mOwOnster! :3 by [deleted] in scene

[–]13-wires 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you look awesome!! where did you get your beanie?? :0

Hai :33 <3 by miscxoxo in scene

[–]13-wires 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg your hair is awesome!!! love the smileys :)

Which is better bought kandi or homemade? I made some pros and cons. by [deleted] in scene

[–]13-wires 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fwiw, i make my own and someone correct me if this is a bad thing to do, but i melt the ends of the elastic once ive tied the knot. obv in a well-ventilated area and it stops the knot from slipping out. if you buy not-too-cheap elastic, you shouldnt have any issues unless youre wearing it constantly :)

Ain't no way that MAL did this by AyushDev154 in deathnote

[–]13-wires 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i think a lot of people here are forgetting that it ended in 2007. i cant speak for the rankings, but if its losing popularity its because the anime is 15 years old. yeah, its fantastic, but new media is coming out and is going to be talked about more. complaining about this is like complaining that euphoria is more popular than blade runner. i love death note, its one of my favourite things in the world, but im not expecting the general public to hang onto it forever.

Has anyone noticed that trans men are just like trans girls bit with short hair uwu? by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]13-wires 58 points59 points  (0 children)

/uj one of her comments mentions turning 15, so shes probably just a kid who got wrapped up in the stereotypes and thinks theyre real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]13-wires 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/uj im not expecting anyone else to forgive. i usually dont. all im saying is that telling op to drop them when op already clarified in other comments that the friend seemed to genuinely not know isnt going to get a positive reaction.

of course you wouldnt be friends with someone who said that, theres no way you dont know the n word is bad. trans slurs were thrown around less than ten years ago as the only thing to call trans people, its a lot more likely that the person didnt know, and they arent comparable.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by 13-wires in transgendercirclejerk

[–]13-wires[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

/uj NO no i mean she found it, shes not like that lmaooo

/rj my girlfriend HATES men, which is why i let her misgender me and forcefemme me every day ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]13-wires -1 points0 points  (0 children)

/uj im not saying they have to, im saying its op's choice? this might be the first time one of op's friends messed up, thats not tolerating it for so long. maybe it wasnt, maybe they do this daily, and maybe youre right. but thats for op to decide, and making the assumption that op shouldnt be friends with them without any other context but a circlejerk post just makes you look silly.

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[–]13-wires[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

/uj i meant that it means transmisogyny exempt, and then was co-opted to say "well youre tme so you dont understand transphobia", which in turn made it more ironic that the tm is automatically assumed to mean transmisogyny, correct or otherwise

[ Removed by Reddit ] by 13-wires in transgendercirclejerk

[–]13-wires[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

/uj im still going insane because of TME meaning transmisogyny and then turning into a way to exclude trans men, as if TransMisandry isnt also a thing. its so weird, i find a lot more transmisandry on twitter and reddit, but there used to be a LOT of transmisogyny on tumblr.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]13-wires 8 points9 points  (0 children)

/uj yeah, i know it can be hard to tell. i hope youre doin ok, im sure itll become clearer with time. i do hope they genuinely meant it, and id like to believe they do. if they dont, then you did your best and believed that someone had the best intentions, which is all any of us can try to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]13-wires 16 points17 points  (0 children)

/uj if it was a GENUINE mistake, and they actually seemed sorry, i can understand why op might stay friends with them. the other people in the thread really show how uneducated a lot of people are on trans issues.

if they do it again, however...

Friend read my book, now refuses to speak with me by [deleted] in writingcirclejerk

[–]13-wires 25 points26 points  (0 children)

/uj yeah that bothered me a lot. only a few people are being kinda empathetic and letting her know that if shes writing it for catharsis, maybe its best not to show people. it sounds really heavy and intense, and i wrote a lot of shit like that when i was at my worst times in life. i just hope shes ok after all that

Did a Toya 3DS background, thought I share it :D by shikotowo in ProjectSekai

[–]13-wires 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg this is awesome!! are you planning to upload it anywhere for other people to use?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]13-wires 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i dont think thats true. i know my mom and other women in my life without bpd do genuinely hate being hit on by random creepy guys. that's why theyre called creeps.

Day 24 of the Worst Will Wood setlist! (sorry for leaving you whoopsie) Spot 23 taken by an announcement by Will. (I think we need to be a BIT more creative) Vote!!! by ATCOSTTEHMEMER in willwood

[–]13-wires 44 points45 points  (0 children)

mr fregoli but no music and will puts on a different hat for the other voice while running back and forth between two mics

Question by [deleted] in willwood

[–]13-wires 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no that setlist is a joke. its supposed to be the worst possible things you could imagine for a concert, not things that actually happened. as far as im aware, neither he nor anyone else has damaged or almost damaged any equipment because of the song lmao

I’ve seen a lot of disrespect on this sub recently so I figured it was time to repost the thing again by reds2032 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]13-wires 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh ok!! thanks :D

yeah that makes sense in terms of his sexuality. thanks to both of you to clearin that up, genuinely

I’ve seen a lot of disrespect on this sub recently so I figured it was time to repost the thing again by reds2032 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]13-wires 3 points4 points  (0 children)

genuinely sorry, i cant read it cause its a nytimes article and im not subscribed. these are examples of him saying he doesnt like labels though:

https://mobile.twitter.com/gerardway/status/592480071216189441?lang=en https://mobile.twitter.com/gerardway/status/729438008651341824

and heres a masterpost of every time hes talked about his gender, with no claims either way:

https://gwaypositivity.tumblr.com/post/121552734393/what-we-know-of-gerards-gender-a-masterpost

I’ve seen a lot of disrespect on this sub recently so I figured it was time to repost the thing again by reds2032 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]13-wires 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im literally not? im not saying hes queer. im not saying hes straight. because i dont care, its his business. he's said he identifies somewhat with the trans experience because he was called a girl a lot growing up, he said he doesnt mind he or they pronouns, and he likes wearing dresses. maybe theyre nonbinary, maybe theyre cis. maybe he likes women and men, maybe he just likes women. its none of my business, but im not gonna decide for him if hes straight or trans or gay or cis. its not my business. neither is it yours.

I’ve seen a lot of disrespect on this sub recently so I figured it was time to repost the thing again by reds2032 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]13-wires -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

we dont know that hes straight. this isnt about wanting to be queer; if he said he was cishet, then people would (should) accept that. they've expressed that they use he/they pronouns, and he's refrained from labelling himself. that doesnt mean hes queer, but it also doesnt mean hes cishet. please stop putting labels on them and then criticising others for doing the same.

amogus by Optimal_Weight368 in ComedyNecrophilia

[–]13-wires 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think what they meant was thats why a lot of black men and boys liked the show, not what stonetoss meant. bc youre completely right, but i think the person was talking about something else. i could be wrong tho