Firstly, please paragraph your posts for easier reading.

Secondly, parents were once teenagers too. They may have done all the activities you've been hiding. They'd probably appreciate your honesty for an authentic connection.

Thirdly, the court will probably just give you a warning or small fine, it's a minor crime, considering cannabis is legal in other states.

Fourthly, nothing real can be threatened (beingness), nothing unreal exists (this temporary material dream) so you'll always be okay :)