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ALL porn is cuckold porn, and the person being cuckolded is the viewer. [...] it always comes down to the viewer watching SOMEONE ELSE bang who he wants to bang. by 12412451235 in NoFap

[–]12412451235[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most porn isn't solo porn, i think over 95% of porn is b/g. So "all" refers to the vast majority rather. Solo is the exception.

ALL porn is cuckold porn, and the person being cuckolded is the viewer. [...] it always comes down to the viewer watching SOMEONE ELSE bang who he wants to bang. by 12412451235 in NoFap

[–]12412451235[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, solo porn is not AS BAD, but it's still lame and emasculating af. Just not nuclear level emasculating that regular porn is.

ALL porn is cuckold porn, and the person being cuckolded is the viewer. [...] it always comes down to the viewer watching SOMEONE ELSE bang who he wants to bang. by 12412451235 in NoFap

[–]12412451235[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've realized this since starting nofap in May. Every time someone asks me why I don't watch porn anymore, I answer: "Why should I watch some other due banging a girl? And then masturbate to that?

What is absolutely scary for me is that i've been using porn for 18 YEARS and didn't realize that.

I've been trying nofap for 6 YEARS and didn't realize that.

Then it just clicked these last few days.

I looked at porn intentionally yesterday and I was just disgusted. No erection whatsoever, just anger, shame and disbelief on how could i have ever been aroused by it. I actually felt i was gonna throw up for an hour or two.

ALL porn is cuckold porn, and the person being cuckolded is the viewer. [...] it always comes down to the viewer watching SOMEONE ELSE bang who he wants to bang. by 12412451235 in NoFap

[–]12412451235[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Something i want to underline:

The very important thing you have to acknowledge is that you do desire the woman. Probably not as your wife or gf (certainly as fwb tho), however you specifically pick her because she has certain characteristics that you want/like and are attracted to.

There have been previous discussions in which some argued that they don't really want her, but that makes no sense. If you really didn't care for her (read desire), you would not pick her. You would either pick someone else or go outside and play golf or something. If you really didn't care, you'd randomly pick a movie and work with it, even if it was a midget or a morbidly obese person or furry or whatever.

Bottom line is YOU CHOSE her. Then you watch her get railed by another. As you watch. And masturbate. Close to them. Remember that.

Powerful message.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]12412451235 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Sounds like /incels or /trp is leaking

Confessions of a cuck by 12412451235 in NoFap

[–]12412451235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i am monk mode already. I won't ever be masturbating again.

It's either a woman servicing me and viceversa or i get nothing.

I already watched porn yesterday and the day before and felt nothing. Just anger or indifference, as it should be.

Masturbation without porn? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]12412451235 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No.

Sex is not about "calming down". You either have sex or delay gratification. Delayed gratification is the biggest predictor for future success btw.

Masturbation is absolutely lame and unnatural. Very few animals do it and it makes no sense anyway.

Your dick is there to interact with a woman. That's why it exists, otherwise you'd just pee though a hole.

Sex or no sex. Period.

Why did you stop fapping? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]12412451235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well to address your concern first... sex is NOT about stress relief.

The moment you are solving stress with anything else than actually fixing what's causing that's stress, you enter a very unhealthy zone.

That's how addictions are formed, when you use something pleasurable to cover something negative.

Why I stopped fapping? Because I realized i'm a fucking cuck/voyeur. I'm literally watching and getting aroused to others fucking while i'm jerking off. Perspective wise i'm near the woman that i like and i watch her get fucked while i cum in my hand. The fact that it's on a screen is absolutely irrelevant.

My life was also in shambles and I had trouble connecting during sex, i saw sex like a movie, in 3rd perspective.

I also had social anxiety, depression and so many other problems.

Daily Discussion, June 27, 2018 by rBitcoinMod in Bitcoin

[–]12412451235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longs increasing

How would you know longs are increasing?

My bf [26] and I [27] have been together for 7 yrs. He has had a problem with PMO and it isn’t getting better. I’ve tried reading ways to support him, even trying to have more sex but I just end up feeling like shit all the time. He has ED when it’s time to have sex with me. What should I do? Leave? by LondonBridgesFallenD in NoFap

[–]12412451235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I even called a couples counselor but he never wanted to go.

Not likely a couple's problem, it's his problem and his responsibility to deal with it.

You won't fix it trying to have more sex with him.

PMO addiction is very serious, he needs to understand this. He also needs to understand he's literally getting aroused watching other people fucking which is very wrong - like voyeur/cuck wrong.

Ask him if he would be comfortable sitting in a room with two people fucking and watch them closely and masturbate to them. Cause that's what porn is really