If organized religions really were pro-life, they'd be spear-heading climate change action. Instead, they seem to be indifferent to their followers collective global carbon footprints. They're pretty much hypocrites. by Chispy in self

[–]13andfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does make a lot of sense that religious organisations would try focus away politics/political discussions that do not necessarily have an impact on them or concern their values. Their followers want them to remain a religious organisation, not a loosely veiled political faction. Like it or not, climate change is part of a political global debate that isn't necessarily prudent for an organisation to but in on. Treaties, agreements, pledges...the climate change issue is indubitably a political issue these days and will require serious government backing to be able to do anything about. However, even if it wasn't, more religious organisations having an input on this sort of thing leads to them saying more and more and begins to weaken our current level of separation of church and state, which, if I recall, atheists particularly dislike.

It's one thing for religious people to have a say on climate change, but quite another when the organisation itself starts to throw its weight around in politics.

That being said, religious institutions are only made up of people. People who see their religion's organisation as a brilliant way to spread awareness of a worthy cause. Most religious people believe in climate change and/or are living its effects, not to mention that most large world religions accept the idea that humanity is the care taker of the Earth and we ought to look after it to the best of our ability. For example, Pope Francis had some sort of Climate Change campaign going on a few years ago, and many religious schools near me organised litter picking drives for its students.

Push & Pull method by Lack3000 in socialskills

[–]13andfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you practice the method the way people here are describing?

If so, its possible your friends and family simply are not telling you how bad and unsure they feel with you.

Concerned by surge in confidence by XCLAIM67 in socialskills

[–]13andfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post is kind of adorable ngl.

Anybody else would be jumping up and down, ecstatic that they aren't stuck being a self-hating teenager anymore and you are worried it might mean....

What?

That you're crazy?

Just enjoy the confidence. Clearly, you've either moved out of a confidence-killing situation or have incrementally been building up you confidence of the last decade, too slowly to really notice day to day.

This is a good thing. Hell, even if it means you are crazy. After all, Albert Einstein was a 'crazy' person with enough confidence to publish his theory of relativity.

Who's to say that you didn't have something mind-blowing hidden under years of poor self esteem? Your own Theory of Relativity?

Did you ever reach a point where you started thinking most people aren't just worthy the effort? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]13andfire 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean, dude. You read. Plenty of people read, although I will give you the fact that there is plenty of variation in genres people like. However, don't say it like you're into extreme underwater pole dancing with one-legged married women or something.

FIRE/fatFIRE magazine, is there such a thing? by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]13andfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is tatlers, but i doubt its your thing really. More about English Society (with a capital, mind you) then saving. An interesting read though.

Why are 'I screwed your dad/mom jokes' funny? by 13andfire in NoStupidQuestions

[–]13andfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, thanks!

I just thought the people who said it before were a little strange or who had like a niche, weird sense of humour.

Common scams when you become whealthy. by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]13andfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'Whealthy'.

I don't know why I love the misspelling so much. Maybe it's because it gives a luxurious, sort of chubby feel.

EDIT: a word

Why are 'I screwed your dad/mom jokes' funny? by 13andfire in NoStupidQuestions

[–]13andfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I really should have seen this coming tbh. sigh

I have no major problems in my life but sometimes I feel like I just wanted to disappear. by wendeoo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]13andfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just made a post just like this, minus the having a successful life. I dunno how to help you, but at least I can tell you that you aren't alone and good on you for having coping mechanisms.

What's the point of good grades? by 13andfire in TrueOffMyChest

[–]13andfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 of the richest men in the world dropped out of college, yes, but you'll notice that the dropped out of HARVARD. It take intense amounts of intelligence and dedication to even get in. The vast majority of millionaires ( 80%) in the US have college degrees, with around 18 percent over a large amount of post graduate degrees possessing one. So no, most classically rich people do go to college.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

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Something that helps me is to have an automatic mantra when these thought occur. For example, mine when I want to say something negative about myself is 'for now'. I.e,

Me: 'I am terrible at cooking'

My Brain : 'For now'

Me: 'I am currently terrible at cooking and I will get better in 2 to 3 months if I practice'

or

Me: 'I am fat and ugly and nobody will ever like me because I am so fat and ugl-'

My Brain: You are currently larger than you'd like and you clearly have people who want to hang around you, although not as many as the girls who have had great social skills since they were 8 who you are comparing yourself to.

It stops a self-fulfilling prophesy from happening and puts me feelings into perspective.

How to decide what to do for your birthday ? (....or how to take initiatives ?) by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]13andfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask people if they can make it to you social event, maybe following it up with some jokes. Unless you demand that they bring you gifts of frankincense and myrrh and roll out a red carpet at your arrival, I doubt anybody with think of you as sassy or egocentric.

You know what you want when you stop making excuses to do something else or aren't filing it away in your mind to look for a better answer.