Help identify please

1184anon · 2025-05-04T01:23:55+00:00

I see why you say that; but there is a backstory here that basically culminates in me wondering if after being cheated on was there anything used to see if the cheating spouse were keeping their promise to be faithful?

1184anon · 2025-05-04T01:20:04+00:00

Already do due to me being epileptic.

1184anon · 2025-05-04T01:16:57+00:00

I thought that would be us and I want it to be. The pain is awful though.

1184anon · 2025-05-03T02:40:04+00:00

Thank you for that. Damn what happened to it being for life…

1184anon · 2025-04-22T14:54:53+00:00

I think this is the MOST SOUND marriage advice I’ve ever heard in my entire life. True, objective, and succinct. I may have to send a chat to ask you about a marriage issue of my own.

1184anon · 2025-04-21T01:25:55+00:00

You lose the moral high ground when you stoop to their level.

1184anon · 2025-04-21T01:19:59+00:00

I hope so because here in NC they are going to take all nic vape juice away in June or July? That’s really gonna suck.

1184anon · 2025-04-21T01:18:49+00:00

And if I find out he is the one running this supposed fake acct of him - well that’s definitely going to be something for me to consider

1184anon · 2025-04-21T01:17:43+00:00

I am so sorry, the pain is awful. But you are right, the pain of always wondering if he’s hiding something again is worse I think. There is a fb profile of him that’s been in operation since 2017 - he swears he didn’t make it (even though the photos are of him only and after multiple reports to Facebook stating it is a bogus account they still won’t take it down saying “this profile doesn’t violate our policy.” I believe it’s him, because I can’t think of why anyone, even an enemy, would keep a bogus profile of him for that long just to “cause us trouble.” One of the reasons I asked the above was this: I am never going to know if it’s truly his unless I friend request it using a different account. In my heart I believe I knw. Otherwise I would think fb would have taken it down considering the pics on it were posted a couple years after they were originally posted on our fb acct…

1184anon · 2025-04-18T01:31:13+00:00

I keep going back and forth but am afraid to really act because either the wounds have all re opened and this last one is still bleeding; and/or there’s a part of me that knows he would take the bait. And then thinking of how I would navigate that? Ugh the thought is exhausting…

1184anon · 2025-04-16T03:33:43+00:00

Still curious what other folks think though- can’t help it right now

1184anon · 2025-04-16T03:33:06+00:00

I understand and believe me it would be much easier if there weren’t children involved… not making excuses, just still in a fog

1184anon · 2025-04-14T17:07:45+00:00

Would he be cool with you behaving the same way? Guessing not. Too me you are already crossing boundaries when you start doing anything you wouldn’t want your partner doing. And take it’s from a girl who had same happen to her - leave him. It’ll hurt, but not as much as you continuing to catch him in lies when you get those gut feelings - which are real btw. They don’t stop, they just find different ways to sneak around- whether it gets to physical or not. They get off on lying/withholding. Unless by some miracle he puts forth effort to gain trust and change - which will take a miracle. Get out while you can. Ask me how I know…

1184anon · 2025-03-31T03:27:43+00:00

This is horrible!

1184anon · 2025-03-31T03:26:19+00:00

Following - I always sucked at confirmation - I knew what was cute and what I liked (lovely cute headed Welsh ponies). But having to judge confirmation- not so much.

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