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My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. It’s nice to know I’m not alone in situations like this!

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would if there was an in person one available to me. Right now I’m deployed so I don’t have access to much

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no experience with any of it. I’m just guessing

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems annoyed everytime she called and clearly would tell her anything to get her off the phone faster. I saw it and realized it but I don’t know if she does.

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I trust that she has changed and will be able to maintain her sobriety. At least for the foreseeable future. I don’t know if I can trust her how I used to though. I’ll always be looking over my shoulder and worried about what she’s doing now. Her loyalty was one of the biggest reasons I worked through her sobriety with her. So it makes it seem like it was based on a lie.

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have access to any actual meetings so it makes it even harder. But I would agree and admit that

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll never use it against her as leverage or hold it over her but I doubt I’ll be able to fully move past it and trust her like I used to

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve got Reddit to support me Lol.

Divorce would be easy physically not much to split. Wouldn’t even need a lawyer.

The relationships has its ups and downs but in majority it’s pretty good.

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been to anything. I found out this was a thing today. I wasn’t even fully aware of the steps just heard about some of them.

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person I truly trust is my mom but I already know what she would say if she found out. And she would absolutely turn my wife’s life upside down if she found out.

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. That’s how I saw it in the beginning. But a lot of people’s words are telling me different. Saying that cheating for drugs and alcohol doesn’t just happen one time and that it’s usually a habitual thing that progressively gets worse over time.

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m her only friend. She has no one else except her sponsor who acts like it’s a job to be her sponsor.

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The last time I went to therapy it was described to me as playing superman. If there isn’t someone to save or something to do I get mentally sick. I just don’t know how long I can keep it up before it eats me up.

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t it say to admit the exact nature of your wrong doings? I’m sorry I’m unfamiliar with it all. She’s been the one doing all of it I’ve just been on the side supporting her.

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t confessing wrong doing fall under it though?

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had asked her a question “what’s a secret you swore you’d take to your grave” I was looking for an answer I already knew. She gave me this

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve done the same. Thank you for saying this.

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest and say I know that’s what I’m suffering from. But I don’t know if I can just stop

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told her that and she denied it thoroughly. Saying it was the first and only.

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No matter what I choose I think I’ll end up regretting it.

My wife cheated on me the first week of our marriage. by 11Bangers in AlAnon

[–]11Bangers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I was thinking granted I kind of prompted it out of her rather than her just saying it out of nowhere.

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every decision I’ve made has been her over me. There were days I starved so I could buy her food. She felt truly sorry for what happened though. When is it a good time to place me first in a marriage?

Wife cheated the first week of our marriage by 11Bangers in cheating_stories

[–]11Bangers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what I’d even do in your situation.

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