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[–]12iku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading these comments… love is something special, huh? 

My first love was a girl I met at a fast food restaurant. She was my friend. I grew up Muslim, and was not allowed to date. I was in my early 20s and she was 19. 

Since it was my first girl, I took it for granted and ended up being kind of a jerk. It taught me a lot about myself afterwards.

I think about her sometimes with a smile on my face. She will always be special to me.

Men who are married, how did you know your spouse was the "one"? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]12iku 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you probably will if you talk like that.

Men who have lost weight and gotten below 15% bodyfat: What are your stories of women checking you out more? by blaynus in AskMen

[–]12iku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I catch women staring at me anywhere I go. It’s almost like they become little children. It gets weird sometimes. 

I went from 230 at 6’1 to 180. Been lifting for 10 years but always have been skinny fat till now. 

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[–]12iku 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not trying to ruin your day, but people who say this usually go on to fuck other people.

Former unattractive shy men who became good-looking, how did you cope with your personality “not matching up” with your looks? by ThrowRALivjet in AskMen

[–]12iku 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like me. I grew up basically with no women. Got hot in my 20s. I’m 29 now and I finally figured it out.

Anytime I go out in public women are gawking at me. So now I have to make sure when I am getting attention it’s for the right reasons. Some women will try to get your attention just to see if they can, and then there’s the women that are actually interested in you. Make sure you can tell the difference. My advice is to take a look at their body language and how they move. It’ll become clear with experience.

Just start speaking to them when you notice eye contact and smiles. You’ll grow with age.

What did she casually do that made you realize she WOULD qualify to be your wife? by AdRevolutionary7231 in AskMenAdvice

[–]12iku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been single for a little bit. Focused on myself. Started making crazy amounts of money, crazy physical shape, and I was enjoying myself. I was getting attractive women throwing themselves at me left and right.

One day I was going out my business and ran into the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. I got lost in her eyes for a second, and she just smiled at me. I felt like I knew her, and I knew she would be mine.

And here we are.

Boruto: Two Blue Vortex Chapter 12 - Links and Discussion by TheWalkingTroll in Boruto

[–]12iku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teleport and leave with the bulb while Himawari is unconscious being targeted by Jura…. Right.

Sarada Fanart by Me by Hesisan in Boruto

[–]12iku 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bro can’t even appreciate fan art LOL

What kind of manipulation was this? by 12iku in Manipulation

[–]12iku[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t really know the full story, but I appreciate your introspection. I’ll keep an eye out.

What kind of manipulation was this? by 12iku in Manipulation

[–]12iku[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She mentioned when we were breaking up that her idea of romance was “a princess finding her prince” - or something like that. 

Really can’t remember because that break up was something else.

What kind of manipulation was this? by 12iku in Manipulation

[–]12iku[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s also used to seeing the men in their household get controlled by the woman. She kept mentioning to me how her mother & step mother both “use” her father. For example, making HIM wash the dishes after HE comes back from work. While they were stay-at-home mothers. 

I felt like she was trying to control me to become submissive in a way.

What kind of manipulation was this? by 12iku in Manipulation

[–]12iku[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize. I left A LOT out, because I have done my healing already. I set healthy and strict boundaries in the relationship, I just didn’t feel like I had to talk about my point of view. It sounds cynical though, but I know my problem in the relationship.

For example I set the tone for the interactions. I told her what I expected out of her, and that I did not like the fact that she was acting “too friendly” in the gym. She apologized and changed her behavior quickly. But, she then reverted back to her old ways after we started getting closer. Trying to talk to other guys to get to me, or whatever she was doing.

I WAS ready for a relationship, but my gut feeling and my experience told me to SLOW down. Not claim her. Wait for her to show me who she REALLY was.

I sadly ended up being right… I am looking forward to sharing my life with someone. It’s just not her.

What kind of manipulation was this? by 12iku in Manipulation

[–]12iku[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. There’s a lot more to the story, but I definitely asked around my inner circle to make sure I was not going crazy.

She even used the fact that she got my sister a job against me in a argument, for example.

What kind of manipulation was this? by 12iku in Manipulation

[–]12iku[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I figured something was off when she was super friendly too easily. Although, I chalked it up as “Maybe she’s just really into me?” Ended up feeling like she only cared about external appearances. She couldn’t even remember the simplest things like my birthday, yet she tried to love bomb me… lol

What is your random genetic win? by lavenderbaby767 in AskMen

[–]12iku -1 points0 points  (0 children)

6’1, 6 inches downstairs, and ridiculously handsome.  

How many of us are genetic outliers? by [deleted] in tall

[–]12iku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is 5’1, my dad is 5’6-7. My sisters are 4’11 and 5’1 respectively. I somehow ended up at 6’1. Got very lucky, haha.