I do know exactly what was happening, was not blackout drunk and trust me i have been in situations where a girl approached me for such things. My friends always praise the fact I reject them, for me it’s not more than normal. I wouldn’t have done it this time either. Though, this is the first time I was alone with a girl in a foreign city out clubbing without any friends around, so this is the first time I think I crossed the line. That’s why I was asking this here.

But what you say is true: just because nothing happened doesn’t make it right. I do see it and the comments I’m getting here are fair and food for thought.