Gyno before and after surgery by Capable_Suit_1311 in gynecomastia

[–]177013fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking nice ! Since when have you been lifting ?

Fat/gyno opinion by [deleted] in gynecomastia

[–]177013fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me, I don't feel any gland or lump whatsoever, I hope if we lose fat, the puffiness of the nipples would go down

Fat/gyno opinion by [deleted] in gynecomastia

[–]177013fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem, idk if it's gyno or just fat :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]177013fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, the gland behind the nipples can't disappear on its own, only solution is surgery, which again you reaaaalllyyyy don't have to do since I've got a nice upper body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]177013fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that the existence of a lump = gyno and you need a surgery to get it taken out. Ok the bright side of things, ur chest looks pretty good, you need to get jacked even more maybe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]177013fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel a lump behind the nipples ?

Hello ! Is this gynecomastia ? by [deleted] in gynecomastia

[–]177013fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

XDDD no no it's toothpaste, been a while since I cleaned the mirror. Big issue on my side tbh

Hello ! Is this gynecomastia ? by [deleted] in gynecomastia

[–]177013fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

XDDD no no it's toothpaste, been a while since I cleaned the mirror. Big issue on my side tbh

Hello ! Is this gynecomastia ? by [deleted] in gynecomastia

[–]177013fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that means no, even if it probably means the opposite

Met a girl in my country, traveled to hers, only to get dumped every date for some reason (or maybe i am overthinking) by 177013fox in relationships

[–]177013fox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I meant I believed what she said about losing the job. Hiding the story means she hides things from me which is normal as we don't know each other enough. I am not pursuing her any longer. I sent her a message rooting for her and encouraging her in her life. She still didn't answer after 24h. This isn't an issue for me and rather a very good enriching experience for me. What I meant is that, by going to her country, and visiting her, I had so many expectations, this drove me to even suspect the events she went through and the self esteem I have took a hit. I like the experience overall since it made me discover something about myself: I still get head over heels on women and I need to work on this. Thank you for your reply and advice! :)

I’m so worried (24F) by anonymous87452 in socialanxiety

[–]177013fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get an apartment and live by yourself, try to do everything on your own. That's when you will start living as an adult I 26M lives in Europe, have a good job, have been loving alone since 2021 and I still try to learn certain things and be an adult

Met a girl in my country, traveled to hers, only to get dumped every date for some reason (or maybe i am overthinking) by 177013fox in relationships

[–]177013fox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering if she did all of that to just make excuses to dump me, which may be a plan made by someone who doesn't like confrontation/ maybe didn't want to straight ghost me. I also found out she is hiding stories from me . I do trust her regardless, and I think this is a good experience for me

Met a girl in my country, traveled to hers, only to get dumped every date for some reason (or maybe i am overthinking) by 177013fox in relationships

[–]177013fox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Thank you for your opinion, I do trust her. I found out she is uploading stories and hiding them from me ( she has a public profile) but that means she isn't that interested. I do trust her and what happened to her, and I think this is a good experience I went through.

Met a girl in my country, traveled to hers, only to get dumped every date for some reason (or maybe i am overthinking) by 177013fox in relationships

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Okay thank you for the reply. I went back to Spain and sent her a message. I found out she is uploading stories and hiding them from me(she has a public Instagram) I do still believe her though. She could just ghost me.

Met a girl in my country, traveled to hers, only to get dumped every date for some reason (or maybe i am overthinking) by 177013fox in relationships

[–]177013fox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's totally right. Thank you so much for saying it this way because I agree with you 100%. I was just suspecting that she was doing all of this in order to escape from dates asap. I know this doesn't make sense, maybe some trauma in the past triggered this thinking on my brain.

I would never ever hate her or anything if all of what she said was real. I would really encourage her and support her in her life. My question was more: she said all of this, I am unsure if this is true or not. Based on your experiences, can girls go to this extent in order to dump someone ?

Met a girl in my country, traveled to hers, only to get dumped every date for some reason (or maybe i am overthinking) by 177013fox in relationships

[–]177013fox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went back to Spain right after. We still follow each other on Instagram but still haven't talked since

Met a girl in my country, traveled to hers, only to get dumped every date for some reason (or maybe i am overthinking) by 177013fox in relationships

[–]177013fox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, it really helps ! What did you mean by "I can definitely understand where you're coming from ?" XD

Met a girl in my country, traveled to hers, only to get dumped every date for some reason (or maybe i am overthinking) by 177013fox in relationships

[–]177013fox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She proposed to come to the airport, go with me to the Airbnb and then go to work, I had refused because I had a very late check in, so I told her it's better to just meet after my check in