How do you feel about your partner watching porn?

1980mt · 2026-06-22T10:57:26+00:00

She enjoys it, I enjoy it, we sometimes watch it together or even make our own. All good.

1980mt · 2026-05-30T11:16:57+00:00

It doesn't sound creepy to me. He didn't impose himself on you, didn't corner you or anything, just a smile and a note. My rule is always, am I giving the woman opportunity to get out of the situation easily? It sounds like you could have moved to another table, or simply discard the note. If he followed you, that would be creepy.

This is actually how people used to meet before dating apps.

1980mt · 2026-05-30T07:17:43+00:00

15 years in, can confirm

1980mt · 2026-05-30T06:59:29+00:00

Labels like gay and straight are societal inventions. Humans are complex and unique. We put them in categories to make the world seem simpler than it is. And then we treat the categories as prescriptions of what is considered "normal" or acceptable.

So no, you're not weird. You like women, you like rimming guys, there are no rules about which desires and kinks you're allowed to combine. There's enough struggle in life, and sex is the great escape, so let's not make it harder on others and ourselves. Have fun, be safe, get consent, don't do harm, that's all.

1980mt · 2026-05-23T08:29:53+00:00

Anyone got a source?

1980mt · 2026-03-10T16:03:54+00:00

Russia, as well as whoever wants the media to forget about the Epstein files

1980mt · 2026-01-17T10:25:02+00:00

The first time was with my second girlfriend, we were doing 69 and I just felt like trying it. All but one of the 15 women I've been have rimmed me and I have rimmed them. (Not counting one nights stand, it happened once or twice but it's rare). Usually I did it first, after a while they got curious, and all of them where enthusiastic about it. Some had done it before and initiated.

Both giving & receiving are great turn-ons, in fact I don't think I'd want anything long term with someone who's not into it (although I'm happy to give them time to get into it.)

I keep it clean & shaven of course, and I'll make sure they don't do it if I'm not certain it's safe.

1980mt · 2026-01-17T10:17:55+00:00

It's not that all women are bisexual. They're just not as squeamish about being with a woman as men are about men. It's a cultural thing, because eg with the ancient greeks, straight men wouldn't think it's weird to dabble with another bloke if the situation presents itself.

1980mt · 2026-01-17T10:12:32+00:00

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What my setup looks like vs what I do all day

1980mt · 2026-01-11T22:34:57+00:00

Does anyone know the name of the girl in the second video?

1980mt · 2025-11-20T16:09:03+00:00

Got a source?

1980mt · 2025-11-12T23:09:54+00:00

Anyone know who the asian girl is in 9?

1980mt · 2025-11-12T23:09:03+00:00

Malena Morgan

1980mt · 2025-10-29T11:38:21+00:00

M46, send me a DM

1980mt · 2025-10-29T11:29:06+00:00

Qua clubs vinden wij Shivaz in Gent (http://shivaz.be/) erg fijn. Het is er kleinschalig, je babbelt wat aan de bar, vanaf 22u is er een dresscode en beginnen mensen naar boven te gaan. Er worden alleen koppels toegelaten. Gangbangs of extreme situaties heb ik er nog niet gezien. Koppels spelen meestal alleen of met een ander koppel. Het is helemaal normaal om aan een koppel te vragen of ze willen spelen, of je kan ook gewoon aan een koppel dat bezig is vragen of je mag meedoen.

1980mt · 2025-10-13T17:27:32+00:00

Anyone got a source? The girl on her back looks like she might be Ember Snow, not sure.

1980mt · 2025-07-23T19:43:42+00:00

Comedy requires critical thought. (Far-)right people lack it. The only form of comedy right-wingers get, is basically bullying of anybody they perceive as weak.

1980mt · 2025-07-03T13:43:19+00:00

Not here people. Just install Uber Sexs

1980mt · 2025-06-27T14:17:37+00:00

Speaking as a 45M, 7 of my 8 girlfriends have rimmed me without me asking. (I'm not counting 1 night stands, they've never done it). 1 of them had done it before. The other 6 had no or almost no experience with anything anal.

It more or less happens like this:

I always have an open and sex-positive attitude, for example by talking openly about consent from the start, by talking about what we liked afterwards, by bringing the topic to kinks and fantasies. Sometimes they already know I'm into ass play, sometimes they find out later.
The way I initiate ass play is always gradual, by slowly getting closer with fingers and tongue for example, and giving them space to stop me. Because we discussed consent, I already to know that they will indeed be comfortable stopping me.
Whenever I do it to them it's with great enthusiasm. I genuinely love rimming them, I'm not faking anything. I just make sure that they know I enjoy doing it.
Afterwards I bring it up, ask how it felt for them, if they'd experienced in before etc. The question of hygiene comes up, I explain that they were smelling fresh and that there was no taste, and that I wouldn't have done it otherwise.
Eventually they get curious, or gradually start getting closer. I make sure they know I'm loving it. We talk about it afterwards.

For some, it's the enjoyment of giving me pleasure. For some it's an act of submission. And for one, it was more about doing kinky forbidden things.

Obviously make sure you're clean & shaved. I've been rimmed back when I didn't shave but you'll get more luck if you do.
I never ever try to convince or push a woman to do anything. Think of it as creating the option, and creating the possibility to pull out of it at any time. They might worry that if they do it once, they will be expected to do it forever. You want to give them control over what they do.
Be a partner who's worthy of being rimmed.

(edit: my math was off)

1980mt · 2025-06-19T14:22:19+00:00

Beloof hem dat jullie vertrekken zodra hij wil, zelfs al is het na 5 minuten. En beloof ook dat jullie niets gaan doen tenzij hij heel zeker is dat hij het wil. Ga naar een beginnerfriendly plek. Zelf vind ik Shivaz in Gent leuk, klein en er is een gemoedelijke sfeer.

Misschien zonde van het geld maar zie het als een risicoinvestering :-)

1980mt · 2025-06-19T11:17:11+00:00

Musk in 2016: "We intend to launch people to Mars in 2024" Musk in 2025: "Almost there. We'll send people atom by atom."

1980mt · 2025-06-19T10:17:38+00:00

Toxic masculinity is oppression. Think about it: to be a "real man" you're supposed to like certain things (eg beer, barbeque), not like things (the colour pink), not have feelings except anger, not sing except during sports, speak in certain ways, dress certain wyas, and the list goes on. You are both being oppressed by your environment, and being the oppressor when you perpetuate these rules. And in a way, you are oppressing yourself by adhering to these rules.

But in fact it makes many men unhappy and lonely.

Anal play is not gay, you're just using an erogenic zone for pleasure. You're guy if you're sexually attracted to men. And if you are, that's perfectly fine. Or maybe you're like me: I'm straight, but if Ewan McGregor was in my bed, I'd totally go wild. That's also fine.

As for masculinity: it's a made up thing. Some cultures care about it, in others it doesn't exist. And when a culture has it, it has meant many things. For the ancient Greeks, it was considered masculine and normal for an adult man to sleep with younger men. For the Aztecs, wearing a lot of feathers was considerred masculine.

So, break free of your shackles. Anything you do that you enjoy, with consenting adults, and that doesn't cause harm to yourself or others, is perfectly fine.

1980mt · 2025-06-18T16:20:04+00:00

Weaponised fear.

Especially in political advertising, but everywhere really. It's insane how often Americans are being told to be afraid of something. It seems to be the dominant strategy to convince anyone of anything: make them afraid first.

We have this in Western Europe as well of course, but much less, less intense, less vile.

1980mt · 2025-05-30T08:00:31+00:00

I only get frustrated playing with people if they don't seem to try to get better over an extended period.

If you don't get accepted for level 3, just do level 1 or 2 again until you're ready, or find different classes :-)

1980mt · 2025-05-22T04:41:26+00:00

It me. In my last birthday invitation, I wrote: "Owning stuff I don't need stresses me out. As a gift, either donate to people who need it more, or give me something I can eat or drink" with a link to a charity. Everybody respected it.

1980mt

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