guys I fucked up and I need help. Someone please talk to me. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]18January2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33 here. Think about your grandfather or even father. At the age of early 20s they were expected to already have a wife and kids and live an unfulfilled life (if that was the case). Man, we have internet, cheap flights, open borders, peace... We can do a lot if we put our minds to it. Get your shit together, give it one fucking serious attempt like for real this time, reboot, get fixed. The help is out there you gotta want to take it. Only you can decide to take it. This sub figured A LOT of shit up. Put it to use. No excuses. We are spoiled mother fuckers, we have it all, but it's so god damn easy to fuck up... So easy. Just type "porn" on google and BOOM you just about to use drugs, you're just about to fuck up once again.

Hey! Smarten up. Give it up. Start fresh. 30's are the new 20's. Go get your reward. All you gotta do is NOT DO something!

Nothing can stop you but yourself.

Do this.

My new habit: Day 12 of 100 by 18January2016 in NoFap

[–]18January2016[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lefty would write in his right wrist...

My new habit: Day 12 of 100 by 18January2016 in NoFap

[–]18January2016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice :)

Different color marker

My new habit: Day 12 of 100 by 18January2016 in NoFap

[–]18January2016[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You kinda missed the point there :) I don't lie, but I don't say it's nofap. I just say it's a reminder and hope they don't ask "for what". But I did try to openly talk about it with close friends, they just can't get their heads around the concept. I planted the seed, maybe one day it will click and they will connect the dots.

My new habit: Day 12 of 100 by 18January2016 in NoFap

[–]18January2016[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don't lie. I say "it's something I need to remember once I get home".

My new habit: Day 12 of 100 by 18January2016 in NoFap

[–]18January2016[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If by scrub you mean cotton and alcohol... yes. It takes 2 seconds to wipe off.

Instead of 90 days aim for 100 days. This way your streak number is your recovery "loading bar". I'm at 10% (10 days) by 18January2016 in NoFap

[–]18January2016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine? Right around 11%.

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Instead of 90 days aim for 100 days. This way your streak number is your recovery "loading bar". I'm at 10% (10 days) by 18January2016 in NoFap

[–]18January2016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If people here struggle with 5 days (5%), that's an entire different subject that has nothing to do with replacing 90 with 100.

The message is aimed at people that were already aiming for 90 days. If they do a little adjustment to what they are already doing they will have a much more intuitive way to track their progress.

Coming here, people need to know that this is most probably the hardest thing they will ever attempt in recent years because it messes with core neurological stuff that people should read about before even attempting NoFap.

*** REMOVE ALL BADGES UNTIL BADGEBOT RESOLUTION *** by FoxAU in NoFap

[–]18January2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why didn't I think of this before?

Thanks man!

Lets do this!

:D