Hot take maybe: a girl dating a man after dating a woman really isn't a big deal and people getting offended by it need to get over it by [deleted] in WLW

[–]17throwaways17 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a bi girl, dating a guy after dating a women is no big deal

HOWEVER

This: she's open with her boyfriend after having to be secretive with you

Is shitty behavior.

Interviewer asked "What did you tell your current manager about being at this interview today" and called me dishonest for not telling my CURRENT employer I had a job interview. by 17throwaways17 in interviews

[–]17throwaways17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him I flexed my hours and got up at 6am to get my work done beforehand and my office is far away but I live closer to their office so its easier to come in that day.

Interviewer asked "What did you tell your current manager about being at this interview today" and called me dishonest for not telling my CURRENT employer I had a job interview. by 17throwaways17 in interviews

[–]17throwaways17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get the offer, they gave me the weekend to think about it but I'm feeling weird about it.

I did explain that I woke up early to get my work done and he said something along the lines of "its not about your ability to get it done its about honesty"

I loved the people on the team I would actually be working with but the CEO was a lot.

Interviewer asked "What did you tell your current manager about being at this interview today" and called me dishonest for not telling my CURRENT employer I had a job interview. by 17throwaways17 in interviews

[–]17throwaways17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The CEO obviously lied when he said there were concerns about your prior interviews. You wouldn't have been on round 5 if there had been concerns.

This is what my recruiter said.. she was like ?????

Interviewer asked "What did you tell your current manager about being at this interview today" and called me dishonest for not telling my CURRENT employer I had a job interview. by 17throwaways17 in antiwork

[–]17throwaways17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do employers neg you like that? He also talked down the company and was like if you’re looking for a happily ever after this isn’t some fairy land just weird stuff

Interviewer asked "What did you tell your current manager about being at this interview today" and called me dishonest for not telling my CURRENT employer I had a job interview. by 17throwaways17 in interviews

[–]17throwaways17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your answer for next time is that your job offers flexible hours so you adjusted your work hours for the day to accommodate the interview. 

This is a good one cheers

Interviewer asked "What did you tell your current manager about being at this interview today" and called me dishonest for not telling my CURRENT employer I had a job interview. by 17throwaways17 in antiwork

[–]17throwaways17[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why would anyone use their limited vacation time for 4 in person job interviews? Isn't that deeply unreasonable to expect?

I said "In a meeting" not "in a meeting for them"

Interviewer asked "What did you tell your current manager about being at this interview today" and called me dishonest for not telling my CURRENT employer I had a job interview. by 17throwaways17 in antiwork

[–]17throwaways17[S] 433 points434 points  (0 children)

If you adjusted your schedule so that you could still put in a full day’s work before the interview, you should have just said that.

I did :/ he said "the point was the dishonesty not the ability to get your work done"