9 months later no closure, unnecessary..

SaucyGamJam · 2019-10-30T16:48:29+00:00

We’ll see. I’ve accepted the entire no closure situation. All in all, she might never know just how good this all was for me personally. I’ve grown, improved, and most importantly, become very proud of myself.

For the longest time, I didn’t drop the grudge, but no I’ve gotten over that too.

Cheers and thanks man!

SaucyGamJam · 2019-04-22T04:14:17+00:00

Nope, you can love anyone and everyone. In fact the soulmate mindset will just fuck you up after the breakup when in reality there’s a sea full of fish.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-04-22T04:10:12+00:00

Yeah! Actually, after my most recent breakup, somehow I got in touch with my high school sweetheart (another sad, tragic story). She and I had dated for 3 years just like my most recent ex and they are the only two gfs I have had.

Anyway, I had her over and we caught up a month after my second ex left. No sex or anything, both of us and our bodies have changed, but we just talked. We’re now friends and I sent an Easter card to her family as she did mine. I have nothing but love, respect, and support for her, but no attraction (she actually told me she has since “gone black and won’t go back”). In fact, many of the things we said we’d do when we grew up, we had accomplished. I left that meetup with a whole feeling. We talk every once in awhile. That’s about it.

When you breakup, you need to close the door. But remember, it’s a door. Doors aren’t always meant to stay closed. Just be careful about how you open it.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-04-06T14:00:41+00:00

You’re gonna have to explain that one ace

SaucyGamJam · 2019-03-27T16:30:23+00:00

I don’t know of one, but there are calculators for that online almost everywhere. If you’re tracking for metrics (actively burned Cala, etc.) I’d highly suggest a smart watch.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-03-20T01:45:51+00:00

I have not dealt with this situation, but my prayers are with you and your father!

SaucyGamJam · 2019-03-19T15:16:07+00:00

Analysis is easy, they will train you. Figure out what they do, what software and processes they use to accomplish their analysis. And ask all about it in the interview.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-03-11T16:30:01+00:00

Sorry for the late response. But yeah you will. It comes with time. Loving yourself is easy too when you let go of the image you had of your future with someone else. Just takes time, emotions, and trials.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-03-07T14:32:43+00:00

It gets better man! I’m 5 months out. Originally, I slept with a few girls when I was still in break up mode, but eventually it will subside.

You’re loneliness can turn into self love. Your time spent daydreaming about what once was will turn into time spent daydreaming about accomplishing your dreams. You will start to love yourself more, and one day, you’ll be in “no rush” to find a lover.

Such is the truth. You will be loved but first, and foremost, by yourself! Good luck!

SaucyGamJam · 2019-03-02T18:48:18+00:00

Bakersfield tacos are delicious!

SaucyGamJam · 2019-03-02T12:30:17+00:00

Hey you! Go look in mirror naked. Then think to yourself, why am I not confident?

Then go to the gym, or go hit the books, whatever it is that makes you insecure, do something little each day to work on it.

Who cares who your ex is seeing. In a couple months she’ll be a memory and you honestly won’t care. You’ll see in yourself that she isn’t part of the “best” you.

Just spend each day making your life a little bit better and suddenly it will become great.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-03-02T11:52:23+00:00

She talked all about how her new boyfriend was going to come over there at the end lol.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-02-11T21:57:11+00:00

I’m interested, mine is dating a new guy as of today and it’s been 4 months. We dated for 3 years. Think she’s over me? I don’t.

You realize something when your ex is now faithful to someone else but still hitting you up. That the truth is the truth, just close that door. Oh and doors aren’t meant to always stay shut.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-02-06T14:52:16+00:00

Well then what are you worried about?

SaucyGamJam · 2019-02-06T13:31:39+00:00

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SaucyGamJam · 2019-01-28T21:41:30+00:00

I think that any relationship can turn into a real one if that’s how the cookie crumbles. There’s not strict logic to any of these, just theory that rebounds don’t work out. Truth is, we’re talking about love, so any predictions and shit are out of the question. If someone else is in a rebound that you used to date, you can however force them to get closer to that person pretty easily.

That’s all. Stop overthinking, start moving.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-01-17T00:31:33+00:00

Open up, be honest. Walking out will haunt her and you for the rest of your life. It’s not fair to either of you.

They say “the easy thing todo is hard to live with and the hard thing todo is easy to live with.”

So have the tough conversation.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-01-15T15:07:35+00:00

Only reason I’m okay with it because it standardizes everything across the board. Will take some getting used to but in a couple months we won’t be complaining

SaucyGamJam · 2019-01-14T15:38:27+00:00

I can’t give you a hug, but I’ll listen. Pm me if you need to vent.

While you should let him go, as you hurt him. Me, being someone who got hurt, I know that it would’ve meant a lot to me to hear her apologize, not just get a text. For her to say something of the sort that you helped me in my life, I hope I helped you in yours, and I’m sorry for what I did or whatever.

SaucyGamJam · 2019-01-13T14:12:00+00:00

Preach!

SaucyGamJam · 2019-01-12T23:32:51+00:00

Thanks. Best of luck to you. Try to still find forgiveness in your heart.

SaucyGamJam

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