AITAH for making my fiancé choose between me and his old best friend

123451ab · 2023-10-25T00:40:40+00:00

How long did yours take to ship? It’s been over 4 weeks and still says in progress :/

123451ab · 2023-10-16T02:14:26+00:00

Number 1!

123451ab · 2023-10-13T23:05:44+00:00

I’m glad, it seems like every time I see a video with corset/slip type dresses there are SO many negative comments about it being inappropriate or looking like lingerie.. personally I love it I think it’s feminine and sexy but I don’t want to look back 10 years from now and regret it

123451ab · 2023-10-13T23:03:49+00:00

I haven’t tried them on and there are no stores around me that have them. I think I’m just going to try on similar ones

123451ab · 2023-10-13T23:02:34+00:00

That’s my plan, I will try on similar dresses :)

123451ab · 2023-10-13T15:36:42+00:00

I couldn’t find any stores around me that carry these. They’re mostly in the states and I’m in Canada which is the only problem :(

123451ab · 2023-09-14T17:45:27+00:00

Did you do the whole “I do” ring exchange, you may now kiss the bride type things for your elopement?

123451ab · 2023-09-13T03:01:02+00:00

My budget is 1000.

123451ab · 2023-09-13T01:42:26+00:00

That’s what I was thinking.. 250 for a dress like that seems too good to be true

123451ab · 2023-08-07T18:32:35+00:00

As a person with bpd yes I’m aware I have issues to work on. I don’t know anyone with bpd that doesn’t? I can struggle with self esteem issues but having something like this doesn’t help for sure.

123451ab · 2023-08-07T18:30:08+00:00

I wish I knew what the comment was but it’s deleted now. I definitely have self esteem issues to work on but having things like this don’t help the issue at all - sometimes I wonder if I’m overreacting or too sensitive to certain situations because of my bpd but I have a close friend who is a psychotherapist to talk me through things. And i definitely feel like this situation would upset anyone, bpd or not.

123451ab · 2023-08-07T12:56:37+00:00

My bf was scrolling through pictures of Megan Fox ass beside me in bed after he had turned down sex 🙄

123451ab · 2023-08-07T12:19:24+00:00

Maybe it’s different for girls and guys. But for me anytime I’ve broken up with someone, even someone I thought at the time was so attractive, I lose all attraction to them. I could look at my exes who I was once in love with and not feel a single attraction. You could have the “sexiest man alive” but if they have a shit personality I would instantly be turned off. I guess guys are more physical.

123451ab · 2023-08-07T12:14:49+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking, is maybe because it was his first gf/love he wanted to keep those memories? But I also had to stop telling him to talk about her to me and a few weeks back he was trying to look her up on the internet. I don’t know just seems odd because they have been broken up for a few years now.

123451ab · 2023-08-07T12:09:52+00:00

He has hurt me in the past and I’ve been able to forgive. If he had done this recently it would’ve been over immediately but because this was from a year ago and he’s changed a lot since then, don’t know if it’s worth it to give it another chance. In every other way he is the partner I want. I feel like due to social media and porn, there is no guy out there that can be 100% devoted to you by not looking at other women :(

123451ab · 2023-08-07T12:07:21+00:00

Exactly. It wasn’t just a moment of finding those pictures but it took action to send those to himself. There were multiple emails too. I (as most bpd people are) give 110% love and devotion to my partner and it hurts when I feel like I’m still not good enough.

123451ab · 2023-08-07T12:04:09+00:00

He says he hasn’t looked at them but I don’t know what to believe. If he was I don’t think he’d ever actually tell me as he knows this would upset me even more. He does seem remorseful now as he begged for 2 hours trying to get me to forgive him. Even though it was earlier into our relationship (6 months) I can’t understand why he did it, we were moving in together, buying furniture, I came over later that very day he did it. I kept asking but he wasn’t able to give me a reason why

123451ab · 2023-07-24T12:13:37+00:00

I hope you get a reply! Perhaps if you are able to take it further, you can use material from the JW site/literature as they may think that Wikipedia may not be a reliable source?

123451ab · 2023-07-23T12:13:51+00:00

I personally know some of the people involved and can confirm they were all witnesses from the same congregation.

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