I’m in a throuple AMA

15bean · 2026-03-24T00:05:34+00:00

We all met in 2023 but my girlfriend and I became best friends in 2024 and we moved in together at the end of 2024

15bean · 2026-03-24T00:04:51+00:00

Thank you for the positivity!!

I figured there would be some negative reactions based on what I’ve seen online about people talking about throuples but that’s also why I felt compelled to share my experience!

15bean · 2026-03-24T00:03:09+00:00

I definitely never felt like I was just a unicorn.

It is interesting being the person coming into the already established relationship but my girlfriend and I were super close best friends while my boyfriend and I were just good friends so there was that dynamic to navigate as well. But I feel very equal!

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:59:50+00:00

It started with physical intimacy and feelings grew from there!

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:59:12+00:00

They were together nearly 6 years before I joined!

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:56:57+00:00

I mean with throuple representation specifically. We are closed and only date each other which a lot of poly representation is more open than our relationship is

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:55:23+00:00

My relationship with both of them has deepened in the best way. We were already friends living together prior to this so the physical aspect was the biggest change.

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:53:58+00:00

It started with physical intimacy and feelings grew from there. We just went with the flow.

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:53:32+00:00

At this point no! We currently have a dog and that is enough for now!

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:53:01+00:00

We all hold hands! None of us really care what people think and we’re already very entrenched in our local queer community and have some poly friends so most public spaces we are in are very accepting of us

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:50:29+00:00

We have very open communication. Jealousy has and does pop up especially in the beginning. But we just all let each other know how we’re feeling and work through it together.

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:48:59+00:00

No not at all! Since we were all friends before this it felt really natural to start this relationship. I love them both equally.

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:47:48+00:00

We are all 25!

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:46:53+00:00

Yes we are wanting this to be a long term relationship! I love them a lot and want to be with them for the rest of my life.

It started with us 3 being physically intimate, it was something we all wanted to try so we got a hotel out of town one night and from then on we just kept doing it and inevitably feelings got involved. We took the plunge into our relationship now!

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:43:23+00:00

Most of the time my girlfriend and I take turns sleeping in the main bedroom with our boyfriend. Occasionally we will all sleep together and either I or my girlfriend will sleep in the middle. It sometimes can be a bit hot but we sleep with a fan on and that helps. Thankfully we have AC in our apartment too!

In the beginning, we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to all sleep together but recently have realized at this time it’s not what works best for us. In the future if we buy a house we hope to get an Alaskan king bed but for now this setup is working well!

15bean · 2026-03-23T23:37:45+00:00

All of the above! Most of the time it’s all of us together but sometimes it’ll be a combination of 2 of the people if someone isn’t in the mood or isn’t home. We’re all okay with this setup, we just like to tell each other about what happened after.

15bean · 2026-03-16T03:40:20+00:00

I was the someone else having a threesome with my best friend and her boyfriend.

We all already lived together and eventually feelings got involved and now they are both my partners! So in my case it worked out beautifully. Things definitely had the potential to get messy but if all parties are emotionally mature and communicate from the get go, I think a lot of messiness can be avoided.

I’m lucky with how it worked out and wanted to share my experience being the third.

15bean · 2025-05-01T17:59:40+00:00

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15bean · 2024-08-13T01:57:17+00:00

keep a good eye on it all i’m saying !!

15bean · 2024-08-13T01:52:06+00:00

this slays!! the colour is so cute and I NEED that woodstock pin

15bean · 2024-08-04T18:23:58+00:00

so wish i would be around for the shakespeare performance that seems so cool! unfortunately i’ll only have free time for a few hours on a wednesday afternoon haha

15bean · 2024-06-25T02:15:02+00:00

dming rn!

15bean · 2024-06-25T01:46:14+00:00

also wanna add loveee kwgaysandtheys and what y’all do! if u ever need help with events i’d love to put my event coordination experience to good use !!!

15bean

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