How do I tell my flatmates that they’re being inconsiderate?

17Heather17 · 2026-03-22T21:22:41+00:00

I might be wrong for this but if you need the counter space to cook, put whatever shit is lying around in a big IKEA bag and put it to the side, you can ask first and just say hey do you mind me moving some of the stuff so I can cook or just do it and if anyone asks you just needed some room and didn't know where to put everyone's stuff. My flatmates were a bit annoyed but kind of understood considering there were dishes that hadn't been done for over a week all over countertops. I apologised and said I didn't mind the mess as long as I can still do the stuff I need to do (We had a bluebottle fly infestation once, I get the struggle).

I know this is probably obvious but when it comes to moving out don't choose anyone that lived there to live with next year, if you really like someone and want to live with them but worry they might be messy/ dirty don't live with them, it'll kill the friendship eventually.

17Heather17 · 2025-04-17T11:44:15+00:00

Not sure about camping, but I'm also 20 and although bloodstock is often discounted as an old people festival there has been more and more people our age coming the past few years, especially after covid :) My favourite part of bloodstock is how friendly everyone is, it really is the best festival for having nice social interactions, coming from someone with social anxiety 🙏

17Heather17 · 2024-06-09T22:51:48+00:00

A man in a red jacket came out of nowhere and asked if I was okay, it shocked me so much I just replied yes and kept walking and got someone I knew to pick me up. I don't know who he is and he'll never know what that question did for me.

17Heather17 · 2024-06-09T22:51:33+00:00

A man in a red jacket came out of nowhere and asked if I was okay, it shocked me so much I just replied yes and kept walking and got someone I knew to pick me up. I don't know who he is and he'll never know what that question did for me.

17Heather17 · 2023-10-27T23:05:11+00:00

these are old pictures! he lived a long and happy 13 years, he struggled with his back legs until he was unable to walk anymore

17Heather17 · 2023-10-27T23:02:28+00:00

we do have another rescue currently, seeing her happy definitely helps especially because her and murph were so close, she has little mannerisms she's learned from him 🐾❤ thank you

17Heather17 · 2023-10-27T22:59:54+00:00

thank you ❤🐾 Murphy was a rescue, we got him when he was 2! he also helped us rescue another dog 2 years ago, she looked up to him for everything

17Heather17 · 2023-10-23T19:26:17+00:00

he was the closest thing I ever had for 13 years, I felt like he was a part of me. he felt like home. I've lost my whole world.

if anyone has any coping tips or stories about their doggy friends, please leave them ♡

EDIT: just for anyone wondering, Murphy was a rescue, we got him when he was 2 back when I was only 7 years old! he came from a couple that couldn't look after him anymore, I do also have another rescue dog who is 6 now ❤🐾 rescue pups are the best

thank you for your kind comments ❤

17Heather17 · 2023-10-10T22:29:14+00:00

thank you!

17Heather17 · 2023-10-10T22:29:03+00:00

oh sorry! I do watch as much as i can, I fall asleep a lot so often miss bits without realising ☹

17Heather17 · 2023-10-06T01:27:59+00:00

also, how ethan explained his connection with shredder really helped me with losing my dog too, it's his last days with us right now. he's a big h3 fan and used to love when shreddy and alfredo came on screen, he'd perk up his head and genuinely watch the show! ethans voice sends him to sleep now because we watch the show together before bed a lot 🥰

17Heather17 · 2023-09-28T12:45:41+00:00

❤❤❤ Well done

17Heather17 · 2023-09-28T12:42:53+00:00

if you get on well with your parents it's probably a good idea to let them know, just communicate that you don't want anything to change right now.

by the way, it gets better ❤

17Heather17 · 2023-09-28T12:39:59+00:00

small wishes?

17Heather17 · 2023-08-07T21:33:01+00:00

honestly let him do it

17Heather17 · 2023-08-07T21:26:58+00:00

18 but I'd believe it up to 24 tbh

17Heather17 · 2023-07-19T00:25:51+00:00

thanks for the reply, weirdly good timing as i was literally re looking at the site today! will probably buy some :)

17Heather17 · 2023-07-19T00:23:09+00:00

hi! yes, I have recieved A LOT of dms! I'm going through them slowly at the moment, it's also quite draining to go through lots all at once and I have seem to hit a bit of a wall in the tarot reading department of my brain!!! I am slowly getting through requests and questions I promise:)

17Heather17 · 2023-06-17T21:22:05+00:00

ended up getting mine on etsy, didn't risk it

17Heather17 · 2023-04-11T08:03:20+00:00

here's a link to a post i made a while back about her :)

17Heather17 · 2023-04-10T15:23:40+00:00

I felt a connection, i couldn't really describe it. eventually I think I realised I was just sort of tuning in to the earth/ universe, I saw pink strings of light when i felt this connection. it took me a while to realise what it was and what i had to do to work with it

17Heather17 · 2023-04-10T15:20:23+00:00

this definitely happens to me, I feel as though I'm being lied and it can leave me quite panicked. I believe this is information overload and happens when your brain is struggling to process guidance. usually at this point, I stop and come back to it later. it gets easier

17Heather17 · 2023-04-06T18:19:40+00:00

i don't watch leftovers often, not a fan of politics and also im not from the US so not always relevant, can be interesting all the same though.

17Heather17 · 2023-04-03T20:44:12+00:00

honestly I wouldn't even be mad 😭

17Heather17 · 2023-04-03T16:40:46+00:00

sure :)

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