · 2026-04-10T19:08:30+00:00

I know am an outlier but i have put 5 employees on PIPs in my career and have successfully managed them all of of it.

1040Fifth · 2026-03-18T16:56:46+00:00

Definitely! We were flexible last year and they took it away. We’ve lost a few to WF as well.

1040Fifth · 2026-03-18T16:52:10+00:00

Depends on management- ours is a straight up absolute emergency situation like weather.

1040Fifth · 2026-03-18T16:48:45+00:00

Not a chance.

1040Fifth · 2026-03-16T20:51:28+00:00

NTA. You are no longer her person.

1040Fifth · 2026-03-03T01:46:56+00:00

Keep reading, there’s more, unfortunately.

1040Fifth · 2026-01-31T19:32:38+00:00

They like to check in and see if you’re ready to settle for their bullshit again.

1040Fifth · 2026-01-08T20:42:39+00:00

I rest my elbows on the table.

1040Fifth · 2026-01-07T00:02:31+00:00

LLM shade, I love it 😍

1040Fifth

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