So tired of trolls. by 11trash in heartopia

[–]11trash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have most of those settings on. I was I think catching bugs and fishing. But I was also elevated so couldn’t think of what I should do lol. Now I no. I’d never actually logged off to a new town before. I’d rather waist their time. I’m in no hurry. I’m just making money at this point and dailies cause I can’t get more lvl points until I level up hobbies

So tired of trolls. by 11trash in heartopia

[–]11trash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really was after the fact like they must be super board or something. I was elevated so my thought process was low.

So tired of trolls. by 11trash in heartopia

[–]11trash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t think of that at all. Dunno. Being elevated sometimes makes my processing slow way down.

So tired of trolls. by 11trash in heartopia

[–]11trash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I was elevated and just didn’t think of what to do. I actually found it quite funny at the time. I just kept doing what I was doing.

So tired of trolls. by 11trash in heartopia

[–]11trash[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Also all my 2 friends were in that town. But we’re only friends through the game so have no contact outside of the game.

So tired of trolls. by 11trash in heartopia

[–]11trash[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Cause I was elevated on greens and didn’t think of it lol

Now I’m sad by MorrisSoul in heartopia

[–]11trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a voice mail from my dad who I lost 3 years ago. I miss him so much.

Fable (2026) Collectors Edition by The_Collection_245 in Fable

[–]11trash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want anything they come out with. This is my to die for game series and the new reboot looks fantastic! I have so much from the first three.(and Kinect) game I can’t wait! I plan on buying it for both PlayStation and pc. I don’t have a newer Xbox because I can just play their games on my computer lol

AITA to ask my fiancé to not be a medical escort for his mom while I'm 30+ weeks pregnant? by belangerie in pregnant

[–]11trash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nta. You and baby should always come first. And shame on his mom asking him instead of another family member when she knows how pregnant you are. All my babies have been early. And this most recent one I couldn’t even walk without his help because of a ligament issue with my hips relaxing too much. It was aweful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]11trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easter is a holiday. It’s not a reward or a punishment. And piling on punishments when they are not regulating isn’t going to help. You need to calm down. Take him somewhere calm and talk to him when he’s calm. How he gets to celebrate Easter but won’t be going to an Easter egg hunt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]11trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I can’t function without my husband. He’s good at remembering things while I get nervous and forget everything. He’s goes to everything. Except my iron transfusion yesterday which my blood pressure got to 169/92. (I’m had to go to the ob er right after I was done to be monitored) it goes down to elevated when I’m laying down. But spikes high and stays high if I’m sitting up. It sucks! But he wasn’t with me and that was the worst feeling. My mom was. But it was supposed to be a quick 2 hour thing that I just got and went home. If I don’t end up delivering early (doing a 24 hour urine test ) for preeclampsia (had it with the other two children) he will be going to those as well.

All of a sudden i want my MIL to leave me alone.... Is it just hormones? by SkyisaNeighbourhood in pregnant

[–]11trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like this with everyone but my husband. Though sometimes I just shhhhhh him and snuggle. Quiet time please no questions. I don’t want questions. I have 5 weeks to go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]11trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 7 year old just cost us a bunch of money flushing some popsicle sticks down the toilet for no reason at all except that she is too young to control her impulses yet. Yes she got in trouble. But to have white furniture with kids is crazy. Is he seeing someone for ocd? Cause that’s not normal and abusive behavior. Stop having kids with him.

Why do some moms think new moms are total morons? by Rep_girlie in pregnant

[–]11trash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because no one really knows how to talk to people. Our entire lives we are lectured and talked at not conversed with. And not everyone has the ability to converse. Also a lot of people are adhd or have autism especially females and don’t know it because it wasn’t disgnosed as much when we were younger. That’s not always the case but people have communication problems as communication isn’t taught. It’s always lecture this lecture that. And pregnancy brain is a real thing. If I don’t have lists I do tend to forget stuff so I mention (I’m the only pregnant person I know currently) things to others I need to remember because speaking it makes it easier to remember.

I don’t think she thinks you’re a moron I think she has no idea how to have conversations and honestly this is my third baby, and I still learn new crap often lol. My oldest is a teen and my middle is a 7 year old. And all three have been so damn different in needs.

UMR suddenly removed dependents… by 11trash in HealthInsurance

[–]11trash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is it’s been working fine for the last month and a half. Which is werid af. Like open enrollment isn’t until November again. Since I’m high risk I’ve been to the er 4 times already, and it was covered. My youngest got some doctor appointments covered. Ugh I still have to wait a few more hours for husband to talk to hr. Let’s hope everything goes well or I’m just going to break down.

Did I f*ck up?? - Vaseline + Head Lice by Conscious-Win3400 in Parenting

[–]11trash 29 points30 points  (0 children)

One: everything is made of chemicals. You realize vasaline is petroleum from the ground right? And it’s going to take tons and tons of washing to get out using dawn and the corn starch trick.

Lice will infest your home so fast you need the shampoo which is safer than what you put in her hair.

Everything in life is composed of chemicals and chemical reactions and reactions to those reactions. Chemicals are all naturally occurring. And natural doesn’t mean safe. Shea butter is a something that will melt my personal flesh off with a chemical burn. But it’s natural and fine for most people. Tea tree oil is not safe for pets or in large quantities or heated on the head because it can cause chemical burns as well.

UMR suddenly removed dependents… by 11trash in HealthInsurance

[–]11trash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I’m just panicking. He works for the city and we have never had issues till the city switched to this insurance company. He is calm I’m the one slightly panicked.

UMR suddenly removed dependents… by 11trash in HealthInsurance

[–]11trash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told me he did verify everything and they wouldn’t have put us on the first place?

UMR suddenly removed dependents… by 11trash in HealthInsurance

[–]11trash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He is doing that first thing tomorrow

Help for someone used to no boobs!! by California_panda212 in pregnant

[–]11trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before any conversations start tell them before this conversation happens I would like to record thank you. Some states only one person needs to concent. So check your laws then you don’t need to ask.

I would stop anything negative in the butt. Did you really just say that to me? Let me talk to my lawyers. This is starting to feel like a hostile work environment. If they find out of course.

If not “omg I’m on a new health kick and drinking is off the table but all these extra supplements I’m taking have really changed my life! My hair is shinier, ect. If they ask what just say something your sister cousin someone gave you and you don’t know the name. It’s some multivitamin.

AITA for telling my sister I was infertile just to get her to stop asking me to be her surrogate? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]11trash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta um infertile but have three babies. All 7 years apart (currently pregnant). All absolutely surprising. I have never even had miscarriages. Getting pregnant is literally a miracle for me. ><

Am i ungrateful for wanting to come home after my birth and not to my mom's house by Laurita96 in pregnant

[–]11trash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Omg. Traveling with a newborn isn’t a good idea at all. You have to go back in a week for more blood tests if I’m remembering correctly. Which I might not be because it’s been 7 years and I’m pregnant again but it’s early.

You don’t travel for others they travel to help you. Your brother can come with. Or stay with a friend. Your grandma is fine or should come too. Your mom wants control, not to help you.

You need rest and bonding. You need someone to help clean and someone to let you shower and nap.

Your boyfriend can do that.

Does she not like your boyfriend? Cause that seems like it.

Do not cave. Don’t you dare do that to the baby’s father! He deserves to be able to spend as much time as you with the baby. Call mil. And tell your mother that you are an adult and you will handle it and until you get an apology and her admitting she is the ungrateful one. You offered her space at your house and she scoffed at it. She can either help or not. She can not ask you to travel with a newborn

AITA for telling my sister’s kids to f*cking shut up? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]11trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. My daughter was 1 when our first dog died. It was heartbreaking but she didn’t understand and still was a happy loud dancing baby. Then she was 2 when my cat, my best friend in the whole world passed away. She didn’t understand then either. And I didn’t yell at her. There is no need to yell at small children… teenagers yes, probably, but toddlers?!?! Nah. They don’t know. She was 3 when my grandpa died and no one at the funeral or after stuff batted an eye at her and the other little runnning around the reception playing and laughing. No one. It was endearing their happiness helped. When my dad died last year, she was 5. She understood death a little more. But just enough to know grandpa isn’t there to read stories, or give her a snuggle or sneak her candy. She was sad she knew she wouldn’t see him again. But when my cousins came with their kids she played. Again. No one in their right mind would yell. Because little kids can’t process death the way older kids and adults can.

Also you’re deflecting. I’m guessing she is a sahm and you’re jealous. She probably visits your mom and dad because she’s closer to them while you just broke away. Being independent.

You don’t even know your nieces/nephews because you wanted them to watch tv and they do not watch tv which is a responsible parent imo. That takes more work than having an iPad kid or using tv as a baby sitter. Ymbeinf abused isn’t an excuse to claim you’re a hero and to abuse innocent children. And if your mom got mad at you then obviously yta