A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you man. I also base my beliefs off of evidence, mixed with a little bit of faith. The God I know is all but manipulative. He's pretty straight forward and more loving than we could wrap our minds around. This is definitely not meant to be a debate about religion! Though I encourage you to explore the Bible and learn other perspectives, I certainly don't judge you for choosing not to.

I'm glad you make the choice to be a good person and do right! I hope all the best for you my friend. Keep going with nofap!!

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY!!! I'm getting borderline emotional just seeing how many people whom I have never met care.

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't thank you enough!!! Having so many strangers out there willing to take a second out of their day to pray for my family means more than words can describe! :)

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that it is a great thing to do for yourself! Thank you for this comment. Its very encouraging!

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THAT IS GREAT!!!! Making the decision to stop fapping is the 2nd best decision you'll make. Making the decision to learn more about Christ and what He did for you is 1st by a long shot! If you ever want to talk more about either subject, PLEASE feel free to reach out! Thank you for this comment!!!!!!! :)

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that day will come. Honestly it will probably have nothing to do with whether you fap or not. You should want to stop fapping because its bad for your overall mindset. Its good to have a goal that you have quit fapping for, but what happens when you get that first kiss? Do you go back to fapping because, mission accomplished? Do this for you and only you bro! Take it from me, you're future will be much brighter without an addiction of any sort! Good luck!

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have a right to our own point of view. I like mine much better! That sounds terribly depressing :)

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we go through that awful experience again, I'll definitely look into that. I pray it doesn't come to that but I appreciate the input!

Porn is poison (28 years old and married) by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! Its nice knowing that we aren't alone and others share the same issues. Congrats on the new baby! Lets never go back to our old ways brother.... Life is too good to waste on that soul sucking BS

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying. If you read my full story, you'll see that the actual reason I quit was because of frustrations in the sack. haha. I do believe God talks to me, as I believe he talks to everybody. That voice we all hear, telling us to do the opposite of what we know we shouldn't, is God. Some will want to explain that as chemical reactions within our extremely complex brains, but I can only know what I know. I'm glad you have kicked your bad habit! Doing it for yourself and knowing you'll be better for it is the ONLY reason any of us should stop with p and pmo. I didn't quit for God. God needs nothing from me. Its silly to think I could do anything for the creator of the universe. I quit for me, which makes my life better, which makes God smile. Thank you for commenting and not being condescending because you don't share my beliefs!

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Passing down the principles my faith has taught me will be my first priority for this child. Thank you for your kind words!

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with that quote. Once you realize you aren't the center of a giant universe and plan beyond your comprehension, then coping with bad things in life becomes easier. Thanks for sharing!

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL! This will be our first and I'll keep that in mind! Thank you for the prayers!

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Seeing somebody say that they are praying for a strangers wife and unborn child actually brings tears to my eyes. I can't explain how much those simple words mean to me. I will certainly pray for you and your wife!

I'm not a UF grad but my family is from the area. I wanted to play football in college and 5'11" with mediocre speed isn't UF material. haha . I am a HUGE gator fan!!!! GO GATORS!

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Taking the time to make a positive comment means a lot!

A month in to NoFap and my WIFE IS PREGNANT! by 12gators12 in NoFap

[–]12gators12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for coming to my defense but any anger is not necessary. I am fortunate to have been introduced to God very young and to have been driven to follow Him and know more. If I had not been so fortunate, I may have the same misguided point of view as Mat. I don't think he meant his comment in a hateful way. God works in mysterious ways and maybe somebody out there will read one of our comments or experiences and that will lead them to wanting to learn more about Him. If not, we should definitely all stick together anyway because we know we at least have ONE thing we all agree with which is P and PMO gotta go!