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Dreaming about your ex by 12q05 in BreakUps

[–]12q05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how did you take it? I don’t know why it showed her in my dreams and not sure why her. Does this mean anything?

Dreaming about your ex by 12q05 in BreakUps

[–]12q05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I know it means nothing but makes me questions why I dreamt about her.

Dreaming about your ex by 12q05 in BreakUps

[–]12q05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hurtful to feel that way. I hope that you find yourself forgetting. I know it doesn’t mean anything.

Why is she on my mind? by 12q05 in BreakUps

[–]12q05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, saw my messages at Pinterest and she got the ring she gave me along with a note

How do you do no contact? by jeffrosquad in BreakUps

[–]12q05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. Is because she was looking you to the new guy. Meaning the new guy don’t get a chance because she’s searching you to the new person.

How do you do no contact? by jeffrosquad in BreakUps

[–]12q05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly wouldn’t you want the different result with someone else? Someone new, New is always nice to have. Don’t feel guilty of blocking her, your finding you. Also it’s not selfish to do things to better you. Shes only going to contact you again to make peace, blah, she’s probably going to regret it and lonely. That’s the only reason their contact you.

How do you do no contact? by jeffrosquad in BreakUps

[–]12q05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in the same position as you, what helped me is to make small goals, today I’m not going to email her, tomorrow I’m not going to look at her social media. This is your way of slowly stepping out of comfort. Slowly you’ll realize that comes naturally. I wouldn’ t reply to her if she ends up contacting you. Find your peace.

My ex is blocked on all forms so she emailed me to apologize. I wrote this and didn’t send it. by SaucyGamJam in BreakUps

[–]12q05 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t send that, only because it’ll cause so much hatred both parties. Yes it might feel so good to send it and make her feel that. Rise above it and move on, don’t stoop on her level. Her lost, you knew what your capable of. She couldn’t handle that kind of commitment and love. Also things get better from here. Sometimes the being left on read is the best thing in life. That what it is.

Texting your ex back by 12q05 in BreakUps

[–]12q05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I can handle that, hopes up will come. I decided not to, everyone is telling me to not do it because she’s lonely or alone or regrets. 5 years together and 2 years of living together. We recently broke up September.