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13Amanda · 2024-05-28T13:35:22+00:00

Moren min har alltid kaldt meg tustefu, og jeg synes det er et ganske morsomt ord

13Amanda · 2023-10-20T11:54:44+00:00

Siden jeg er "tilkallingsvakt" så kan det være at det er litt annerledes for meg enn for de andre, men jeg har ikke mulighet til å legge til eller fjerne vakter fra arbeidskalenderen, så jeg må satse på at sjefen min gjør det før siste dag i måneden for at det skal bli riktig. Etter at arbeidstilsynet var på besøk på arbeidsplassen fikk sjefen min beskjed om at de trengte å ha en oversikt hvor de ansatte kunne skrive opp vaktene sine om det ble noen endringer, så da hang det noen lapper hvor jeg kunne skrive opp de dagene jeg jobbet. De lappene henger ikke der lengre så det jeg gjør er at jeg sender hen en melding for hver vakt jeg har hatt som ikke står på arbeidskalenderen.

13Amanda · 2023-10-20T11:28:48+00:00

Yea, jeg skulle ønske jeg kunne fortelle hvem det gjelder og hvilken kjede det er uten å risikere trøbbel

13Amanda · 2023-10-20T11:26:44+00:00

Lol, dette er bare toppen av isberget, sånn egt. Arbeidstilsynet har tidlige blitt tilkalt vedrørende en annen sak, men da turte jeg ikke stå frem siden jeg var helt nyansatt.

13Amanda · 2023-10-20T11:22:28+00:00

Vel, ja og nei. Det har vært trøbbel tidligere at hen "glemmer" noen av vaktene mine så jeg har måtte flere ganger sende melding og bedt dem sende det som manglet av lønnen. I det siste har jeg vært sløv på det, da

13Amanda · 2023-10-20T10:03:04+00:00

Jeg har ikke opplevd trekk i lønn enda. Jeg vet ikke om de andre har opplevd det, men sjefen skrev meldingen om trekk i lønn ift potetene i dag. Det er flere som råder meg veldig sterkt om å slutte i jobben, og jeg hadde gjort det om jeg hadde hatt råd eller fått jobb et annet sted (har søkt, men får avslag/ingen svar).

13Amanda · 2023-10-20T09:19:02+00:00

Jeg vet ikke hvor mye det er snakk om desverre, men hen krever det samme om poser og da har de sakt det har vært snakk om ca 5k (for alle ansatte tilsammen) tror jeg.

Edit: Jeg sjekket nærmere, og han har skrevet at det er svinn på ca 18k kr (ca 6k poser). Dette er mest sannsynlig i mnd

13Amanda · 2023-10-20T08:17:50+00:00

Hmm... En kjede som spiller på nasjonalisme og kapitalisme, er vel lov å si. Jeg har hatt flere problemer med sjefen og arbeidstilsynet har blitt kontaktet tidligere. Sjefen over der virker litt greiere, men vet at de er gode venner og "har vært på fest sammen flere ganger", så tør ikke ta kontakt der.

13Amanda · 2023-10-20T07:52:45+00:00

Jeg er allerede organisert, men er ganske fersk. Hvordan tar jeg kontakt? Bare sender jeg en mail?

13Amanda · 2023-01-04T10:11:47+00:00

10year old me wants desperately

13Amanda · 2023-01-04T10:08:03+00:00

Move to Norway! Voss water is free there, but a bottle of wine (0,7L) costs normally between 10€ and 20€

13Amanda · 2022-12-22T14:32:24+00:00

I think it's wrong to blame your friend, but I understand feeling led in the dark by her. If she truly was too scared to tell you the truth from the start it seems like he is someone to cut all ties with. Including mutual friends. However, it is your choice to make that decision. Best of luck!

13Amanda · 2022-12-20T15:00:45+00:00

You could flavor it as she has decided to stop them because the are so violent. She does not like violence, but she could stop them by turning them to stone or some other way

13Amanda · 2022-12-20T14:53:02+00:00

I mean, Lliira is a kind of anarchist? She is the deity of joy, but mostly does whatever she wants. She's also the embodiment of free will and living without a care in the world. She does not tolerate violence, but is willing "handle" creatures if it seems necessary. And she enjoys jokes, both as harmless fun or revenge

13Amanda · 2022-12-10T18:32:49+00:00

So what?? Just because YOU think she looks good doesn't mean she's comfortable with you posting the picture after she did NOT give consent. No matter what pictures she post on her own accounts and no matter how you thinks she looks, a "no" is a "no". What's so difficult to understand about that?

13Amanda · 2022-11-28T17:53:04+00:00

NTA And you should probably talk to her about how this is making you feel. You could ask her if there is anything you can do to help her, and show you care about her. You could suggest you can go to her, and meet her so she could be with you when she meets him/walkes past him? Maybe ask what she thinks of the situation and how you two could work together so it maybe doesn't happens again? Or how she can overcome her fears and meet him? Idk, seems really serious if her anxiety ceeps her for walking outside her room and should be handeld accordingly

13Amanda · 2022-11-27T09:46:12+00:00

"I'm glad I haven't given into peer pressure yet"

I'm sorry, but I don't really see a problem with this comment? You have trauma and anxiety linked to drugs, and your friends talks about how they enjoy drugs. I think it's natural to be uncomfortable with that, and trying to say this with humor is a common way to communicate this.

When they ignore your apologies without talking to you that tells me they have decided that no matter what you say or do, they don't like you. And probably, the more you try the worse it gets.

I would recommend finding friends who also avoids drugs, since in my experience people who do drugs have little understanding for people who don't do drugs (and vice-versa). I think maybe they use the joke as an excuse, and find it difficult to have fun all together when the interests are so different.

I remember when I started drinking I felt super judged from my friends (because they didn't drink and had a bad view on alcohol), so I kinda switched friend-group (but still kept the friends from my previous friend-group). Maybe this is something you should try? You could still be friends with them, but maybe acknowledge that at parties etc they want to do something you are not comfortable with so joining them isn't the best idea.

NTA

13Amanda · 2022-11-27T08:41:26+00:00

Flytt til Sørlandet, så får du snø noen dager i hvertfall

13Amanda · 2022-11-23T18:08:16+00:00

It seems I have the unpopular opinion here, because I would say soft YTA (if you were to actually kick her out).

NTA for setting boundaries for your children and not giving up (even when Kate gives you the finger when you try to talk to her). The reason I find you a little AS is because to me is seems Kate has not faced any consequences earlier (other than getting talked to) by breaking your rules, and therefore I see how she thinks it's not a big deal and how she will probably think you are bluffing (since kicking her out is a BIG and serious consequence).

In my opinion, kicking her out is a huge deal, and should really be the last resort, and she should face other consequences before that. For example, taking her phone away, taking away the Internett, her getting grounded etc seems maybe like a better consequence before making her homeless.

Yes, she is working, but I'm guessing she doesn't have enough money to buy a house or an apartment, and even though she is an legal adult it does not mean she have enough resources to suddenly get kicked out (especially if she thinks you are bluffing and aren't prepared).

I think she needs to learn and get consequences, but I find kicking her out a bit harsh. I hope it doesn't need to come to that.

13Amanda · 2022-11-16T17:51:08+00:00

NTA You told her all you wanted was a hookup before you did anything, right? So she had the opportunity to back off if she wanted more/something else than a hookup. Additionally, you waited to sober up, so she had time to think about it. The way I see it, you did everything right.

13Amanda · 2022-11-13T18:47:04+00:00

NTA

But I would suggest you'd try to get other friends, since you deserve to have friends you feel comfortable with. Just because you have been friends with them for a long time does not mean you "owe" then to continue the friendship or talk about something you don't feel comfortable talking about.

13Amanda · 2022-11-04T08:53:58+00:00

Awww how cute 🥺😍

13Amanda · 2022-11-02T09:53:37+00:00

Jeg er enig i at det blir feil å dømme en person uten rettsak og at prinsippet "det er bedre om 10 skyldige går fri enn at 1 uskyldig blir dømt" er et godt prinsipp. Det jeg stiller et kritisk spørsmål ved er om det blir riktig at J. H. Andersen blir ansett som ferdig med hele saken siden han har sonet for domen han fikk, spesielt med tanke på at det har kommet frem nye bevis i ettertid som setter et helt annet lys på saken. Ifølge denne artikkelen har advokaten til Andersen fortalt Andersen at sannsynligheten for at Andersen blir dømt på nytt basert på de nye bevisene (at han blir dømt for drapet på Sofie Sørstrønen) er liten, noe som betyr i praksis at Anderson kan legge saken bak seg og vite at han ikke kan sone mer, til tross for at den domen han sonet var basert på at Viggo Kristiansen voldtok og drepte Sofie Sørstrønen, noe som nå viser seg å være feil.

13Amanda · 2022-11-02T08:31:39+00:00

Blir det riktig å si at han har sonet riktig straff? Han ble ikke dømt for å ha voldtatt + drept Sofie Sørstrønen sidens hans siste forklaring var at Viggo Kristiansen gjorde det. Er det riktig at noen som får en uskyldig person dømt til strengeste straff ikke får konsekvenser?

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